Ladies, what are your real intentions here?

[Anonymous]

I’m stuck in a situation where I don't know what to do. Me & this had in a fling beginning of year which grew into something more. But along the way, she felt like I was way outta her league, so she ended up hooking with her coworker who’s 9 years younger. They live together but not in a relationship and is having his baby next month. But ever since she hooked up with him, she’s been regretting it ever since because she’s already a mom of one with no help and now another coming. And wishes it was my kid she was having. He hasn’t helped her out at all with nothing. But the past 2 months we’ve reconnected and been talking and hanging out as whatever we are. But she wants to everything with us a secret from everyone, especially him. So my question is what is her endgame? Should I fight for her knowing we both have strong feelings for each other or should I leave and move on? Ask me whatever if you need more information

[Anonymous]

Dude, that sounds like a really complicated situation you've got going on. It's tough when you've got feelings for someone, but there's all this other stuff going on too. I can see why you'd be unsure about what to do.

From what you're saying, it seems like your girl is in a pretty tough spot. She hooked up with this other dude, got pregnant, and now she's regretting it because he's not helping her out at all. Meanwhile, she's still got feelings for you and wishes you were the one she was having a kid with.

I can understand why she might want to keep things secret, especially from the other guy. That's gotta be a messy situation all around. But at the same time, you deserve to be in a relationship where you don't have to hide everything.

It's hard to say what her endgame is exactly. Maybe she's hoping to eventually leave the other guy and be with you instead? Or maybe she just wants to keep you around as a backup plan? Either way, that's kind of a shitty position to put you in, you know?

Ultimately, you gotta do what's best for you, bro. If you've got strong feelings for her and you think it could work, then maybe it's worth fighting for. But you also have to weigh the risk of getting caught up in all that drama. It might just be easier to move on and find someone who can give you the open and honest relationship you deserve.

Whatever you decide, just make sure you're looking out for yourself first and foremost. Don't let her use you or string you along, you feel me? Trust your gut on this one, man.

Dude, that sounds like a really complicated situation you've got going on. It's tough when you've got feelings for someone, but there's all this other stuff going on too. I can see why you'd be unsure about what to do.

From what you're saying, it seems like your girl is in a pretty tough spot. She hooked up with this other dude, got pregnant, and now she's regretting it because he's not helping her out at all. Meanwhile, she's still got feelings for you and wishes you were the one she was having a kid with.

I can understand why she might want to keep things secret, especially from the other guy. That's gotta be a messy situation all around. But at the same time, you deserve to be in a relationship where you don't have to hide everything.

It's hard to say what her endgame is exactly. Maybe she's hoping to eventually leave the other guy and be with you instead? Or maybe she just wants to keep you around as a backup plan? Either way, that's kind of a shitty position to put you in, you know?

Ultimately, you gotta do what's best for you, bro. If you've got strong feelings for her and you think it could work, then maybe it's worth fighting for. But you also have to weigh the risk of getting caught up in all that drama. It might just be easier to move on and find someone who can give you the open and honest relationship you deserve.

Whatever you decide, just make sure you're looking out for yourself first and foremost. Don't let her use you or string you along, you feel me? Trust your gut on this one, man.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that sounds like a really complicated situation you've got going on. It's tough when you've got feelings for someone, but there's all this other stuff going on too. I can see why you'd be unsure about what to do.

From what you're saying, it seems like your girl is in a pretty tough spot. She hooked up with this other dude, got pregnant, and now she's regretting it because he's not helping her out at all. Meanwhile, she's still got feelings for you and wishes you were the one she was having a kid with.

I can understand why she might want to keep things secret, especially from the other guy. That's gotta be a messy situation all around. But at the same time, you deserve to be in a relationship where you don't have to hide everything.

It's hard to say what her endgame is exactly. Maybe she's hoping to eventually leave the other guy and be with you instead? Or maybe she just wants to keep you around as a backup plan? Either way, that's kind of a shitty position to put you in, you know?

Ultimately, you gotta do what's best for you, bro. If you've got strong feelings for her and you think it could work, then maybe it's worth fighting for. But you also have to weigh the risk of getting caught up in all that drama. It might just be easier to move on and find someone who can give you the open and honest relationship you deserve.

Whatever you decide, just make sure you're looking out for yourself first and foremost. Don't let her use you or string you along, you feel me? Trust your gut on this one, man.

[Nikki1989]

There are NO leagues.

[Asker]

Exactly. You like who you like

[Anonymous]

Why u out of her league

[Asker]

She said I was too sexy and put together well and that my life was more focused than hers. And that she didn’t wanna embarrass me.