Girls, Are reserved and mysterious guys attractive?

[Softguy]

I'm reserved and quiet, many people have said I'm mysterious.

[Oceangirl30]

Mysterious definitely a Yes! ❤️ I love mystery but not too reserved then it will be baseless & boring.

A guy, when he is a bit secretive about himself and not an open book makes the woman more intrigued and more interested to know about that person as the person doesn't open up to everyone except the people who are very close to him and that shows his control over his emotions. But that doesn't mean he make her wait for long😅 take time.. but slowly shed his layer (his personality)☺️

Plus mysterious people don’t rush into revealing things about their personality and activities and it makes us wonder, sometimes fantisize 😉about what we could do together. (The space it gives to make positive dreamy or wishful assumptions about his personality)

Being mysterious is a trait. It doesn't mean if a guy isn't mysterious, a woman won't like him, but it definitely helps. Also things won't get boring 😏😉

Lastly, everything will go well only with a good positive intention 😊❤️

[CrazyGirl2]

Well yeah! Certainly a lot more attractive than the over the top loudmouth, who brags about every little detail of his life! Especially guys who brag about how much they make and what kind of car they have!

[Softguy]

Or how big his body count is and how many love him and the size of his Johnson, it can be exhausting for you ladies 🤣 those guys crack me up.

[CrazyGirl2]

Great insight! Yes thats exactly how I feel. The second he starts bragging about his body count, to how much he earns, I’m out! One time I was SO sick of this guy bragging about how much money he had, I did something I have never done before… I asked, “so what are we talking here? eight figures, obviously not including after the decimal point”? He laughed and said something like “hey there give me time, I’m only 22,” to which I uncharacteristically said “oh? REALLY? That low an amt? I mean the way you were going on, I at LEAST figured you had more than me!” But don’t worry, your only 3yrs older than me, I’m sure you ‘ll get there eventually! I left pretty much after that. I felt so sleazy for stooping to HIS level and mentioning my trust fund! But hey he started it!

[Sharonclaire]

My boyfriend is in a way kinda mysterious and I find it attractive

[melanieeeB]

Yeah at the beginning it can be but if we get to know each other more I want a talker and someone outgoing and open with me

[FreyaRed]

Only if they look good. Otherwise I don't even notice them.

[kaylaS91]

What do you mean by mysterious? Any examples?

[Softguy]

A guy who doesn't talk to anyone and when a girl does talk to him he doesn't reveal all the details about his life right away.

[kaylaS91]

Okay so if he doesn’t talk to anyone, I’d call that antisocial versus ‘mysterious’. I don’t find it attractive when people shy away from basic interactions.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Only the friendly ones.

[Softguy]

We can look intimidating, that's why i must try to be friendly.

[AddylynnNightingale]

You don't have to try if you Are friendly.

[anon1903]

For sure, especially if they're submissive

[Softguy]

Ohh my God really? i'm shy, reserved and submissive!

[anon1903]

Jackpot

[Softguy]

Can i message You?

[anon1903]

Some other time. I've gotta sleep. It's 11:41pm.

[Softguy]

Tomorrow then

[mandyfire98]

I do like a little bit of mystery

[Nikki1989]

No, too much guesswork with them.

[Softguy]

Yes but we are intriguing, you want to find out more, solve the mystery, it's a major turn on for women.

[Anonymous]

Only as the main character of a fantasy novel

[Softguy]

Why not in reality?

[Opinion Owner]

Eh I guess mysterious is no longer interesting to me - usually means secrets - I’ve crashed and burned and been hurt too many times.

[Softguy]

I'm sorry to hear that, I'm only mysterious because I'm shy.

[Opinion Owner]

Relatable - I kinda am myself- I just meant that in my experience mysterious has always turned out as sketchy

[pewter_moon]

Yes.