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Are you happy? Sounds like the answer is YES.
Nothing wrong with a chubby girl, something nice & warm n soft to cuddle, everything wrong with a ribcage like a xylophone and hip bones sticking out, YUK.
Also sounds like you may look a similar build, as another answer says you have to carry breast tissue around with you which isn't light and girls generally have more fat around the bum and tummy from a certain age, WHY?
To protect unborn children, it's natural. I believe everyone is born to be the height, weight and build they are, embrace it. If it weren't the case you wouldn't put weight back on that you lost on a diet, in fact it wouldn't have been there in the first place and unless you eat for five people you shouldn't put too much on either. It's in your genes and despite the fact you might want to blame your parents and grandparents, they didn't have any control over it either. My nose is bigger than it should be, my penis is smaller than it could be, not complaining on either count as they both do the job they were intended for. by the way, I'd like to be taller too, ain't gonna happen though, end of.
NO!! You can talk numbers and weights all you want, but the point is: ARE YOU HAPPY? It doesn't matter about the girl being heavier, or the boy being shorter or whatever – if you are happier and life is brighter when you're together, then none of that fluff should get in the way!
Also, my grandma is heavier than my grandpa, and they have the cutest relationship i've seen in elderly people. They truly love each other no matter their bodies 'cause they know that their affections better than any looks or curves your mirror can throw at you.
I’ve struggled with my weight all my life and am heavier than I look but I’ve realized it’s okay — guys don’t care. Also if you want to look at it the way I do is there are two types of chocolate bunnies. One is hollow and light. One is solid and a bit heavier. I don't know about you I like the solid bunnies more, hell I think everyone prefers a solid bunny so be proud to be a member of the solid bunny club!
No, not at all. He seems to be fine w/ it so you shouldn't really care. : ) There are other things that factor into it as well like your boobs, he's most likely flat chested sooo he'll way less due to that & maybe butt too, etc.
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I don't think its necessarily wrong however there are many people who simply want their partner to be smaller or larger than they are. Obviously your guy isn't one of those types so it's nothing to worry about. However if you don't like being heavier than him there is nothing wrong with exercise or a simple change in you diet. Personally I don't mind within limits. As long as a girl was 150 (about 68k) or under it wouldn't bother me as I'm 135 (60k) and would just find it weird being with someone that much larger than I was.
Yes. Start focusing on your diet and exercising. Being overweight is deadly. You're not far gone yet, but its easy to lose track and then it starts creeping up on you, then boom. You're 300lbs and dying of heart disease. Even being slightly overweight does increase risk of cardio vascular and joint issues.
I'm sorry if i sound rude, but this is the hard truth. Take care of your body, or it will provide you a slow, painful death.
Obeisity is the #1 killer in America and high up there throughout most of the west.
Count your calories, make sure you're only eating as much as you need, not more than that. And go to the gym to exercise 4 days per week at least, sprinting is also great.
Well if you have bad proportions it’s not good. If you have good proportions it’s fine. Obviously the guy is into you.
I’m slim but fit & had girlfriends who weighed 30 pounds more than me at times. But I could easily lift them all & toss them around.
My girlfriend weighs more than me and I'm taller than her by about 20 centimetres. I don't see a problem. She's still hot haha. I do need to put on some weight though haha. It'll happen eventually when I start eating right and working out regularly.
Point is... don't let others opinions affect your view of your relationship. The main questions to ask yourself are:
Do I find them attractive/Do they find me attractive?
Do I like their personality/Do they like my personality?
If those are a yes, then you're fine.
May be I have the same problem. I'm 167 tall and 61 kg. But people usually evaluate from my look that I'm not more than 55.
Summary: every body is different, it might be muscles, fat and so on. Most important that you are healthy, he loves you and don't worry what people think. May be I'm saying that because I'm INTP :)
No, this will happen here and there. If it bothers you then figure what works best for you working out or dieting. Keep in mind in no way does your weight affect your beauty. As far as your boyfriend chat with him about, see how he feels. He may encourage and support you.
That little a difference really doesn't matter.
And weight itself is based on how heavy your bones and muscles are along with other stuff. Some people have heavier bones and other things so don't sweat it.
It'll be wrong if my girlfriend is 20+ kilos more than me.
I prefer to be bigger and heavier than a chick I'm seeing. If she were bigger and heavier I wouldn't feel as much of a man. Plus I wanna be able to pick her up cause girls love that shit.
But if he's cool with it don't worry.
Not at all. I’m in better shape then my wife but she still is sexy AF.. if you are already dating him he must thinks you are sexy AF too. If he doesn’t think this or is telling you to drop some weight I say you drop him
It is not wrong to weigh more or less than anyone. If you workout a lot and are tone and he is out of shape you might weigh more because muscle weighs more than fat. If you are chubby, do not feel bad about it. Lose the weight because you want to be healthy, not because you wanna look good or to impress anyone.
What matters is that he loves you and that you're not putting your health at risk and try to work towards achieving better health.
I don't think that's wrong to be heavier than your man as long as it's not too extreme.
I mean, I don't think it's "wrong" per se, but I personally wouldn't be into it, as larger women aren't my type.
That being said, that's just my personal opinion, and everyone has different preferences.
No. My older is a literal stick figured dweeb and his girlfri2nd of over six years is twice his weight. Both are super nice but also super quiet. They fit each other perfectly.
Wrong? No, but I wouldn't want to date a woman who weighs more than I do.
lol some asshole blocked me, don’t listen to any of these guys honey. I weigh more than my boyfriend and he doesn’t care. We’ve been together for almost two years.
When you find someone who truly loves you for you, they won’t care about weight.
Does it match societal expectations? No. Is it wrong? No.
It isn't "wrong".
Hopefully she is a little taller, maybe a little curvier and he is a pip squeak...5'7" and 120-140 pounds.
If he is 6'2" and 205 pounds and she still weighs more than him than she's a big girl.
It's not wrong in any way, shape, or form. It's just a social taboo for some people.
Why do you think that can possibly be wrong? Why do you care about what I or some other stranger, or friend, might think?
Who's responsible for your happiness? Definitely not us. If you like that guy, and he likes you, our opinion is irrelevant.
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