If a guy asks if you like pizza and you say yes and then he asks do you want to get pizza sometime, is that a sign he is interested in you?

[Anonymous]

[236color]

Yeah, sounds he was trying to gage if you're open to a date. If you are, suggest a day and time, or alternately, a favorite pizzeria. If not don't reply. With guys getting yelled at for aggressive approaches, they are being pretty subtle if they approach at all. Again, if you're interested, give him a hand. He's not going to get it from eye contact and posture. Use your words.

[Asker]

This guy messaged me on social media. I felt that was kind of weird. Currently I didn't respond because I'm not really attracted to him

[236color]

Well then, no more need be done.

[LilCorgiXx]

Yes, that could be a sign he is interested in you, especially if he asked in a way that felt personal or like he wanted to spend one-on-one time together instead of just a casual group outing. If he followed up with specific plans or seemed eager, that makes it even more likely.

If he texted you months ago and you are wondering if too much time has passed, that depends on how you feel. If you are still interested, you could reply casually and see how he reacts. Something like, I just realized I never replied to this hope you are doing well! Still up for that pizza? keeps the conversation light and gives him a chance to respond. If he is still interested, he will likely engage. If not, no harm done!

[LilCorgiXx]

Thanks for the MHO

[SuperJJ]

I think it's more of a sign of stupidity. If I've already told him that I like pizza, why is he asking if I want a pizza sometimes?

[Anonymous]

Yes it could be. I’m not trying to take a girl out that I have no interest in, especially if it involves spending money. Now if he ask you do you like sausage or pepperoni then yes I’d confirm he definitely likes you lol

[Lliam]

Yes. That's how you ask a girl if she is interested in going on a date.

[Asker]

You never know someone's real intentions. You don't know if he's looking for sex or a relationship.

[Lliam]

Or both. I mean, don't relationships include sex? Isn't that kind of the point?
But you are the one who decides when you are ready for sex. So why not go out? What's the alternative, never going on a date and talking to a guy to get to know him?

[DryGermanGuy]

No, but he is interested in pizza. 🤔🙂

[MikeRJ]

It certainly sounds like it.

[Asker]

Interested in what is the real question

[MikeRJ]

In getting to know you better.

[Asker]

I guess so. Is it weird that he messaged me on TikTok?

[MikeRJ]

Why would it be weird?

[Asker]

There wasn't much conversation. Although I know him it was out of left field

[MikeRJ]

Do you like him?

[Asker]

Not really attracted to him because of his height. I'm 6'0 and he is like 5'7

[MikeRJ]

Maybe he likes tall women.

[Asker]

Probably so but wouldn't it be weird for a tall woman dating a guy that short?

[MikeRJ]

Not if you like him. Is he nice?

[Asker]

It's hard to determine if someone is nice if all interactions are through social media

[MikeRJ]

You've never met in person?

[Asker]

Years back we did. So many things have changed since then. He wasn't the most pleasant back then

[MikeRJ]

Do you think he has changed?

[Asker]

How can I tell if I don't see him in person?

[MikeRJ]

So go have pizza with him.

[Asker]

I ignored his message for months. It might be too late

[In_Trance]

No, it's a sign he's interested in pizza

[jahaims]

More than likely