How do you feel when your girlfriend is way heavier than you despite being shorter?

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I dont know how to feel about this subject, in past half year my girlfriend got about 60 pounds heavier because she won't stop eating sweets. I dont know how to approach it since Im afraid of hurting her feelings but it does bother me because a lot of people made remarks how its not right for her to be heavier than me despite being 5.3.. How should I approach this?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

People who allow themselves to be fat are usually lazy and selfish.

Maybe you need to man up and not be with someone who doesn't care about your feelings.

I bet that's not the only selfish shit she does, but at first you thought I was cute that she's naive or stubborn.

Tell her she's heavy and its unhealthy, tell her to join a gym and stop killing herself and your relationship.

Is she depressed or just lazy and greedy? Does she even do any house chores, with how busy I am I can't picture being fat unless I'm sick, or is she a princess who doesn't work or do house chores, you men bring this on yourselves wanting to date invalids.

Veronica101 · Accepted Answer

Why should it matter? Do you really care about her health, or do you just care that people say it isn't "right" If she's not overweight, technically there's nothing wrong with her weight. This doesn't sound like genuine concern, it just sounds like you don't want her to make you look bad or something. But if you simply just want her to eat healthier, tell her but don't be rude about it. Go on a healthy journey with her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My concern would be why she is eating like that. Maybe you are best to talk to her. It could be that she's just got content, but quite often with it's an emotional issue

DP0122 · Accepted Answer

If you find her attractive, who cares how much she weighs. I’d be perfectly fine with a girl who has a bit more weight than me (I’m sorta a skinny f**k to be fair), otherwise try and ask her if she’ll come to the gym with you and you want to bond more with her over exercise (even recommending hiking out in nature would be good. Best luck to ya man

weezle · Accepted Answer

It shouldn't matter. It should matter even less what other people think and say. I've been with my wife 18 years and we've fluctuated weight throughout... Would you like it if all her friends commented on your appearance negatively?

Jayeleo · Answer

What is it that you like? Do you want her to stop stuffing her face? If so, then don't sugarcoat it, or else she'll eat that too!
If not, then make love to that chunky monkey! Screw what other people say or think

Anonymous · Answer

Who the hell is saying it isn't "right". How about they keep their noses out of other peoples business? There is no wrong or right body to have in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Yah if you can't admit that it bothers you instead of saying its because of what others think then you have a ways to go as far as maning up. If she's putting on weight now with those habits. It's not going to get any better so if it bothers you then better take care of it now than clinging onto a false hope.

Anonymous · Answer

Fat is not the same as muscle. If your shorter girlfriend is heavier than you and isn't obese it mean your a very weak beta male.

Nandor · Answer

I prefer skinny girls. Not gonna change so I guess its a win win

Anonymous · Answer

I like curvy and chubby girl.. Because they are too honest as per my opinion..

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