What does it mean when your boyfriend says “i love you and i’m attracted to you but I want to be more attracted to you”?

[Anonymous]

Extra details: I’m his first girlfriend, he was homeschooled so he didn’t have a lot of friend growing up. He also a virgin and we have been dating for two years. He said he love has grown for me as time goes by but this through me off.

I’m not his type. Blondes and brunettes are his type.

Thank you!

[Cormac995]

If a man forges a genuine connection with a woman those kinds of things stop mattering. Things like hair color and stuff are a small part of the appeal because people think they're pretty and all humans like pretty things but if he loves you the hair color is an incredibly and stupid small thing to be a problem. This is actually an indicator he's not shallow in my opinion and cares more about you than how you look. Maybe it would make him happy maybe it won't but if you wanted to surprise him you could dye your hair but that's your decision since it's your hair.

[ohsheeT]

Stripper music please

That means you turn him on. And all he's had in his head is fantasies and he wants you to play this fantasies out for him

[Anonymous]

He does need to be getting laid, especially if he's 35.

[Anonymous]

He should dump you if after dating you for 2 years he's still a virgin. You probably railed other guys after 20 minutes in the parking lot and he has to wait. No time for that. He should be fkg 2 girls on the side to make up for lost time.

[Anonymous]

What are u? If not blonde or brunette