If a guy asks if I would like to go out and get pizza sometime, is he asking me out on a date?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

This is a cute and funny question

I hate dates because they're premeditated and you have to plan for them and blah blah blah blah blah

But you can look at it like that I believe

But since he said would you like to go get a pizza sometime

That means one day he might just call you up or text you or whatever and say hey you want to go get some pizza hang out that means you're going to go out and have fun is what that would mean if I was saying it


But for me I would never say the word date because I just hate that word I would rather just friends I mean good friends and go do things and whatever it goes it goes

When I hear the word date I picture myself in a tuxedo and just all clean cut American and with a pre-planned whatever I hate free planning to anything I like to be spontaneous and fun

But yeah it's probably a date

[Summeroflove]

Ask him to clarify I can assume that’s what he means but sometimes asking someone for clarification goes a long way.

Did you agree to go?

[Asker]

I didn't respond because I'm not interested in him.

[Summeroflove]

Don’t just ignore him. That’s cowardly. Just tell him “sorry I’m busy over Christmas but I’m not interested in going. Don’t take it personally I just respect you enough to not waste your time”

[Asker]

It might be too late honestly. He texted me this week's ago

[Summeroflove]

I understand just text him what I said.

[Asker]

I get what you're saying but I see him still posting on social media so he must have moved on. It feels like texting him now would be revisiting something that's already dead

[Summeroflove]

Maybe but it’s best to be honest. You don’t want him wondering. Just give him closure

[Asker]

I understand

[Summeroflove]

Thanks. I und being honest can be hard and I’m by no means saying to be a bitch about it. I understand it can be nerve wrecking and even awkward.

But I assume you would want someone to be straightforward witn you. You don’t want to be sitting around wondering what something can be if it’s nothing

[ProbablyClueless]

That definitely sounds like a date, but you should really be asking him this directly, if possible.

[Asker]

I didn't respond because I'm not interested in him

[ProbablyClueless]

Would you go if it turned out that he only wanted to go as friends?

[Asker]

I would but I'm certain he wants more than that

[ProbablyClueless]

Gotcha. That makes sense

[slatyb]

Lazily Say something like "Maybe. If you give me a specific time and place then I can give you a definite answer."

[Anonymous]

What else would it be?

[Asker]

He wants to hang out

[Opinion Owner]

More than likely it’s a date. I’m sure there’s a specific date and time right? Then it’s a date.

[Asker]

He didn't specify a time and date. He asked if I liked pizza and I said yes. He then proceeded to ask would I like to get pizza sometime

[Opinion Owner]

So ask him

[Asker]

I'm not interested in him so I didn't respond

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. So why are you asking if it’s a date or not?

[Truthatanycost]

Pizza = sex.

[rachel776]

correct ✔️