Do guys find aloofness in girls attractive or not?

[Anonymous]

Is being aloof considered an attractive trait or not in a girl?

[WindAtMyBack]

I have dealt with that before. It's a big negative. I never know what she thinks and it's boring. Longer term it's a deal breaker because I can never get anything out of her. It's like I'm constantly guessing what's going on and that is not fun at all.

[Anonymous]

No. That's generally a sign of narcissism. At you age she may still able to trick guys with that. But by 30 guys have caught on and the smart ones will avoid her.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't even know what that means

[jahaims]

Playing games like that is immature

[Wise4myage]

I like it, but not all the time.