Me or my sister?

[meorsister]

okay, here's some background knowledge. he's 3 years older then me,4 grades higher, and my sister is 2 years older then me and 1 year younger and 2 grades behind from him. lets call him pineapple. so pineapple is much closer to my sister then me. for example, he follows her insta and always gives her second opinions on her photos, and she follows him back and they go through eachothers phones sometimes. but i also noticed her usually doesn't look at my sister a lot, but mostly at me. pineapple also pulled up a picture of himself flexing in the mirror, and me being curious i said 'why are you looking at muscly men bro' and then he said 'thats me-?' and i just looked embarrassingly away. also on my sisters side she always act so.. different around pineapple like bubbly- and with this snob tone. but! pineapple hates when anyone is left alone like he's protective about everyone-. buttt when we went skiing and i was left alone he said' bro why'd (brothers name) leave you he wasn't supposed to' and then i said 'he told me i was too slow' and then pineapple ended up waiting for someones to watch me (this because i have a very bad sense of direction) and i ended up getting lost and getting level 2 frostbite and early stages of hypothermia, and once i told our group that pineapple looked almost surprised and worried. now on new years pineapples buddy, grape, fell asleep on my hand. and pineapple kept like side-eyeing us a bit, and i was confused since i was out of it. also also! we were going to play ghosts in the grave yard but my brother didn't want to team up with me since it was uneven so i ended up going to my room, changing out of my dress and watching squid game, but little did i know they ended going inside and not playing. and im still wondering why! but the more i think about it he likes my sister more then me. is this because of my age gap or is since i shy away a lot? grape also liked my sister whom i look like?

sister

me

[ohsheeT]

I'm so confused LOL

Who does pineapple come over to see you or your sister if it's with your sister you just going to have to relax chill that's the last thing you want to do is get in between your sister and her guy friend

There's 150 million guys out there that would love to probably date you the only reason why you're bringing this up is because he is there in the moment and is giving you attention

There's going to be a hundreds of moments like this in life because all of a sudden you just meet somebody and there's a connection of some sort but if it's your sister's friend you have to kind of back off a little bit and you just have to be friends don't worry there's other pineapples out there for you

[meorsister]

the time i mostly see pineapple is when we gather with friend groups, or at parties. this is since he's usually busy with med school and work

[ohsheeT]

I see . . Well you know it would break your sister's heart and she likes him. . . It would take her a lot to forgive you probably. It's a good question because I'm sure it happens more than we would know

[meorsister]

yeah, thats true. ill have a ask with my sister and ask her if she likes him or not

[ohsheeT]

Now I'm curious LOL

[molonski2]

Id say he is going for sister , but looking out for you also , at your age the 2 years makes a difference , it will not later on , so dont worry , Pineapple will be trying to look after his banana , and you will probably be interested in another. .

[meorsister]

honestly good to know he's kinda egotistical jerk

[molonski2]

Well that makes it even better.
I remember being 17 , and we boys were in a difficult situation , all the girls wanted guys who were 20/21 , and of course , we didn't want to go lower than 16 , but I looked so young , everyone thought I was younger. When guys get to around 21 , many are driven by ego..
Honestly , I think I was also , much like him , so I'd leave him for sister.

[meorsister]

probably will! grape is overall pretty much nicer but needs to work on how many girls he talks to-

[molonski2]

For sure , I reckon it will be many , he's a young brash dude , thats fair enough.

[Flower7]

Seems like he’s protective over you. That’s not necessarily a romantic thing though. It could mean he sees you like a little sister. Hopefully he likes you though, if that is what you want.

[meorsister]

it might be odd if he seesme as a little sister and dates me but thanks so much for the opinion!

[Anonymous]

What grade could he be in if he's 4 grades older than you when you're 17? 15th grade?

[meorsister]

i prefer grade terms he's in med school!

[meorsister]

we r in the same med school

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like pineapple has options, I guess it depends if the age is an issue for him along with personality and what he's attracted too, it's hard to tell and probably won't be clear for a while, just stay aware to his behavior and I'm sure something will come up til then just don't overthink I guess

[Staximus]

I don't know, but you should not be doing any more skiing or wandering around in the snow by yourself

[meorsister]

yeah i got lost because it was dark but luckily im all good and ski with a group!

[Staximus]

Just stop that skiing lady, no downhill sports

[Zack-Bann]

Considering you’re 17 and he’s 21 it’s still illegal for ol’piney to go for you just yet.


Just blow out your next birthday candles and then you can go full throttle

[Girlpowerrrrr]

I honestly feel as if he likes you but- if you do tend to shy away, he could be more into your sisters energy. you could take this either way and think you’ll never have a chance or you will. also take that opportunity to talk to grape!

[Anonymous]

Sister…,

[meorsister]

awe but maybe ill go after grape!