Guy I’m hooking up offended me should I cut him off?

[JanetMaree]

I was talking about a guy I dated and I said kinda used him because he was using me he went on to say women are trifling calling me trifling. I was highly offended should I just cut him off the sex is good however I’m turned off. I hate him actually

[ohsheeT]

It's your choice but this is the way I see it. I've had friends with benefits and I can tell you this

Those relationships were better than any girlfriend boyfriend relationship that I ever had because of the fact you could be open you can be free you can say anything you want..* I like to be a smart-ass*. Joking wise.. but saying that you're unimportant I think is so totally rude and wrong. I would say yeah I would tell him see ya. Let him find somebody else that's not important... friends with benefits is very powerful relationship I believe because of the trust the belief in everything that you're doing and the respect level that you have to have is just like I said it was better than my relationships more powerful because of that Bond of that freedom but still committed in a roundabout way.. like I said it's your choice it's you have to make that choice and show him who you truly are either you're going to accept that and still keep doing what he's what you're doing with him which I think that would be wrong because now he would think he could just use you do anything he wanted whenever he wanted and you can't allow that I would think

[Summeroflove]

Well number one stop sleeping with any snake in the dirt that will let you. This is what happens when you just sleep with people. People who are looking to sleep around aren’t typically the best people and you should really consider looking in a mirror and making sure that isn’t you.

You should be smart enough to know nothing serious is coming from a hook up. If you’re so angry that you hate him it’s pretty clear you should break it off and learn your lesson.

[JanetMaree]

I do know nothing serious is coming from a hookup. I've hookup with many men and haven’t been disrespected like this. It not about his actions but more about his words. I don’t like him at all. I hate him. It’s definitely time I cut him off

[Summeroflove]

Well then learn your lesson and stop hooking up with people

[Summeroflove]

I will say this though. A lot of hook ups don’t start out with any serious intention behind it. But one person can be more attached then the other.

Sometimes it can be the man and other times it’s the woman.

[JanetMaree]

Why do you keep saying learn your lesson. You are being rude for no reason. I’ve hooked up with plenty of men and never actually disliked them. This guy here I don’t like he’s an asshole

[Jerre]

Find another guy to have sex with. I’m sure you can find a guy you like who is also good at sex.

[Anonymous]

There is not nearly enough information / context here for anyone to have an informed opinion on whether you should end your relationship.

[Levin]

Where's chu self respect, girl.

[JanetMaree]

What do you mean?

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Yeah do him a favour and cut him off

[bowenw]

Yes, end it with him.

[Anonymous]

Are you really this pathetic?

[JanetMaree]

Wtf are you talking about smh if you can’t add value to my question then fuck off asshole mom should have swallowed you

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you're just expecting people to kiss your ass, I'm telling the truth.

[JanetMaree]

About what you can’t even explain yourself so stfu

[JanetMaree]

Damn people like you shouldn’t even exist

[rebelsunshine]

Cut it off.

[JanetMaree]

And why?

[rebelsunshine]

It'll give you time for your emotions to settle. Then you can decide whether the relationship is worth it or not.