If light skins are the considered pretty in the black community why would a light skin struggle to find a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[beefcakebradybatson]

My IQ is ONE-SIXTY-PLUS, NOT SEVENTY-EIGHT. I don't give a flying f**k about that moronic trope.

[Asker]

What?

[beefcakebradybatson]

I've a 160+ IQ, so I ignore that stupid belief

[Anonymous]

Black pride and a preference for darker skinned partners might account for it.

[Asker]

Dang

[beefcakebradybatson]

The only black Pride who interests me is the late, great Country singer Charley Pride ( b. Mar.18,1934, d. Dec.4,2020 at age 86). Ninety-to-ninety-five percent of "black pride" is BS like everything else !!!

[texascollegegirl]

Talking with Black girlfriends, they probably think your dick is smaller.

[Asker]

Im the girl

[texascollegegirl]

Oh, okay. I thought it was about the stereotype that light skin Blacks aren't as big down there. Sorry.

Are you saying light skin Black girls struggle more than dark skin Black girls to get in a relationship with Black guys? Maybe it depends on what kind of guys you are looking for. There is more serious competition for dark skin Blacks that girls think of as likely more endowed. So are you thinking about those guys or across the whole spectrum? It doesn't seem like it to me but it's just my friends and people I know, but I have heard the same complaint from both lighter and biracial girls and from dark skin girls. Some of them started out super mad that I have a thing for well hung Blacks, but then we broke the ice and they became good friends. It could be that some guys are just having too much fun at a certain point in their lives. Maybe you face competition from white girls but darker skin Black girls face less? I get told white girls like me stop the hung Blacks we are having hookup sex with from having a relationship with Black girls. Honestly I don't see how. I have a boyfriend myself. I don't require a Black to be my boyfriend to have sex; he just needs the size and looks I want, so it doesn't make sense to me. Plus I'm not stopping him from having a relationship with a Black woman. That's his responsibility and not mine. Me having sex with Blacks isn't me telling them they can't have a steady Black girlfriend or even a wife. I'm not looking for a relationship with them anyway and I couldn't be faithful to one if I were. All that said I have heard from a some Black girls that white girls like me make it harder for them to have relationships. I don't think I owe them not to have the sex I want. Anyway I'm not sure there is much of a difference but maybe you know better.

[Anonymous]

Lack of effort on the light skins part.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Its just random