Are you happy? Sounds like the answer is YES.
Nothing wrong with a chubby girl, something nice & warm n soft to cuddle, everything wrong with a ribcage like a xylophone and hip bones sticking out, YUK.
Also sounds like you may look a similar build, as another answer says you have to carry breast tissue around with you which isn't light and girls generally have more fat around the bum and tummy from a certain age, WHY?
To protect unborn children, it's natural. I believe everyone is born to be the height, weight and build they are, embrace it. If it weren't the case you wouldn't put weight back on that you lost on a diet, in fact it wouldn't have been there in the first place and unless you eat for five people you shouldn't put too much on either. It's in your genes and despite the fact you might want to blame your parents and grandparents, they didn't have any control over it either. My nose is bigger than it should be, my penis is smaller than it could be, not complaining on either count as they both do the job they were intended for. by the way, I'd like to be taller too, ain't gonna happen though, end of.
NO!! You can talk numbers and weights all you want, but the point is: ARE YOU HAPPY? It doesn't matter about the girl being heavier, or the boy being shorter or whatever – if you are happier and life is brighter when you're together, then none of that fluff should get in the way!
Also, my grandma is heavier than my grandpa, and they have the cutest relationship i've seen in elderly people. They truly love each other no matter their bodies 'cause they know that their affections better than any looks or curves your mirror can throw at you.
I’ve struggled with my weight all my life and am heavier than I look but I’ve realized it’s okay — guys don’t care. Also if you want to look at it the way I do is there are two types of chocolate bunnies. One is hollow and light. One is solid and a bit heavier. I don't know about you I like the solid bunnies more, hell I think everyone prefers a solid bunny so be proud to be a member of the solid bunny club!
No, not at all. He seems to be fine w/ it so you shouldn't really care. : ) There are other things that factor into it as well like your boobs, he's most likely flat chested sooo he'll way less due to that & maybe butt too, etc.
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I don't think its necessarily wrong however there are many people who simply want their partner to be smaller or larger than they are. Obviously your guy isn't one of those types so it's nothing to worry about. However if you don't like being heavier than him there is nothing wrong with exercise or a simple change in you diet. Personally I don't mind within limits. As long as a girl was 150 (about 68k) or under it wouldn't bother me as I'm 135 (60k) and would just find it weird being with someone that much larger than I was.
Yes. Start focusing on your diet and exercising. Being overweight is deadly. You're not far gone yet, but its easy to lose track and then it starts creeping up on you, then boom. You're 300lbs and dying of heart disease. Even being slightly overweight does increase risk of cardio vascular and joint issues.
I'm sorry if i sound rude, but this is the hard truth. Take care of your body, or it will provide you a slow, painful death.
Obeisity is the #1 killer in America and high up there throughout most of the west.
Count your calories, make sure you're only eating as much as you need, not more than that. And go to the gym to exercise 4 days per week at least, sprinting is also great.
Not rude at all really. I wanted all sorts of opinions
Well if you have bad proportions it’s not good. If you have good proportions it’s fine. Obviously the guy is into you.
I’m slim but fit & had girlfriends who weighed 30 pounds more than me at times. But I could easily lift them all & toss them around.
My girlfriend weighs more than me and I'm taller than her by about 20 centimetres. I don't see a problem. She's still hot haha. I do need to put on some weight though haha. It'll happen eventually when I start eating right and working out regularly.
Point is... don't let others opinions affect your view of your relationship. The main questions to ask yourself are:
Do I find them attractive/Do they find me attractive?
Do I like their personality/Do they like my personality?
If those are a yes, then you're fine.
May be I have the same problem. I'm 167 tall and 61 kg. But people usually evaluate from my look that I'm not more than 55.
Summary: every body is different, it might be muscles, fat and so on. Most important that you are healthy, he loves you and don't worry what people think. May be I'm saying that because I'm INTP :)
No, this will happen here and there. If it bothers you then figure what works best for you working out or dieting. Keep in mind in no way does your weight affect your beauty. As far as your boyfriend chat with him about, see how he feels. He may encourage and support you.
