Do guys find shy, nervous girls cute or a turn-off?

[Anonymous]

[DonovanHarris]

Wouldn't call it a turn-on, but it's endearing and adorable. My ex got flustered easily when we first started going out and I always found it cute.

[Asker]

but what makes it endearing?

[DonovanHarris]

I guess the idea that someone is so enamoured by you that being around you still gives them butterflies. I'm sure not all guys see it that way, but a lot of guys do find it cute.

[Aethereal]

I find shy girls to be cute, and am more attracted to girls like this than wild or "life of the party" girls.

[Asker]

what if when you talk to her, she speaks in a shaky voice, but is smiling?

[Aethereal]

That's fine. The fact that she's smiling reassures me that she's not averse to talking to me even though she's nervous. In a way it's even more attractive; she doesn't talk much but is brave enough to try for me. It would make me feel special.

[winterfox10]

It's a total turn-off and a waste of time. I don't want to get on my soapbox about it, but there's nothing so demotivating, confusing, frustrating, and generally degrading, as feeling like you need to bend over backwards to talk to some chick who has some minor little freak out every time you try to talk with her. Even if you like her, that nonsense gets tiring. Screw patience; I have better things to do then wait around for a shy girl to get the confidence TO HAVE A CONVERSATION

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I think shy gitls are less intimidating and easier to approach (because the are more often alone and not always chattering with their friends which makes it hard to talk to her alone).
But when having a date with one, it can get to the point that I feel like a fool. Because I talk all the time and she only replies with short "yea" "hmm" and I get the feeling she is bored by me.

[johnwilliams69]

Not really. If she talks and interacts with me, I'm find it cute

[Asker]

what if she speaks in a shaky voice, but is smiling when you talk to her?

[johnwilliams69]

Still the same

[Zweihander]

Id say its more cute than a turnoff but only if its not over-the-top. Girls that are nervous around every guy no matter what all the time even when you've made effort to be down-to-earth are kind of a mood-killer. But just being shy isn't a bad thing

[IisPhil]

i guess it would be hard to get the conversation starte since i'm very shy myself

[IisPhil]

forgot to add: it's still not a turn off

[Somethingwittty]

Can get annoying after a while. I mean I get the shyness and being nervous the first few dates but after weve had sex you really shouldn't be like that around me. Around friends and family sure but not around me.

[letsfreakinggo]

Can be a turn on depenends whether they are willing to connect after spending more time together

[MAINEVENTMAFlA]

Yea they can be cute and also more of a sure thing because it was way easier to talk to them than someone with an ego. If I know you are shy it makes me less shy.

[cmagnet67]

Just be you. It can be both. I like a girl with some confidence but if she is shy it's ok.

[Shy_Steve]

I find them cute so they are a turn on for me usually.

[Anonymous]

I'm shy, that's why it's turn off for me, because I can meet only girls who can take initiative.

[spartan55]

Annoying and a waste of time.

[Iuse2hands]

Not a turn off or anything negative.

[YHL6965]

It's cute most of the time.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Cute. I wanna hug them often.

[Giggletr0n]

Turn-off, I hate that shit

[Nice222]

I like that type.

[8thgrader]

both