Guys, do you care about a girl's weight? (Page 3)
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Yes, in that they have to be in decent shape. There's no way to put a set number on it since it depends on their height and body type, but BMI is a pretty good guideline for the majority of people.
So long as her health is not jeopardized and she still has a figure, I probably won't really notice the difference.
Some guys do, I prefer my women to have have some meat on them, I think it's all in the way a woman carries herself. A healthy woman is way more sexy than a skeleton. My first wife was 180ish and my second was 270ish. The first marriage I was too young and dumb, second marriage she was just too lazy. For me a beautiful smile and great personality wins everytime.
I care about health. So body composition more than weight I suppose. I would want her to be at least somewhat healthy, because I am somewhat healthy. And, tbh I don't find obesity attractive. I'm just being honest here.
It isn't the weight or the kgs itself right?
It is more about how the weight looks on your body. Somebody with the same height and weight may look entirely different seeing how everyone put on weight in different places :)
For The Most Part NO!
My Wife Is Height Weight Proportionate, She Is 170, I Think She Looks Amazing, I Love Her Body, She Is Beautiful And Very Sexy!
What I Don't Like Is When Someone Let's Themselves Go And Become Really Heavy.
While Some Are Turned On By This, It's Not For Me!
You should be more specific with your question as your title. It can hurt a lot of woman's feelings who are on this website when they see what 54 of those guys responded. I don't want to sound bitchy with my respond.
Yes. I prefer thinner girls. I can't say exactly what weight or BMI is too much for me, since all bodies are built differently. However, if you look overweight, then I'm probably not interested. Every guy likes different things tho.
I do but only when it sends her going down a dangerous and unhealthily path.
What does that mean?
Meaning I only care about a women's weight when it starts to have a negative effect on her both health wise and aesthetically. I'm getting ready to become a professional trainer so health is very important to me the women I date needs to be healthy.
Yes. The girl has to be a healthy weight. I can't be with someone who is overweight. Granted there's a big difference between a woman being overweight and a woman thinking she's overweight when she's not.
I believe that weight a should never make a difference besides it should be then moan you love not the size. Besides if she wants on to lose weight that's fine. as long as she is healthy and happy it shouldn't matter.
i do care if she is obese, but i do like my girls with meat (a little chubby) cause i like touching her and if she is chubby there is more of her. Dont become skinny asf cause it is not that attractive attractive. So i really dont care if you weight 100 160 200 lbs as long as you are attractive and not obese.
No. Not exact number anyway. I only care if she look decent (which most of the time is associated with a healthy weight)
What do you mean "looks decent"?
I don't know... like okay looking? Lol.
I think the weight really needs to be considered. But I also believe that love can change everything. More importantly, the weight can be changed. Through their own efforts, will live better.
I do care to a certain extent. It wouldn't become a problem unless she was over 150 lbs or under 90 lbs (approximately). This is assuming that she is 5'5- the average height of women
in theory, yes. in practice, no. there comes a point where i find girls to heavy to be very attractive, but love happens where it will and the person you love is always attractive to you.
As long as she is of a healthy weight it doesn't matter as much as how the weight is disturbed on her body. Some girls that are 20 pounds heavier than others might look better because the weight is located in her butt and breasts for example.
Yes, I care how much she weighs.
I can't answer how much is too much without also going into her height which is crucial to determining whether she's overweight or not.
What is your ideal height and weight for a female?
5'0, 100lbs.
Wow that's tiny.
i like a girl who is at least 30 pounds less than me...
i weigh 170, so i would like if she was 140 or under
Why do you like a girl who weighs less?
i like to pick them up, i like them feeling protected by me, also they are easier to handle in bed...
I also find girls around that weight to be attractive, 5'5'' 140 pounds sounds like a really hot girl to me!
So to you, do you think looks matter most or personality? I mean, what if you met a girl who had an amazing personality but was 250+ pounds? Would you even consider being in a relationship with her?
not an intimate relationship no
sorry but that would be too much
i would enjoy being her friend but i just couldn't be intimate with a woman that large
Oh gosh, we are the same weight lol. :o
Everyone is entitled to their opinion (: no need to be sorry.
is there a reason you couldn't be intimate with a woman that large?
but aren't you really tall? @musicbrain5
Also i am pretty skinny and have gained 12 pounds since September, i am only 18 still got some growing to do lol!
i just find really overweight women unattractive, undesirable
also i feel like it would be difficult for me to make love to them...
Well yeah, I'm 6'1" and it's mostly muscle which weighs more than fat. It just put things in perspective a bit, lol. At my height and 170 lbs, it's very healthy. But if I was 6 inches shorter I would be considered very overweight.
yeah height is a huge factor!
170 at 6'2'' is completely healthy and a great weight to be!
Yes, it tell me that a girl does not care about her health and appearance. If you really manage and take good care of your body weight, than I am more inclined to date the girl. I have dated girls that are overweight, and I really find that they are insecure about them self. I got a lot of attuide of overweight girls. It was bad , and I am sure that some are nice.
If you didn't like them why date them? -_-"
Because I don't judge people and I wanted to have the experiences first.. Once, I had the experiences than I wascable to draw on my conclusions.