Back in highschool there was group counseling meetings based off your gender that were absolutely mandatory. The sessions were about 2 weeks but a lot went on. It was made to be a safe space to talk about sexual relationships, depression, insecurities, etc. Yaknow, basically all the "untalkable" stuff. I remember my first day.. I had laid eyes on a girl that was unbelievably gorgeous for no reason. She just had a great everything. I was soo set on becoming her friend. It was when she opened her mouth that I learnt it only took mere seconds for treasure to become trash. Still to this day talking about her makes me wanna staple her tongue to her forehead. I'm telling you, this female in particular spoke about others with soo much hatred and disapprovement in her heart. There wasn't a single positive bone in her body. She told secrets about other people throughout the school who trusted her.. without even being asked to. She even had the audacity to harshly judge and question others insecurities when they were asked to speak about it in the sessions. She went from an 11/10 to a smooth 1/10 that same day I met her. So yeah, personality is huuuuuge. 💁🏽♀️
Personality is everything thing to me... It's how I base my attraction... A great and honest personality is sexy... And I believe it does effect attractive levels for myself personally... Thanks for the invite
Yes. Now I don't think its as what you think it is however. I mean I can sit their and look at a woman and state that she is objectively attractive but for me she will always look unattractive if that makes sense. Its more like the brain highlights the negatives while if you like them you look through the negatives. So its not like they turn into the most ugly person ever or anything, but you just notice traits that you don't like more and you can never really see them in a sexual way.
Yes! At first an average looking girl could turn into the prettiest thing ever if her personality just clicks with me.
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I don’t base my attraction to someone on appearance. I don’t feel physical attraction to anyone. So when I’m in love it’s because I love the personality of the person. So yes, the personality is the dealmaker or deal breaker for me
Yes. There’s guys who became a lot more physically attractive to me due to their stellar personalities. There’s also guys who I thought were attractive until I discovered there horrible personality, which made me think they were kind of ugly.
Yes, a person can definitely become more attractive to me if they have a great personality, or less attractive if they are arrogant or have other traits that I don't like.
if someone is mean then it can show on their face and eyes too ! do not ask me how but some ones personality can show up on their face ! thanks
Less - absolutely. More I am not sure, but there was some case about when I think now exactly this might have happened.
Certainly true, for me. Inner beauty---and ugliness---can radiate to the outside.
Yess if you have an attractive personality, you’ll automatically be more attractive to me.
good looking and good personality exists, it's more common than you would think, sure the rotten type people are numerous, but the attractive, with good personality have quite common as well,
Yes - attractiveness doesn’t equal physical looks (“body” characteristics)... the mind, soul, and spirit is in the mix too
Someone's "personality" can't make them "physically" more attractive if that's what you're asking.
happens all the time.
a guy looks dumb and below average at first sight and then when you get to know him he feels very attractive
Yes. Especially in their eyes and the way that they carry their bosy/posture.
A 10 who's a b*tch is a 2. A 4 who's a sweetheart is an 8.
Of course. Personality is arguably more attractive than looks. As far as %.
For sure! That's the real gem!
Yes 100% it does
Yups, thats what happened to me.
Oh yes definitely!
a little I guess
Not really
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