Are guys who are more reserved attractive?

Not like totally shy but just not the super talkative type. Someone who listens before speaking, if that makes sense.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hmmm. I used to like that but it's such a strain to have to keep the conversation going because they listen too damn much. I need a balance lol don't let me blab the entire time or even most of the time.

    Like initiate conversations more, speak to me more. If you let me keep talking I'm eventually going to run out of things to say.

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  • There are girls that actually like shy guys. But quiet, not so much. Females likes a very talkative guy. But a shy guy that alittle quiet, but not too quiet, they tend to cut him a lot of slack, if they are into that type of guy or just like him. A guy being very talkative can be one of the most important things for some females. Listening to a female, can have its moment. But its not the main thing the female wants, unless she got her heart broken and just wants someone to listen. otherwise, not really.

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What Girls Said 17

  • I kinda agree with OfDeath. Of course though it depends on what type of woman you're talking about. Mostly, men who are more reserved seem more attractive because they seem more mysterious and interesting.

    On the other hand, some women are different. So each had a different preference.

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  • I like conservative guys and maybe quiet guys but not shy guys. A guy who lives a prudent and disciplined life, watching his diet, his words, being diligent and attentive in school, treating classmates and teachers with respect, making sacrifices for his career - is attractive.

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  • Yes, I prefer more reserved people. I value a person who listens more than a very talkative person. I can usually build a better rapport with reserved people. I enjoy their company more 😊

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  • Yes! Mysterious but annoying because I'm shy too so if you won't talk first it kills my confidence a little

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  • If you're just shy that's fine. Just make sure you show you're interest in someone. My fiancee was very shy at first but he never left me hanging in texting. Eventually he got comfortable enough to have normal convos with me.

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  • Yes they are. Better than fuckboys. Of course we like men who can say their opinion out loud etc. but it doesn't mean that guys who don't always do that aren't attractive.

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  • No they sometimes seem as if their less approachable but sometimes it's nice because they appear less cocky

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  • some more less like the quiet type? There's nothing wrong with being quiet or reserved just don't be boring

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  • No they aren't

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  • Meh. Don't really care either way. As long as he's not shy it's cool.

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  • Not very

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  • No it's 50/50 sometimes it can be annoying

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  • Some women find men who are more reserved to be mysterious and thus more attractive. And if you prefer to listen rather than blab the entire time... well, that's a bonus. It all depends on the person though.

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  • Yes. Quite a few of the guys I've liked have been like this.

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  • sometimes, for me guys who're mysterious are intimidating to girl which makes them attractive

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  • Yes. But, wouldn't probably get anywhere since I'm like this myself. But yes, they are attractive, and I enjoy those people far more than most.

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  • Yeah I guess, it's intriguing

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What Guys Said 3

  • there's a difference between shy and awkward and reserved, i think girls find the strong silent type attractive sometimes. I always think of this
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CD8csSvWqr8

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  • No. Women want men whonstand out from the crowd and assert themselves.
    Biology.

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  • Girls will find you dull

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