Do you care when your boyfriend likes other girl's pictures? Guys.. what does this mean?

[findingmyway22]

Alright, quick breakdown. I'm currently with a guy and things seem to be going great. We are so alike in so many ways and the chemistry is phenomenal. Seeing as we both have busy full time Mon-Fri jobs we don't see each other during the week, but we spend every weekend together, ALL weekend.

How we met? He liked my picture on Facebook. Yes. A picture from a few months back - I clicked on his profile and saw he was cute sand had a lot in common so I added him (not something I usually do). We ended up hitting it off and have been inseparable ever since. Oh - by the way, I was dating another guy at the time and ended up leaving him for this one.

Anyways - we talk ALL day every day... and I mean we don't even go 30 seconds without responding to each other, so I know I have his full attention all day. Not a doubt in my mind he genuinely likes me, as we both show obvious interest.

But one thing does bother me, I always see him like other girls' pictures on Instagram, but never mine? I even posted a picture WITH him on the weekend and he hasn't even liked that. But I see that he will like other girl's selfies and what not and it somewhat bothers me. Im 21 and he's 25.

PS - we aren't "officially dating" yet... kind of in the awkward "we're together but not official" stage. He's told me before he doesn't mind me posting pictures with him because "he has nothing to hide", so then why can you like other girls IG posts but not mine? Besides, I can openly admit I'm a pretty girl... not like he has any reason to hide me.

Guys, does this mean anything? Am I overreacting? I think it just freaks me out a bit because the reason WE met is due to him liking my picture. I just took it upon myself to add him to see who he was, and it flourished. Since liking MY picture worked, what if he's doing it to try and get other girl's attention too?

And ladies, do you care if your boyfriend likes pictures of another girl? Selfies, most specifically.

Thanks!

You are overreacting.

I'd be concerned.

[Hannah591]

You're 21, surely this shouldn't be an issue in your life? Being 21, I'd expect you to be able to talk to him about this and also ask if you're official now. If he hasn't agreed to be official then he has the freedom to talk to any girl he likes.
My boyfriend and I are open about who we find attractive, mainly celebrities. He doesn't have instagram, not that I'm aware of anyway. He sometimes doesn't like pictures of us or my profile picture but it's not the end of the world to me. I don't think he ever likes anyone else's pictures apart from close friends. I'd much prefer my boyfriend liking girl's pictures instead of fucking one. Your boyfriend probably doesn't like your photo's because he sees you every weekend so he doesn't need to look on your profile often. To him, he probably sees nothing wrong with not liking your pictures. If there was no FB or IG, this wouldn't be a problem for you. You're making a problem out of nothing and making links to things where links shouldn't be.

[Anonymous]

Well first of all, my husband doesn't do that, but if he did it would make me a bit jealous. I have no reason not to trust him, but I still get jealous! I think part of your problem is not only the way you met. . . but ALSO that YOU left your boyfriend at the time, to be with him! That's pretty shitty of you. If you can't trust him you shouldn't be dating him, and if you trust him then you shouldn't worry whose picture he likes or doesn't like. . . but if this blows up in your face and he leaves you for another girl, I'd have to say that's a bit of karma in action.

[findingmyway22]

Oh girl, trust me. The boyfriend I left him for deserved to be left. He was a complete asshole and emotionally abusive, didn't care about anyone but himself and I should have left him a long time ago, this just helped me leave.

[existing_not_living]

As an adult instead of taking to the internet with your concerns, how about you go talk to him about this. I think that's between you and him and I think you're kind of overreacting to this especially since you haven't discussed the matter with him and asked him why he didn't like your pictures, but liked other girls.

[Lonelywolf21]

I would talked about it with him if I were you. Hmm, that's why I voted that you should be concerned. Not concerned that he cheat or something, but concerned that you should talk about it with him. in my opinion in a relationship nothing should be hided. If you are together and trust each other 100 % then you can openly talk about anything that's bothering you guys. try to talk with him and ask him the same question you asked here. Good luck. ;)

[YourFutureEx]

You should feel happy because at least he is honest, he don't hide that he likes other girl's pictures. Why would he need look at your pictures if he can have YOU physically.

[MindYourEyes]

Pshh... Im selfish. and would want to be the only sexy attractive beautiful womyn in his eyes! Just like I do towards him. : )

[PinkKassie]

couldn't have said it better myself

[KLTheErudite7229]

You have nothing to worry about unless he "liked" nude/naked or any kind of picture in that nature.

[Anonymous]

Um i dont think it was shitty of you to leave your boyfriend (concerning the prior post) you shouldn't stay with someone your not happy with. And i would also be bothered by this

[Lewis47]

I don't think it means anything, everything
is cool right now.

[Anonymous]

I personally don't like that ish.

[JennieF]

It doesn't bother me.

[Anonymous]

You're overreacting.

[FlammingFangirl]

well i would