Been talking to a guy for a month and few weeks. We'd talk for almost 2 hrs on the phone at night, vid calls & chats. I was bothered though... he didn't plan dates despite saying he would or give me gifts. I gave him a hint but he still didn't try to🙂. He'd go on about how he'd like to date and marry me, how much he loved me.
Recently, I told him i grew feelings too.
He went out to buy snacks for dinner few days ago and randomly said that he's a bachelor so he's living like this for now. If he was married he'll call his wife, tell her to make what he's craving before he gets home and I asked what if she's busy or tired. He said he doesn't care how she's going to do it , he must eat what he wants when he gets back because that would be why he paid her dowry and had a wedding party. WOW
I said, I know that the wife is supposed to take care of her husband but you are not supposed to order her around but be considerate. We're in the 21st century and we has jobs, we have purposes and work to get done too. After that, He immediately asked me "Okay, So what's your purpose?" We argued & I told him he might not be able to date a career woman or someone who's really ambitious. Someone like me🙂.
He became triggered and I kept explaining, talked too much honestly; I was disappointed. He exaggerated everything i said, saying I won't be able to take care of the kids and show them motherly love, Yikes😂. Never said that sir!. Kept going out of proportion so I got tired out, I cut the call while he was talking & posted a laughing emoji on my story. I regret doing that to be very honest.
I told him the conversation was getting too heated and I didn't think I'd be able to date him but I hope he finds his type.
He left me on read!
I really like this guy, really attracted to him but I don't agree with his mentality; He says he's a traditionalist and I still feel like I just destroyed something that had beautiful potential. What do you guys think🙏🏼? I'm pained!
