Guys, do you care about a girl's weight? (Page 2)
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It is not about weight, more about right proportions, and placement of that weight. You can get there with exercice. Two girls may have the same number of kgs/lbs, hight, and many same features, but you will see the difference between a girl who takes care about her body in some kind of motion.
Omg yes, I have an athletic body. I want my girlfriend to be able to understand nutrition (understanding doesn't mean you can't eat junk) at the bare minimum, her exercising would be a bonus. But I won't tolerate a fatty. I love ASS and boobs, but only if it's on the body of a woman in shape! not a sluggish 'curvy' figure for a GIRLFRIEND. For sex... I'm open to experimenting. but still there's a limit.
Off course we care!
No guys like fat girls, except guys with fat fetish.
Weight must be proportional, not too fat, not too skinny. But some guys still like skinny girls. So it's better to be too skinny than too fat, if you had to choose, but still, what's best is proportional.
Well personally I would go for bigger than average before skinnier than average. My current girl was a twig when I met her and the sex used to be so painful because the pelvis is so hard. She has gained about 10-15 lbs and it makes a big difference. But yeah I'm more turned off by skinny than chubby
I've dated overweight women before and have found many attractive before.
However, I do have my limits.
Age 18.
Most guys do... usually just "overweight" at all is seen as a negative, but if the guy is overweight too he usually won't care as much. This is just based on being around guys and what I've heard them say.
Her physical size and therefore weight is a big part of my physical attraction to a girl. My girlfriend is 110lbs and think she looks stunning.
It's not shallow before people call me out on this. It's nothing different to the guy being turned on by a 200 lb girl and not liking a skinny girl!
A let me tell all you young people out there today When It comes down to love ,?
Don't matter how big you are let It be known that there Is a lot of beautiful big woman out there Don't worry about the cover just read the book So what I'm trying to say no it don't bother me
I think being healthy is attractive. Not underweight and not overweight. Being healthy shows at least a small degree of discipline and self-respect. Everything should be done in moderation, and that includes eating and being active.
Well depends,
If it's a genetic disorder then I can't judge her and if I do I would hate myself for it.
Though if she is just a binge eater, I might not be too keen. Not just because I may not be physically attracted to her but because her lifestyle is unhealthy and can be quite self-damaging. I am a Med/Science college student so I am aware how dangerous such a life can be. As a guy who often prefers to walk to the shops rather than drive and likes evening walks, we won't have anything in common.
Though if she is trying to loose her weight or is unlucky (like a genetic disorder), then I have to respect her rather than shit on her. A fat woman is not below a fat man. The circumstances matter etc etc
To be honest the only 2 women I have dated are average/slim so I don't have any experience dating "fat" women.
Hope you think this is a neutral viewpoint from a males perspective.
It isn't fun if she is so fat she isn't healthy or has hygienic issues. A little extra weight can be nice if it is in the right places. Lack of muscle tone from inactivity isn't sexy even on skinny girls.
The guy above at the top, pretty much summed it up. But not every guy isn't like him. i know guys that won't date a woman simply because she has a real small stomach or is slightly chubby. I think it just comes down to if we connect with the person or not. If you like them regardless of their weight, then go for it.
I care a lot. I cannot date someone who is even slightly overweight, because I stay fit and exercise myself. And one should be able to control what they eat.
Sorry if this sounds harsh - I also would not date a girl with the "fat" genes (you can tell by looking at how wide the butt is in proportion to the body, and also her mom). I'm a pretty nice guy but this is just my stance on dating.
it not the wheight it how it looks on her plus size girls can be really hot, but sorry if your a Micky D's chow hound, laying on your butt doin nothin, thats just nasty
I'm 200lbs so I probably won't date a girl bigger than me unless she's taller also lol. Everyone likes different things in people so who are any of us to judge? With that being said I notice more people respecting me as I have lost more and more weight and more girls responding positively which us great but kind of disappointing tbh..
As long as she's healthy and weighs less than me, I don't really care.
She has to weigh less than you?
Yes. Honestly if a girl weighed more than me, then she is very likely NOT healthy at all.
Just as girls are allowed to have their preferences when it comes to a guy's height, I'm allowed to have my preferences when it comes to a girl's weight. I'm 6 feet tall and 230 pounds so it's not like my preferences are unreasonable, and I would laugh at anyone who thinks that they are.
Don't care what the scale says but if she looks fat then yes. My wife started getting a bit too chubby so i told her to diet. I don't mind fucking girls that have fat but sure as shit don't wanna be married to one.
what do you mean by "too chubby" like 5 lbs or 20?
As I said the number on the scale means nothing, people hold weight differently, Kim kardashian Probs weighs about 220lb but another girl weighing 220 could be fat as fuck.
If she looks good naked then I'm good with that :) but all lumps and bumps and cellulite? No thanks, hit the salad lol
Am glad to see most men dont really care about actual weigh just how well u carry it. Is the person that matters. Be healthy, look good for you n am sure many would find you attractive n be confident it makes you look even better ;)
Thin people are beautiful, but fat people are adorable.. :) but at the end of the day what matters most is the inward appearance.
Personally I do care I wouldn't want to date someone heavier then myself I just don't find that attractive at all physically it's a deal breaker for me. Just friends is where we would be headed, or nothing cause I can be a jerk I guess