Women do cheat according a take article I see here?

[Anonymous]

Also not to mention a dating coach who is female even said men are more loyal than women. Men do cheat, mostly cause their woman is stubborn wish washy. I think that’s ok for men to have sex outside of a relationship.

but women do it for shallow reasons. They cheat because they go Gaga for the hot guy according to the article. It proves my point that looks matter more to women than men. If a woman cheats, I’d say leave her.

but when a guy does, he can change. They are justified doing so and their woman needs to change and keep pleasing their guy. Am I right?

[Summeroflove]

I disagree that it’s okay for anybody to cheat if a woman is loyal she deserves a loyal man point blank.

The first reason is lack of self control they allow lust to get the better of them instead of shutting down even the thought of cheating they entertain it. Either person can change but only if they really feel bad about it and want to. A lot of people come to their senses later and feel horrible for what they have done. But that’s their choice to either repent or get worse.

Now…. On the other hand there is those dark personalities such as narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. People who aren’t able to build genuine relationships who WILL most of the time cheat on someone.

They aren’t with them because they feel a genuine connection. These people most of the time do not feel bad at best they’re indifferent at worst they love hurting you.

These are the people they sleep around for fun, they sleep around to get money, really anything. But they are using someone. They want your money. They like the way you make them feel. They want your support. They want you to bail them out of trouble and the whole list of things goes on.

People like that male or female…. Can’t and won’t make a genuine connection. Don’t waste time with them. But dude…. You can’t hold other people to standards you brazenly don’t hold yourself to. If you think cheating is okay you’re going to get exactly what you deserve.

[Anonymous]

ABSOLUTELY!! No question about it!!
I've been telling my ex about my loyalty for months but, she just refuses to believe me! For SOME REASON, she's got her mind made up that I cheated and lied to her when I never did either!!
With my previous ex, I'd always held out hope that she'd go back to fucking me again until I learned that she'd been cheating on me at least the previous year, if not two.
I'm not one to make ANYBODY change unless, like in the last case, it's REALLY needed. I'd take her back in a heartbeat if she'd only get some help.

[Summeroflove]

You can’t make someoem change

[Opinion Owner]

@Summeroflove Nor would I try! About the nest I can do is make suggestions. UNLESS what she was doing was either hurting or dangerous to one of us; or possibly others.

[RageBabe]

You're correct: "Low moral" women cheat.

[Summeroflove]

You’re right about that. But high moral women aren’t going to tolerate cheating either. I don’t understand why so many people think (and of both sexes) that it’s okay for them to cheat but not someone else

[RageBabe]

@Summeroflove You've lost me. In what way did I suggest that I approved of cheating?

[Summeroflove]

You didn’t he didn’t

[Summeroflove]

*he did

[Summeroflove]

If you read his post he’s saying it’s fine for men to cheat. Just not women…. That’s wrong

[RageBabe]

@Summeroflove Sorry, I misread it; I do agree.

[Summeroflove]

It’s all good

[Asker]

I think it’s Darwin’s nature thing. It’s nature selection to seek seed from many guys to get pregnant. All they care is hot looking guys and $

[Anonymous]

Most of women's cheating is to secure an upgrade from a relationship. Not just for random sex, like how guys cheat. That seems less shallow to me. Still wrong, but much deeper of a connection and reasoning. Hypergamy. As opposed to polygyny. Obviously women also cheat with no intention of leaving (which is also a biological mechanism to secure superior offspring to care for you later down the road because your current partner seems weak, but you don't want to leave or don't think a superior man will stay with you) but it's just less common.

Also, way more women cheat than they admit to, or studies will capture. Many women on GAG have admitted to this. They create reasons that magically make the cheating not count as cheating. Plus, girl code is 1,000x stronger than bro code, so they keep that secret way better than guys do.

[Summeroflove]

Women who do stuff like that are of the dark personality traits. It’s not all of them…. But the ones that do are women that cannot form genuine connections with other people.

There are definitely people who do stuff like this just believe me…. There are women married to strong men who cheat on them with bums and losers. Why? Because they wanted to

[Opinion Owner]

@Summeroflove oh for sure

[AnonAndrew]

Huh. I think the other way around. I think cheating for women is natural in today's society, to be honest, but it's quite unnatural (and unacceptable) for a man.