That little a difference really doesn't matter.
And weight itself is based on how heavy your bones and muscles are along with other stuff. Some people have heavier bones and other things so don't sweat it.
It'll be wrong if my girlfriend is 20+ kilos more than me.
I prefer to be bigger and heavier than a chick I'm seeing. If she were bigger and heavier I wouldn't feel as much of a man. Plus I wanna be able to pick her up cause girls love that shit.
But if he's cool with it don't worry.
Not at all. I’m in better shape then my wife but she still is sexy AF.. if you are already dating him he must thinks you are sexy AF too. If he doesn’t think this or is telling you to drop some weight I say you drop him
It is not wrong to weigh more or less than anyone. If you workout a lot and are tone and he is out of shape you might weigh more because muscle weighs more than fat. If you are chubby, do not feel bad about it. Lose the weight because you want to be healthy, not because you wanna look good or to impress anyone.
What matters is that he loves you and that you're not putting your health at risk and try to work towards achieving better health.
I don't think that's wrong to be heavier than your man as long as it's not too extreme.
I mean, I don't think it's "wrong" per se, but I personally wouldn't be into it, as larger women aren't my type.
That being said, that's just my personal opinion, and everyone has different preferences.
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No. My older is a literal stick figured dweeb and his girlfri2nd of over six years is twice his weight. Both are super nice but also super quiet. They fit each other perfectly.
Wrong? No, but I wouldn't want to date a woman who weighs more than I do.
@AJC997 I just prefer women who are smaller than I am. It's just a personal preference, and thank you!
@AJC997 No need to question someone else's preference. Literally all I want is people's opinions, so it's alright if he prefers slimmer women
lol some asshole blocked me, don’t listen to any of these guys honey. I weigh more than my boyfriend and he doesn’t care. We’ve been together for almost two years.
When you find someone who truly loves you for you, they won’t care about weight.
Does it match societal expectations? No. Is it wrong? No.
It isn't "wrong".
Hopefully she is a little taller, maybe a little curvier and he is a pip squeak...5'7" and 120-140 pounds.
If he is 6'2" and 205 pounds and she still weighs more than him than she's a big girl.
It's not wrong in any way, shape, or form. It's just a social taboo for some people.
Why do you think that can possibly be wrong? Why do you care about what I or some other stranger, or friend, might think?
Who's responsible for your happiness? Definitely not us. If you like that guy, and he likes you, our opinion is irrelevant.
Not wrong at all that's just the way it is, maybe a little odd but not even that.
Not really. I mean he hasn't complained so I wouldn't worry about it.
One of my ex boyfriends was underweight. His weight was 54kg, mine 68kg (I'm 178cm tall, he was about 5cm taller) therefore I can say nope, not wrong at all.
Nope. doesn't matter. Ic you care for your woman and love her then the only reason her weight should be an issue is for health concerns. . The superficial will fade we will all wrinkle and our eye sight will fade. Love the people you love how they are. Cause love is hard to find. Many will profess love but few truly find it. True love is unconditional. As that God to you. .. Or, Mother to child.
Well im 175cm and 78kg, people call me a model😂 i guess the best thing about being tall is you can gain weight without looking fat.. anw no it’s not wrong at all, i dated many guys shorter and thinner than me and it was alright
@AJC997 i did
@AJC997 what's the people's weight in pounds
Most. girls want their guy to protect them like they should.
Nothing is wrong. If you are happy then keep on going. Dont let little thing like weight make you sad. Plus you are great nothing to worry about. I am 165 cm tall and weigh 67 kg. I am no model but i am perfectly happy the way i am. 😇
From a health standard yes you want to keep yourself as close to your ideal weight as you can due to medical issues that can occur from being overweight that being said I dont mind if my girl is a little heavier than I am.
