I like this guy but I’m scared to ask him out I really like him how do I know if he likes me the same way I’m scared he will say no?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Why are you scared if somebody says no
somebody says no to you there's a reason behind it
It doesn't mean that he dislikes you or anything like that there's just a reason behind it and you have to respect that reason and there's nothing wrong with being turned down it's embarrassing for 5 to 10 minutes but then you really think about it
And I guarantee it if he turns you down that you will find somebody else very quickly
We are our thoughts whatever you're thinking we are our thoughts so bring in positive bring in those things into your heart your body your soul your mind your spirit your energy

It's okay to be turned down believe me I have been turned down I have been embarrassed for a moment and I realize it's not that they dislike me there was a reason for it and at least you know where you stand and it will probably make you become better friends no matter which direction it goes so take a leap and just do it

[Purpleronnie]

It’s a little contradictory to say on one hand that you REALLY like a guy but on the other say you’re too scared to ask him out.. don’t you think? Surely you like him enough to want to let him know how you feel?
Don’t you think you owe it to yourself to at least take your shot?
Is it not better to fail having tried than to not try at all guaranteeing failure?


Personally I’d think he would have to be an unobservant idiot not to have some idea already that you like him but putting that aside women aren’t the only gender that are attracted to confidence.


Fortune favors the brave !

[SueShe]

Being scared of being rejected is part of the dating game.

What do you know about that guy? Is it simply a crush you have on somebody or have you interacted with him? Do you know what he likes or dislike?

Tailor your approach by getting as much information about him and mainly on his likes. If you read up on those and look knowledgeable about them, he is likely going to find you interesting. But if you never even talked with him, he may see you as and intruder more than anything else.

Your best bet is simply to approach him and start talking with him about those things he likes. The longer you keep him interested, the quicker he may find you interesting. But be ready for a rejection. It is not the end of the world. Good luck.

[LeannaLuvsu]

If i like a guy and want to find out if he is into me I just flirt with him a bit.

[Avicenna]

Just ask him out before another woman does

[Fireguy17]

welcome to adulthood!
Men have delt with this for eons.
You simply go up and ask him.
The worst he can say is yes, and you don't even make it out of the car with your clothes on after your 1st date and leave marks on the headliner with your high heels and years down the road you will be helping to pick out your grandkid's names.
Or he says no thank you, I'm married, I am in a relationship, I'm gay, or simply I'm not interested.
The choice is yours, so adult up and go ask.
What if he feels the same about you and is too shy to ask you out?
But at least you know.
While no one likes to be rejected it happens, it's part of life, so get over yourself and ask, or you will always wonder what if when you become a single cat lady later in life.

[Cormac995]

Asking someone out is hard but it might surprise you to know a shit ton of men actually wish woman would ask them out more often because we have trouble reading the signs and it's so stressful that there's a solid chance you taking the lead will actually be a massive relief to him.

[Anonymous]

Having self doubt gets old as we do normally.


I would say Im bolder than I was when I was a kid and expect to be bolder still in the coming years.


But you still find a way to pussyfoot around emotions even though you’re well in your 40’s


Just go for it.
It’s not like you don’t know what being single feels like you can deal with what comes out of it

[Garud]

Don't ask directly, but give clear signs that you care and you will get your answer.

[Anonymous]

Lol you're 45 hun. Are you go to be a chicken your entire life? Nothing worth having comes without risk.

[Anonymous]

Why do u like them