Can you really be attracted to someone's personality alone or looks definitely have to be there too? (Page 2)

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Can you really be attracted to someone's personality alone or looks definitely have to be there too?

MoonFace2 · Answer

Usually both. But chemistry can grow occasionally with a great personality.

DtMe89 · Answer

I mean, maybe if you're asexual but, then, is it really a relationship, if you're not having sex?

Iron_Man · Answer

It takes the two combinations if not, you could be attracted to Whoopi Goldberg and Oprah Winfrey

Yannae · Answer

I can. I'm a straight guy, but my bros are invaluable

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on both. Looks can attract someone, but people stay for the personality. Personality can also accentuate the person's appearance because there is substance behind the looks.

linka_pat307 · Answer

Looks do because they tell that someone is taking care of themselves

genericname85 · Answer

Yeah if they're ugly af, personality doesn't really matter. You can be friends then.

Loki97 · Answer

You need physical attraction to get to the next stage where attraction of personality applies

Twalli · Answer

I wouldn't date anyone based on personality alone. They're people I call friends. I like who they are, but I don't find them physically appealing.

OddBeMe · Answer

personality can make people more visually attractive. Thats why standups get laid after their set

KrakenAttackin · Answer

An average looking person can become stunning to you if the personality and other aspects are inline.

JoshMa · Answer

You can't have a romantic relationship without physical attraction, if so you'd just be friends. 🙏🏼

ManFuego · Answer

I feel if you want a physical connection there has to be attraction. But you could be an 11/10 looks wise and the personality of a cheese grater and its not gonna work for me.

alessandraanok · Answer

you definitely can i fell in love with my bfs personality first then i became attracted to how he looks but honestly back then i was never attracted to his look but now he is all i think about

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

people who say looks dont matter are ugly, they’re the only ones.

Babygirl_S · Answer

What he is like as a person including his appearance and personality.

Jakefromstatefarm6 · Answer

Looks get your attention but personality keeps you there for the long haul.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Women cab be attracted to a man's personality. Men don't care about a women's personality

Counterclocking · Answer

Both matter. Looks do catch the eye but personality catches the heart. Looks still matter though.

Dongie · Answer

You damn right unless they have leprosy or the like.

Hulk30 · Answer

Attraction is sexual personality is intrinsic ya don't have to have romantic interest's in someone in order to be sexually attracted to em

ophstar55 · Answer

For me it’s 70% personality 30% looks. I prefer someone who has an amazing personality than a handsome man who’s a complete asshole.

Anonymous · Answer

A girl has to win over head, hard, and cock. She's not going to be able to do that on personality alone.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

You can, but it takes a longer to grow into sexual attraction

Quigly · Answer

Looks can only get the initial attention. Personality has to be there to go any further.

Anonymous · Answer

my ex was fat but at least he had blue eyes that made up for his weight

Anonymous · Answer

This is definitely looks girls honestly don’t care anything about personality I just had this happen to me she used my good nature to just use me for things in the relationship then when she got bored she left

Anonymous · Answer

Personality everyday! Can’t think of anything worse than being mistreated

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I agree if there is no attraction all we can be is friends

Chthou95 · Answer

For most people looks have to be there. Personality alone won't do much

danielle872024 · Answer

Personality alone is fine with me.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Of course, I personally did.

Plugs · Answer

Looks are equally important

exitseven · Answer

looks have to be there.

paledreams · Answer

Looks Anyone else is lying 🤥

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Nope. I need to be physically attracted as well

Anonymous · Answer

Personality has worked for me before

DECENTSCOTTISHGUY9 · Answer

l do think that looks help as well

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I have to somewhat be attracted to them

Blueeyes81 · Answer

It needs to be both for me.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

There has to be at least some physical attraction

noohair · Answer

It is the whole person

In_Trance · Answer

Looks have to be there

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Looks AND boobs have to be there.

RingOfFire · Answer

Need both.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Both…

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Looks matter

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, definitely.

Luopio27 · Answer

Looks 4 me!

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Look$$$

zombiewoof · Answer

Yes i can

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