Why would he call me and say “what’s up” then always texts me babe at the same time saying he is romantically attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

Am I overreacting or is it a red flag or something

[Summeroflove]

Having mixed feelings is normal flirting is fine to see if there is mutual interest sort of testing the waters. But at some point someone needs to just be direct about things.

What I would do if I was you is just directly in a respectful manner ask him what he means when he sends those things ask him if it’s romantically attached. Things like this are better dealt with head on then how you proceed depends on how you feel about him.

If you do not feel romantically for him be kind but tell him you don’t. You’re doing this both for yourself as well as giving him closure so he’s not wasting his time. If you do like him then maybe see if he wants to meet for coffee.

But red flags are important such as, wanting to know is intentions. Is his intentions not romantic at all and he’s being silly. Is he just wanting sex. Does he want a genuine relationship. It just all really depends.

[ohsheeT]

Well either he's extremely shy and can't say it over the phone because he would feel his voice tremble and you would hear that

Or he's just straight up bipolar

[tzdc21]

Him being attracted to you is a red flag? I'm not exactly following here

[Wise4myage]

He's interested?