Tell any woman you've been together for 4+ years this and prepare to lose her:
I love you. You're the love of my life but I'm not ready yet. I'm not settling down yet. I'm not sure if you're the one.
She's crying at this point. No women is going to understand ''You're my life but after 4 years I only want you as a girlfriend''. To any women, that wouldn't make any sense at all.
Vice-versa (it's the girl that's wasting his time) and he still has to wait for her:
Just because I said no to your proposal, doesn't mean I don't love you. I know it's been 4 years but I'm just not sure if I'm ready yet. Let me continue keeping you as a boyfriend.
He's suppose to wait till she's ready, be understandable and be more patient. LOL
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