I don't know what you mean by "is it wrong." Like the word "wrong" means "malicious" or "amoral" or whatever-- no, it's not those things, but if you're asking whether it's attractive and the way things should be, well... no, it's not.
I don't care how much she weighs, AS LONG AS she's HEALTHY
I will not date an obsese or even overweight girl, because she's likely to die at 40 of a heart attack. I'm not going to be a single father at 40 because she wasn't healthy
If he doesn't have a problem with it, what does it matter?
I personally would never date a girl who weighed more than me.
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@Wowgirl30q 😂😂😂 😳 whats so funny?
I didn't see anything... 😊
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Im 188 cm tall and i weight 87 kilograms so you know
But if ur boyfriend weights 70 kilograms he is skinny as fuck and short too probably so thats wrong yea
If he's dating you why would you think it's wrong? He obviously likes you the way you are. That's all that matters.
No, nothing wrong although it would be fun when he tries to take you on his arms...
Why would it be wrong?
Even if someone here insults you or tells you that it is wrong don't listen to them! Are you happy with your boyfriend? Is he happy with you? That is all then.
Well, it is not really wrong. Though is looks nicer when the woman is at least 10cm shorter than the man. Then she can be chubby too.
@AJC997 why do you prefer bigger and taller? Any reason or just do?
I'm tall is why I ask😃
As long as everyone is happy, nothing is wrong. This generations biggest disease is perfectionism, turning healthy bodies into skeletons and healthy faces into unnatural cold masks.
Me personally, I’d prefer more weight over too thin.
Why would you even think that? There's nothing wrong with it.
damn girl you thick lol... at 176 pounds
thats heavy regardless if your boyfriend is less or more
Not wrong at all, my first serious girlfriend weighed around 150kilos while I weighed around 65kilos. Weight/size is only an issue if you make it one
Its not wrong but personally i find it gross. I couldnt ever be attracted to someone bigger than me.
Nothing wrong especially your height has a lot to do with it. I’m 5’10” 145.
Thank You.
Women have boob weight! Guys don't. Don't compare yourself with guys.
How could it be wrong? it isn't wrong for girls to have mustache either
Nope, those are minor things made big by the world. If you find a good person, would you let them go because of their height or weigh? exactly
Wrong how? It's just a thing, there's not really a right or wrong about it.
It's not wrong wtf... You are perfectly fine and if a guy doesn't wanna date you because of that, he's a dumbass & you deserve better
I'd say it's up to the two involved. F*** everyone else, they don't get a say.
It's not wrong; I'm not sure I'd like it though; although I don't think I'd ever find a guy who weight under 50kgs.
The only thing wrong here is your own weight. For your own health's sake, and for no other reason, you should reduce a bit.
Not 'wrong' but it would usually mean you're overweight, unless you're a body builder (muscle is heavy), or you're very tall and he's short.
I'm 195cm and under 70kg. It's a personal thing. Weight doesn't matter.
Wow that is skinny.
@GiveMeAllTheCookies Yeah. I would like to weight around 80kg.
At only 70kg, I hope you're capable of defending him.
What weight in lbs is that?
@Wowgirl30q 154. Most men have a skeleton/organ weight of about 110, so that only gives him 44 between muscle and fat. Even at 10% body fat, that leaves about 30lbs of muscle total.
@Pulimuli you mean it's the statement that you took most personally. I was pretty defensive about it when I was a weakling, too.
@Pulimuli Yeah, I'm sure you are.
No, it happens sometimes, and its perfectly OK
Not a issues unless one of you makes it a problem but as long as you both happy it's all that matters
No, girls are actually supposed to be bigger than guys anyway.
It’s unusual but not as rare as it used to be these days, I’ve never been with anyone that weighed more than me
No it's not wrong. ♥️🥰
It is wrong in my opinion
Cause a man pulls a woman's weight. The traincars should not weigh more than the engine
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nope. it's their choice to be with her.
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