Do guys care if their girlfriend weighs more then them?

[Anonymous]

i like skinny guys that are a bit taller than me and most of them end up weighing less then me. dont get me wrong im not overweight im 5'9 and 140 pounds with a lot of the weight in my hips thighs and butt. i feel like the guy will never be intrested in my thick thighs and my overall squishiness. do skinny guys want a skinny girlfriend or would they not care if their girl weighs more than them?

[capturemyheartnow]

You have got a very good BMI of 20. But as you grow older your weight will increase by 2 lbs every year. Even your height can increase by 2-4 inches. Taller girls are very rare in USA and it will be difficult for you to find boy friends. But tall guys will not mind your body weight because you are of normal weight. Tall guys and tall girls make up only 5% of the general population above ages 15. So be careful as it is difficult t find boys taller than you.

[capturemyheartnow]

Thanks for the MHO.

[kilowatt04]

Personally I like girls who weigh more than me. Some guys will care and some won't. You're big for your age, but just rock it and don't make a big/negative deal of it, and don't listen to anyone who does, and take care of yourself, and everything will be fine.

[vonasaurus]

the right person will like you for you, regardless of how much you weigh.

i once dated a guy who was shorter than me and maybe 100 pounds soaking wet (i am 5'8 and was ~145 at the time). we were together for 7 years and it was never an issue.

[Popo21]

How much do you weigh now

[vonasaurus]

not sure, though it wouldn't be relevant to the conversation anyway, even if i did. but, given that i was late teens/early 20s at that point, i can only try to guess (even though i'd still be wrong, probably).

in my youth, i was very athletic. but age and injury have ways of slowing you down, especially when combined with other medical issues.

[Popo21]

How much do you think
Are you curvier

[vonasaurus]

i look about the same, except that i have boobs now (i was like an aa until probably 22). i have shirts and stuff from years ago that still fit, so it's anyone's guess... but my m. d. will probably check if i ask her.

alas, that will have to wait until i can walk again (after being borderline bedridden for 3 months, esp. with an autoimmune disease like hashimoto's, i shudder to think lol).

[Popo21]

How big are your boobs now

Awwww that's sad
I hope you get better :)

[vonasaurus]

thanks, i appreciate that :)

last i checked, i was like a 34/36 b or c depending on the style of bra. as a flat-chested teenager, it was my dream to have a dd cup or something... but, when i used to teach aerobics in my mid-20s, i remember thinking "this is insane, i could never do this if i had boobs that big".

grass is always greener, as they say.

[gigi5678]

i'm 5'3 and 120 lbs but i'm always self conscious about my thighs and stomach so i try to avoid sitting on people cuz my butt makes me self conscious too my weight basically 😕

[SarahsSummer]

Mine sure would. That would put me at over 250lbs. Lol. But at your age it's common. Most boys haven't put on any muscle weight yet.

[calebj90]

Oh just wait. Senior year you'll have more trains ran on you than an actual railroad.

[Asker]

omg 😂😂

[Popo21]

That's not even thick
I'm 5'8 and weigh 144 and am considered in the middle

[Asker]

but thats not what the question was even about lol i have wide hips and other people have told i had thick thighs which honestly just sounded like they were calling me fat but whatever sorry if i pissed you off in some way

[Popo21]

Nooo haha I didn't mean it like that
I just mean to say that I'm sure you're okay lol not fat at all since you're tall
What size jeans do you wear

[Asker]

American sizing? 7

[missyouwhen]

on the BMI scale you are considered obese. but if you boyfriend cares about you he wouldn't care about your weight. though you should stay healthy :)

[Asker]

ok so i am aware im not skinny but im not overweight my bmi is 22. something which means im in the green zone

[missyouwhen]

OH god I read that so wrong i read 4'9 not 5'9 apologies

[Asker]

haha omg 😂 i was really confused lol its all good

[GarthArts]

I dont care if my girlfriend weighs 500 pounds. she's beautiful and awesome. If she weighed more than me, I wouldn't care at all.

[Redstang88]

Depends how much he weighs. Scrawny guys usually don't care, its normal. I'm over 250, so it would be a problem for me.

[WalterRadio]

If you are 14 and 140lbs, then you are overweight. You should talk to your doctor about it.

[Popo21]

No she's not for her height dimbass

[Popo21]

dumbass

[WalterRadio]

@Popo21
For 14, yes. For 30, no.

[Popo21]

She's healthy for 5'9

Chill

[WalterRadio]

@Popo21
And she'll be 200 by 25 and 300 by 40.

She needs to talk with her doctor.

[Asker]

oh shit guess im screwed then

[Asker]

thank you oh wise one for your imput

[WalterRadio]

Seriously. Talk to your doctor.

[Asker]

does that mean ill be 700 by the time im 70? shit

[Sabinath]

seriously though it's her choice if she wants to talk to the doctor or not. she is only 14 so calm ya horse. I'm sure she is smart enough know that she has to visit a doctor if she feels something wrong with her body

[Deadfish]

Most guys like a girl with medium height and average weight!!!

Being fit will increase ur chances

[George92]

In my case, yeah.. I am around 6 feet tall for 200 pounds. If she would weight more than me, well you know lol... time to go to a dietician.

[thenamesdesiree]

I am shorter than you and weigh almost the same thing as you and I don't really think it matters all that much.

[Anonymous]

When I was 14 I was about 5'5" and weighed less than you.

When I was 17 I was 6'3".

You've had your growth spurt. The boys are just hitting it.

This is a temporary issue.

[Anonymous]

If my boyfriend weighs less that me, we'll start a fire if we had sex.

[lovelyhoneybones]

Guys who do, are the same ones that are single.

[Kkaos]

Lol, are we limited to only dating girls who are heavier than us then? I was tall and skinny and weighed like 150lbs, I wouldn't have given a stuff back then. But come puberty and the gym and I went up to about 185lbs in about 2 years. I'm also 6'3, so given any potential girl will be shorter than me, she'd have to be very heavily overweight.

[lovelyhoneybones]

@Kkaos No, you are not. And that isn't even what I was saying. My point was that if someone is caught up on the fact that a girl weighs more than them, then they shouldn't be dating. That's very shallow not to date someone.

What are you going to do, pull out a scale and weigh every potential girlfriend?

You're 6'3 which means there are going to be a lot of girls who are shorter than you. If a girl is 5'11 and weighs 185 pounds, you may never even know since she's tall. I know a woman who is around that height who used to weigh over 200 pounds after her third pregnancy, and you would have never guessed that she weighed that much.

[Kkaos]

If you wouldn't guess it, obviously I wouldn't care. I was just basing it off my experience, I don't care about the number, I just know that previous girls I've been with were around 140ish and therefore assumed that must correlate to the body type that I'm most attracted to, I would happily date a girl who weighed 1000lbs if she had that body type if it was possible. It's all visual, I'm shallow, yeah... Everyone is to some degree.

[crazylovebugger]

It completely depends on the guy, some guys like thin girls.. some guys like chubby girls... not a big deal! We all have or preferences :)

[FruitTingler]

I'd hope so. I'm 5'2 and I weigh 145

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

you're anon i can't lol

[Alvescan]

He is gone 🤣🤣🤣

[hotstuffSRD]

Chill it's fine
Depends on the guy

[Anonymous]

Bones can't cuddle bones. 😉

[Dude_91]

if I'm 140 and she's 150 I don't care.

[Arya_Christ]

I would not care..

[olex710]

not as such
guys like full girls equally