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Yes, it tell me that a girl does not care about her health and appearance. If you really manage and take good care of your body weight, than I am more inclined to date the girl. I have dated girls that are overweight, and I really find that they are insecure about them self. I got a lot of attuide of overweight girls. It was bad , and I am sure that some are nice.
If you didn't like them why date them? -_-"
Because I don't judge people and I wanted to have the experiences first.. Once, I had the experiences than I wascable to draw on my conclusions.
It shows a lack of self-discipline, and it looks bad. I don't like it.
My mom is the same way
As in, she hates to listen to Adele because it makes her think of lack of self discipline
There's a difference between being curvy, or having an "endomorphic" body type, and being fat. Women often confuse the two.
Guys could care less. If he really likes you, then he would care for your personality not physical appearance
Yes, and looks are important.
Looking good invites the guys over.
But what makes them STAY is your personality.
Its not a huge deal, but would have to be less than me. I'm a big guy though so thats not all that hard.
What does "big guy" mean to you? So you wouldn't date a female who is heavier then you?
I'm 235lbs. I might consider dating a girl bigger than that but I doubt it.
But some girls can weigh a lot but look like they weigh way less..
Like I said I would consider it. I know a few girls a bit over 200lbs that I could see myself dating, but much bigger than that would be pushing it.
Even if the girl had a bomb ass personality? like if the girl weighed over 250, but had the most amazing personality, would you date her?
Probably. It might become an issue but personality is most important.
people like do not generally care unless you do not try to take care of yourself. if you dont we won't bother. we look for somebody who is strong and won't give in because of a lack of faith in themselves. Keep trying no matter what.
No it is the woman, not the weight and if a guy judges his woman based on her flaws. He is not a real man
I congratulate you! You are absolutely right!
I agree! This was the best answe so far!
Nope, wrong. Weight is not a flaw, you chose to eat that much and you can loose it just as easy (with work). A real man would know this, but you're 15.
No, I am not wrong, no you're not wrong and I say this because who am I to tell you that your opinion is wrong? You just gave a great example to others of a person who thinks they know everything. Sure you are a good amount of years older than me, but this does not mean anything. You've have disrespected me, by using my age as an advantage, like if I was to young to know anything. I don't appreciate this act of behavior and I wouldn't expect it from anyone who is twenty-one.
Weight as an absolute? No. Weight as in distribution of weight? Yes
No I don't care about the number. That being said if you look unhealthy it'll make me sad because quality of life drops as a person gets increasingly overweight or underweight.
I dnt care much but she should at least be light enough tht i can carry her in my arms to the bed nd love her the way i want :*
It depends on the guy. I've seen guys with big girls.
But personally I love petite girls I find them so god damn adorable x3
Yeah it does matter, I like a girl to take care of herself. Look at it this way would an inshape girl date a chubby guy? No.
I have abs and toned muscles, and I am proud that my man has a tummy. It means I'm a good cook, and it makes his smile seem bigger than life. I practically worship his stomach. He is happy, I am happy.
Ahh well it depends on the lady then. I just know then when I had a tummy or didn't workout for a solid month that I lacked in the sexual department as well. My testosterone was low along with my libido. But two each is own I guess.
I'm in the gym 7 days a week & I am really careful about what I eat. I would say I'm in shape And I have always been attracted to big guys so I can't say I agree with you there 🙈
So you would say that being with a larger guy you always were satisfied in bed? It's proven that for every inch around a mans waist his testosterone level decrease ultimately making him not being able to get it up. If that makes sense.
Yeah I would say I've always been satisfied in bed with big guys, none of my boyfriends have ever had a problem getting it up 😂
I see in shape women with chubby guys all the time... my mom and dad are one such couple.
And my partner is a big guy and his testosterone level is far higher than my estrogen level... he could go twice a day without a problem if I let him!
it's not really a big thing for me, I like chubby girls, they they were so cute to look at. And if you see the beauty on that fatty woman, what more if that is gone.. just saying... I love chubby girls...
If girl have some wight, I woudn't think she is sexy, maybe. But I would like to help her to get in shape , I will take her somewhere.
I don't see girl fat if she can keep my beat at every day tasks and holydays. Is this wrong or not but It's me.
At BMI 30+ there's almost no way I would date someone, no matter how wonderful. The necessary sexual attraction just won't happen.
Yes.
I weigh 130 lbs. A girl that is 30+ lbs than me just doesn't work for me. That being said I don't want a girl that is uber skinny either.
I won't date overweight or underweight women. I keep myself in shape and need to be with someone who does the same.
I hope they don't care about the specific number because on my last question I had a wide range of answers.
you can´t express a rule for that, which allways applies. sometimes her character makes up for it, sometimes she still looks hot. it´s not that easy.
