Is it common for girls to ghost you after they get mad?

[red324]

I've never understood this. I see couples argue all the time about stuff and stay together, but if I ever say something they don't like it's adios amigo. Everyone says things they regret, but even if you say sorry, that's still not good enough for her.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Depends on the woman to be real with you. It also depends on your status... as a man... basically how moist you make the vaginas around you.

My experience with actually getting ghosted by a girl is because she was cheating on some other guy to begin with and for some reason instead of just telling me so I can just fuck right off and leave her alone... they'll leave you guessing if you did something wrong. I always found out in due time anyways. I'm to the point now that getting ghosted just makes me assume she's fucking some other guy. I guess cheating on 1 guy isn't enough, but she's got to make me feel like I'm getting cheated on too.

So anyways, it it common? Not from my experience. I've ran through 100's of women and I only have a handful of examples of it happening. And out of my handful of experiences with it, like I said, they had no business talking to me to begin with. Usually instead of ghosting like that, they'll just tell me. But maybe that's because I'm totally fine with a girl wanting to take a stab at having a real boyfriend and can't really do that while she's still sleeping with me.

[red324]

I think the last girl she was just waiting for me to do something wrong so she could justify moving on.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Oh yeah for sure. I've seen girl ghost guys because they went out on some Saturday night and ended up getting into a relationship. So instead of dealing with the stigma, drama, or the blame they deserve for being a cheater... they'll just ghost.

You wouldn't go wrong adopting my attitude towards women that ghost. Just assume they have a different guy and then just move on. Most of them just don't want to explain themselves. Assuming they just have a different dick in their hand takes away the pain of guessing if I did anything really wrong.

I mean it's almost always the "It isn't you, it's me" situation that television sitcoms loved to play so much when I was a kid. And it's probably not you, it's her wanting some other guy's dick.

[red324]

How do they all of a sudden end up in a relationship?

[D_Bone_Steak]

The average woman in a relationship has 4 backup guys already. Backup guys are their first choice if the current one doesn't work out and also one they do a bit more with on the down low before that even happens.

Then there's the SMV (sexual market value). Depending on where you live, a fat chick with hairy armpits and AIDS dripping down her leg can literally walk into a random bar and find a guy. If you don't live in one of those countries then you know what it's like for women to chase you even if you look like an anime nerd that hasn't seen his own penis for years without the help of a mirror.

Women don't have a really hard time getting their other options in order. But then again that depends on where you live and the type of women you're dealing with.

[red324]

They just decide to be official one night with a guy they've been seeing I guess

[red324]

Makes sense because they always know a guy somewhere that wants them. I used to do the same thing with online dating. I'd date 3-5 girls at once, but never got to the point of becoming official. They never stuck around long enough becaise like you said, they had plenty of other dudes to go to, but I thought that was only online dating. Guess it's everywhere

[D_Bone_Steak]

YUP! They're just not the innocent Disney princesses the television tried to brain wash us into thinking they are. Most of them are just like my Mom. Picks up come Cowboy from the bar while Step-Dad is in jail, starts dirty dancing on him like a stripper in the living room, makes me and my 2 sisters go to our rooms and then we try to sleep to the porn like noises until they pass out sleeping around 3am in the morning. Then the Cowboy from the first night gets ghosted until the new fling doesn't work out. The ghosting stops for the first cowboy after things don't work out with Cowboy #2 or my Step-Dad gets out of jail. <--that's what women are really like.

But imagine how angelic she is to the first cowboy. They're not a kid like me seeing all the nasty shit behind the scenes. Each and every single one of them think they're 'special' or believes her that she's only been like that with him.

The golden rule is if you got this or that out of her, pretty much every dude before and after you have and will. "No girl is ever really yours, it was just your turn." Sure some women are not as bad as my Mom, but most of them are.

[red324]

Yeah I don't even go on dates much anymore because I realized the thing I was looking for (a steady loyal girl) is pretty much a pipe dream. Amazing how women can cheat and keep their mouth shut somehow, but yet they blab about everything else.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Right? Or they can pretend they wouldn't ever do such things... all while in reality they do nothing but the dirtiest of dirty things.

[lightbulb27]

I think depends on personality and if they can handle the situation.

My wife as one example is easy peasy with most everything.. except critical values based issues. When one turns up, she digs in and engages until it's resolve. They were once knock down drag outs when I didn't understand nor did she. We figured it out and most issues are quickly and easily resolved.

I think Japanese culture (neither of us are... it's just example) of bowing is a good idea. We have to learn to bow to each other while also holding to critical values and views... but with vulnerability and some flexibility as well.

It's not easy. A lot of people don't know how to argue, disagree, and work through conflicts. Frankly, I've seen people complain that "loading the dishwasher" and not closing cabinet doors was the justification for divorce. There is a reason Chinese Water Torture only required a little drop of water. It doesn't take much to PI#$@#$ a person off...

[Valdemort]

I've usually have that happen with guys tbh. I've never ghosted anyone, but been ghosted a couple times for sure.

If there's something on my mind, I will express that. I'm not just gonna bail on someone.

[Valdemort]

Ty for mho!

[Flower7]

Start thinking before you speak instead of trying to take it back afterwards.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It would be interesting to have the whole map here, from all sides and all angles, in order to:

• Look at the couples who didn't stay together
• Look at the things you said they don't like but they got over it without telling you.
• Look at what you said that got you banned, seen through other's perspective
• Look at all people being ghosted and the causes
• Look at how and why some couples still stay together

What do you say?

[red324]

Yeah. I just assume they didn't really like me. Or at least weren't very attached to me. If they love you enough I think they'll get over almost anything

[Roldrake]

Oh I has girls ghost me after they get mad all the time. Like whenever the catch me banging they mom or stealing they money the like ghost me. I don't be taking it personal I just keep bangin' they mom and go out for dinners with the cash I stole from them.

[red324]

Lmao!

[red324]

This needs to be an entirely different question.

[Gospeedracer]

My ex bunny boiler girlfriend through all my stuff out onto the street because I was forced to work back late one night, then she couldn't work out why I didn't want her back. It's most likely better for you that she ghosted you. she is either a psycho or she wasn't that into you in the first place.

[Purpleronnie]

Sadly it’s common for people to ghost these days , a sign of the times.
Just don’t be thinking it’s female thing

[Breanna_nonbinary]

It’s typical for people to ghost you when they don’t know how to resolve arguments or don’t know how to deal with their frustrations.

[dustybiker2]

Modern generations I'm sure. They are all lacking social skills.

[12karen]

Depends on how much she care about you or how upset she is

And sometimes you need to say sorry and prove you are sorry but not just sorry= (then get over it now)

[Yannae]

Not for girls. But people who are immature. They ghost you. Block you. And then when they calmed down they come back. Stay away from these people.

[Anonymous]

Yes, that's why you have to call GhostBusters :P

[Crazzyyworld]

All girls are whores

[red324]

Pfft they don't put out for me