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I started work 2 weeks ago and since starting work he feels some type of way.. I'm not exclusively dating this guy nor never met him, but he thinks we're dating.. I was open to friendship, but my career is full time and I have other things going on that would prevent me from having a relationship with anyone.
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This guy isn't on my level financially none of these guys are approached me are... they're broke and trying to date me
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My standards of the type of mate I want is becoming non existent as they don't fit what I want in a mate
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It's funny, can't a person with a bad financial situation like a girl or have a girlfriend?
Why do I want a broke guy? Whose gonna pay for the dates?
The guy isn't on my level financially I have 2 careers and he's struggling financially paying other obligations to even afford a relationship with me
So I guess I have to take care of him too financially and all the dates - men shouldn't be pursuing women unless they have their finances together
There is a saying in Turkish: Don't trust your beauty, a pimple is enough, don't brag about having money, a spark is enough.
Maybe you're right, but you may find yourself in financial difficulties one day. When we like someone, we don't look at their financial situation, we look at their character.
I'm not interested in a broke guy who can barely take care of himself
Even though I don't have any financial problems, it really saddened me to hear this from a woman. If I had financial problems, I would probably be psychologically upset.
I'm not saying you should be interested, I'm just saying you can be more understanding and be kinder and more tolerant.
He should work on himself financially - I had to build myself up before getting back out here meeting people
No I'm not my career is 5 days a week 40 hours and I don't have the energy in him right now anyways as I'm also getting ready to move in a few months. I'm so tired of meeting financially broke men who can barely pay for dates and take care of women
He should work on getting a house and getting himself together financially
I'm sick of men asking for women to settle
I don't know, you have very harsh thoughts, money is earned and lost one day, but it is really difficult to earn someone who truly loves you.
He can barely pay bills or take care of himself but I'm suppose to date him? I have 3 children to take care
American men largely are broke the issue here
He has 12 kids and pays child support whose gonna take care of me financially and my kids - stop being delusional
Look, I'm just learning English and I'm translating most of the words. If I wrote something wrong, I apologize.
Once upon a time, my financial situation was very bad, but now I am the boss of my own business, I have no problems, I mean that over time, a person can become rich or poor.
No, I'm not saying you have to date her, just don't judge her because she's broke, please.
I'm a boss I run a business and have careers to fall on - I went to college and got a career , but no I will not settle for a broke guy
I think things are different in America. In Turkey, no man leaves a woman alone
Yeah most American men are broke and want women to date them - they can't afford dates with women most of them can't - I take myself out and don't expect anything from American men
Of course, I appreciate it, I hope you find someone at your level and worthy of you.
This is a shame, a man should earn money no matter how much or little.
They want to go 50/50 they are broke
If I can pay for everything why do I need a man
In Turkey, a man cannot make a woman pay, this is a shameful situation for us and no one can ever deal with such men.
Why I'm not dating anyone because the men aren't together
If I'm going to take a woman's money, why should they call me a man?
Exactly maybe I should find men overseas who are together
This guy is in his 40s he should be together and have a career not work a mediocre job
You need to find a man who values ​​and loves you
I'm good there why I stopped looking 15 years because of these men will never get themselves together they expect women to settle for them and live in proverty
Women are buying their own houses and making money without needing men because we can't rely on them
I guess men in America are used to being lazy and ready-made.
Yes they don't want to evolve or better themselves just want women to take care of them
I guess I'm lucky I don't live in America. Being dependent on a woman is a very humiliating situation. A man should pay all the expenses of his children.
You should come to Turkey or have a Turkish lover. 😅
Yeah American men need to do better
I don't think they can do better
I think I should consider settling in America. 😅
This is why American women are single and just doing them
It's really a very sad situation.
Eating a woman's money is not our thing. A person who eats a woman's money is not called a man.
Yep, but men keep asking me why am I single and I get told you're too independent. No, most of you are broke and struggling yourself... Any man asking me for 50/50 is broke esp with me taking care of everything with CHILDREN
Yes I understand you
These men have been conditioned and taught differently there's a lot going on here gender war stuff.. women standards are high and most men can't measure up.. so this guy I think realized he can't afford me and I have a career...
A person may have a low income, but shouldn't she at least try?
So what I want to try is to work, try to earn money and take care of her family.
This guy has 12 kids he pays child support too at least half of them , he doesn't own a home, and has a car 🚗- whose gonna take care of me? How is he financially gonna take care of me if he can barely take care of himself? He's living in a group home to have somewhere to stay
He also pays alimony to his previous wife
12 kids is a lot, isn't it?
This man is a libertine as we know it.
Even if she has money, I think she is useless and wants to get honey from every flower like a bee.
I'm not this mans equal - he has too many kids and broke all his money goes to his wife and family
I can do better and will not with him
Yeah, I think so too
I think you deserve better
So , I'm glad he pulled back maybe he can reevaluate his life before trying to date women and not together
Yes that is right
How old are you
35 going on 36
I'm 34 and I'll be 35 too.
Ok sounds good 💯😊
I would love to be close to you and ask you for a chance
Do you think I might have a chance? 😊
It’s not the same when a woman goes through financial difficulties because it’s the man job at the end of the day to provide for the woman, but it’s not the woman job to provide for the man.
@Safiazhd I have said many times that I agree with you.
A man takes care of his family
But as I said, the system is different in Europe.
It's different in Türkiye. In Türkiye, no man takes a woman's money.
We call the person who takes women's money kavat.
But I don’t get it , if u are not interested just cut him off? Why are u obsessed with him?
I'm not obsessed with this guy because I never dated him