Im 20 and I never had a girlfriend before, what am I doing wrong?

[Chillguy53]

I think I’m an average looking guy, girls don’t approach me and girls won't try and start a conversation with me when i’m in public. I have been rejected a lot.

i’m still a virgin

I have great hygiene and i groom myself and im not overweight i just have a dad body.

Should i pay for sex?

[Anonymous]

I can guarantee it's something along the lines of, you don't know how to talk to girls, or talk to people even, your grooming is not up to standard, you're not clean at a basic level, your clothes are sloppy or too casual, you have a mean streak or some other unpleasant aspect of your personality, one or more of these types of things is most likely your issue. All of them are correctable or adjustable, but you tell guys and they don't accept it or don't do it. Talk to your friends who are girls and ask them what you need to do to be an attractive romantic prospect to a girl. Don't hit on them or try anything sexual with them, talk in terms of some other girl you haven't even met yet. If one of your girl helpers later falls for you after your transformation, you'll know it.

Do it now while you're still young enough to benefit from it.

Good luck.

[Chillguy53]

Thank you for giving me the harsh truth

[Chillguy53]

Its frustrating i dont understand whats going on, but i will try to improve

[AmandaYVR]

Nothing. You are in good and common company.
Don't personalize it as inadequacy. Carry on carrying on...

I have no comment on whether you should pay for sex, except that wining and dining a girl is a form of payment. You are showing you care about her more than just as a body.

Try a new, cool wardrobe that makes you feel like the man, some great music in your ear buds, some friends or a dog to keep you company, and unfortunately, I can't say just stay open, as most young females think it's the guy's job to take the risks. Sympathies. Reach out, spread the word, "I'm open to what happens..."

[Lliam]

What's your wardrobe like?
Are you cheerful and friendly?
Do you have any hobbies or interests?
Do you ever talk to girls or are you waiting for one to approach you?

If you are out there trying to interact with girls and have been rejected, don't worry about it. Keep trying. Sooner or later you'll find one who will talk to you.

The main thing is to be confident and be fun to be around. Don't reveal your insecurities. Ask her harmless questions about school or work or things she likes to do. Show genuine interest.

[Chthou95]

I don't know. You have to figure it. Sometimes luck plays a factor in all this

[Nikki1989]

Personality issues, lack of confidence, social awkwardness?

[Vegasrunner]

Yea, just so at least you can get some experience.