If she's past the normal weight range for her size, we can't date. If I'm healthy, I expect her to be healthy and it's bad example for kids. What I've seen is usually if the parent is fat, the kid is fat too.
Not really.. i don't even really know how much girls weight.. everybody's different.
Yes it matters to me, but there is definitely some room for weight. It's not as much about appearance, it's more about them being healthy
Honestly it depends!!! It's ok if you have curves and heavy body... Personally i find a girl way more attractive than normal or skinny girls... so it depends on her weight... But if she really is cute and knows her partner very well... It's less likely to say that.. Morever you canalways try to stay fit!!! Hope i helped...
Its not the weight that counts, but the shape. You have no scale figure on your head ;-)
I don't think guys should care about a girls weight, its just a number.
Not really, just i don't want a stick, id rather have a full figured women, but i do have a limit
Yes. Unless ur overweight urself I'd assume everyone does
Some guys don't care about something as trivial as weight :) I want to see how many guys are assholes and how many aren't.
Except it's usually not trivial. Overweight/obesity is one of the most preventable premature deaths, it's also a reflection/manifestation of bad character, and one of the greatest contributing factor of infidelity is the lack of sexual attraction. To say it's just about weight is very ignorant and sends out the wrong message to people who should be losing weight. It's a way for fat people to feel better about themselves when they should be working out to healthier levels and improving their quality of life. There's a reason why it's naturally impeded in our DNA not to be attracted to them. people should stop placing stigmas and making it seem a bad thing to know have a preference to lean fit people.
I don't really care that much unless it is extreme one way or the other (ie bone thin or morbidly obese).
I like people who are responsible with thier health.
As long as she doesn't look like a Mcdonald's mascot then I'm fine with it.
I think body size matters more so as long as you're proportional to height I wouldn't worry much
i dont care about anything of any person except if theyre a good person or not...
Yes; to some extent i do care about weight. I'm fit and i would like my partner to be the same :)
Healthy and healthy :)
Not really. Not a lot.
Unless it's a health issue or an obsession, or a way of dealing with psychological trauma, then yes.
I like a girl when she's thick with curves. I love nice big boots too :)
As long as she's physically fit, I don't care about the numbers.
I don't want an elephant but I do want some booty if ya know what I mean ;)
I like curvy women, not bags of bones that women seem to want to be like nowadays... but all women think they are fat even if they weight 80 lbs soaking wet so. but to each there own we all need some lovein! big and small
As long as they don't weigh more than me (150 lbs) , then I'm good. Would be awkward to have someone larger than me.
But none structure counts to though
*bone
Absolutely. I mean I'm in fitness so as one can summer someone fit is my type.
I feel like an assh0le for thinking this... but it's an issue for me
The fact that you feel like an asshole means you're not!
@JustMe-93 ... thanks 93. bighug
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as long as she does not weigh over 150 for a 5 foot girl; not over 250 for a 5 foot 5 inch girl. I like healthy girls
250 at 5'5" is huge.. Not healthy...
It might depends from Guys to guys but for me I prefer gals who is little big... but for sure no guys would like a gal who is too fat!!!
I honestly don't care about a girl's weight, mainly because I honestly feel that a girl is whatever weight she is because she wants to me, or at least, she feels comfortable at that weight.
For me I honestly don't care about girls weight. but the girls I've met through out the years care about my weight. I really think that's unfair and judgmental
I think the main criteria is to look healthy. Your body is your own small planet, take care on it.
I can't say how much is too much, but it would effect my opinion on her looks. It would not effect how I felt about her inside, however, which is always what is important to me.
Weight does matter to men and women. Attraction rules, like it or not.
Yes actually. Ladies , I workout trying to look good in front of you + skinny girls are hot.
TBH, i do.
But I'd never dump a girl just because she's fat. Sorry. Didn't mean to hurt anyone here.
Of course, most of guys don't like overweight girls...
Tbh if i were a guy i wouldn't mind the weight i mean would have my limits ya maybe but i don't think guys should be judging us on our weight personally but i think the personality stands out most to me it shouldn't be just be about the looks
Men can't judge you on your weight (WHICH YOU CAN VERY WELL CHANGE), but women can judge men by their looks (which you're born with)?
Yes because I am thin and I want to be able to carry a girl in my arms.
I've always preferred petite and thin women. :)
Whyyyyyyyyyy?
Is a size 8p to big then?
8p? What do you mean?
8 petite
Girls have clothing specially designed for petite women? :D That's neato. :) Although I still have ZERO reference as to what size an '8 petite' is. :p
No... Not at all.. If a persons good at heart... Go ahead!!! cheers..
In the most part yes but it not entirely
me personally a girls personality is most important
No we don't what we care is the body shape maybe and behavior...
I personally don't too much. The shape is what is the deal more than the weight.
Yup, especially after children.
im sure they do everyone has their own preference