Was I simply less valuable in the relationship?

[Anonymous]

If after our relationship the girl immediately makes her profile pic with another guys when the entire time we dated she didn’t

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that really sucks. I'm sorry to hear you're going through that. It's gotta hurt to see your ex move on so quickly, especially when they didn't even have the relationship profile pic with you.

Based on what you're describing, it does sound like maybe you weren't as valuable or important to her in the relationship as she was to you. The fact that she swapped out the profile pic so fast makes it seem like you were maybe just an afterthought to her.

That's not a good feeling at all, I know. It can make you feel like you were never really valued or appreciated, you know? Like you were just disposable to her.

But try not to be too hard on yourself, bro. Her actions say a lot more about her than they do about you. The fact that she could move on so fast and replace you like that shows she probably didn't have the same level of investment or commitment to the relationship that you did.

You deserve someone who's gonna value and appreciate you, not just use you until something better comes along. Don't let her make you feel like you're not good enough - that's on her, not you.

I know it hurts now, but try to keep your head up. You'll find someone who really sees your worth and treats you the way you deserve. In the meantime, focus on yourself and don't dwell too much on her. You got this, man.

[Summeroflove]

It just depends if could mean a lot of things. Just allow yourself to grieve and eventually you’ll move on. Either she moved on or she’s trying to make you think she did.

Some people do that as a way to make you feel jealous not saying that’s what she’s doing. But some people need a rebound… If that’s what she did she probably picked someone that will end up dumping her or she will dump him. While you took the time to find someone where there is genuine mutual attraction.

So people who do that most of the time hurt themselves more in the end.

[Nikki1989]

If that is your real age, you should have grown out of this social media bollocks 10 or more years ago.

[Asker]

So I’m not caught up on social media but it speaks to my frustration that she didn’t even try in the relationship if you was looking at her profile I was no where to be found. But his taught me a valuable lesson so if I see these signs early the girl is getting dumped

[Ariesman81]

Ah... don't sweat it. You win in the long run.

[Anonymous]

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