Do guys sometimes have to reject the girl they wanted more for a girl they need in their life more importantly? The one he stays with can't lose?

[Anonymous]

girl a) he knew first he's known longer they have more connection and history
the bond is more important
=wholesome & sacred

girl b) he showed a different side to but this was too jeopardizing to go somewhere on a further level because it's too unexpected too new
wouldn't make sense pursuing
because she's nobody to him
and sadly it meant nothing
+unnecessary drama
"temporary fling"

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11 mo

would he keep those shameful feelings withholding from the girl he didn't want to mislead accidentally making her believe she has a chance he just can't give for the sake of his real woman's happiness and that relationship

[AnonAndrew]

It sounds to me like he doesn't like girl b that much, and was just leading her on. Or maybe she misinterpreted or lied to herself?

[Asker]

exactly like it was just false hope
because of accidental attachment

[AnonAndrew]

It does sound like false hope to me.

[Asker]

then what else could it be

[AnonAndrew]

I wrote that it _does_ sound like false hope to me - so yes, I think it was just false hope. Nothing real.

[Asker]

sorry read too fast 😅

[AnonAndrew]

No problem, it happens. :)

[Asker]

well I guess you're the only person who commented on my entire post LOL so here you go,
MHO 👍⭐

[AnonAndrew]

Thank you! :)