Guys does it bother you if your girlfriend sits in your lap while you play a game?

[Anonymous]

Whenever my boyfriend is playing his game sometimes I just want to be close to him and watch so I'll cuddle up on his lap, but I feel like he gets annoyed sometimes but doesn't say anything b.c he doesn't want to be rude

it's not like he can't see, I mean I'm really small.

but guys would it bother you? I feel kinda bad lol

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+1 y

oh no he's not neglecting me, I actually enjoy video games and love watching him play, but I like cuddling in his lap and watching

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Well, as I see it, if you think he's spending way TOO much time playing games, that you need to do something like that, then it's partially his bad. Maybe even mostly his bad. But I'm not sure what kind of time he's spending focused on his games or if he's neglecting you. How do you feel about his gaming? How much time does he spend gaming? Do you feel ignored?

As for your question. No, I don't think I would be annoyed, so long as you're not obstructing either of my arms, or my view. Also so long as you weren't an outright distraction. It actually does sound kinda nice.

Though you might be better off cuddling him from the side, by sitting next to him, or by coming up from behind and placing your t*ts around his head or pressing into his neck or shoulders. Maybe cuddling around him, feeling him up, or kissing his neck or ear, or doing outright cerebral stuff while stroking his hair. Heh heh heh. Now that's the kinda distraction I kinda welcome.

Just some thoughts. What do you think?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Well, yeah so long as it's nothing seriously competitive, this should be fine. Don't worry about it. Though if you still can't shake your worries, I seriously don't think you're out of line just asking about it. It's good for couples to keep an open line of communication, don't you think?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

So did you ever try it out?

[aMuse]

It depends on if it's competitive or casual. If it's something like an FPS where you really have to totally focused to do well then it would be annoying. If it's a slow paced game simulation type game, a turn based game, or some old school platformer it's probably no big deal.

[Asker]

it's that new GTA and the shooting one..I forget what it's called

[aMuse]

Yeah those games aren't too serious. You're just playing single player driving around most of the time, and doing missions. It's not like you really have to focus too hard to complete them, and if you screw up you can just retry the mission. I'd be totally fine with that. =P

[iPood]

If he's trying to focus on his game, it's likely pretty annoying. Why don't you cuddle him when he's not playing a game or if it's bothering you, ask him to do something else instead of getting in the way of his game

[GRBabe]

It does bother my boyfriend if I did that to him especially if something undesirable happens to his game.

I prefer to hide the controllers instead :)

[pickledxtofu]

It sounds to me like you're trying to be cute but you're coming off as clingy and rather annoying.

Cuddle with him and sit on his lap another time.

[benjamintyfresh]

Personally I would love it, but I'm an affectionate person. I know some guys who would hate it, though. Is your boyfriend generally affectionate?

[Asker]

yeah he usually is, that's why he doesn't really say anything but sometimes I get the feeling he wants to

[Anonymous]

i would focus less on the game and start f***ing her

[RedThread]

It would probably be a bit distracting to me..