Why is having a handsome husband just a dream for me?

[Anonymous]

Does it mean I’m ugly? Handsome guys keep rejecting me without giving me a reason. Will I never have a handsome man in my life?

[Anonymous]

Don’t know. Need more context. Maybe a picture. Even w looks if your personality is bad men still won’t wife you up. They’d smash you, but a majority of men aren’t going to want to be in a relationship you. The only ones who would are the ones who most likely can’t get a girl so they’re willing to put up w whatever just to be w someone. But the reality of that is more than likely those are men you don’t want to be with. I’d also consider your age. You’re not old compared to life expectancies of women, but in the dating realm you’re getting up there. It’s not impossible to find someone, just more challenging. Have you had a boyfriend before?

[Asker]

So you’re assuming my personality is bad because you think I’m ugly

[Opinion Owner]

It’s a general statement. Why do women take everting personally. I don’t know you. But since you’re assuming I’m assuming what your personality is like. Yes it might be bad. From reading your response to someone else about being told you’re beautiful, that you’re not fat. Than yes I can assume maybe it’s your personality. When a girl is cute, gorgeous or whatever, she should have no problem attracting men. But when she’s all that but still single in her late 20s on, chances are there’s something wrong w her that men don’t even want to be w her.

[Asker]

You’re an idiot to mistreat someone you find ugly so let me remind you that you’re an old loser so you must be fugly

[Opinion Owner]

Ok see this is why you can’t find a man. Because rather than inquire as to what else could be going on. What can I do to increase my chances of meeting someone, you’re lashing out. That right there is why men don’t want to take you seriously, because you don’t know how to hold a conversation. You asked an equation so I gave an opinion. Yes I’m fugly w the girl of my dreams going on 16 years. She hasn’t had to work for those 16 years either.

[incorrected]

He never said anything like that. I think I can see at least part of the reason they're not settling for you...

[Asker]

@incorrected No you’re just making me give you a negative reaction by assuming I’m bad because you assume I’m ugly

[Opinion Owner]

@incorrected thank you. You try to have a conversation w people, especially women but they react this way. Oh well she will find out later on down the road.

[incorrected]

You could be average looking and aiming for very attractive men who have other options for all we know. No such assumptions are being made, but if you're obese, for instance, that's going to matter somewhat. I can't get the 10/10 attractive women with the 10/10 personality I want either, so something has to give. Looks are just one variable, and they matter. Why would that 10/10 not go with someone just as good in personality as I am but who is also a 10/10 in looks? That's reality. Suck it up, buttercup.

[incorrected]

Just another insecure person seeking validation and consolation I think, and not yet prepared to deal in reality. Looks are very important, and it's a fact that if she's chasing attractive dudes and she's only 5/10 in looks, it's highly unlikely her personality is so great that they don't have better options to settle with later. The fact that she's gotten herself so upset over the incorrect idea that we assume she's ugly tells me that she at least thinks she's ugly, which probably means she is because otherwise she'd have mountains of compliments telling her otherwise and would know she's pretty.

[Opinion Owner]

@incorrected just one of many women who think they’re perfect. Women who get hit on by dudes who just want to smash them so they think they deserve a 10. It’s funny how men try to be honest w women as far as what we want, what we like, what we think. But for some reason no we’re not supposed to think the way we do. We’re supposed to think the way they want us to. This is why men can’t be honest w women, cause they get their feelings hurt easily. One of the reasons why men don’t talk, cause whatever you say is always wrong. Then women wonder why men aren’t pursuing them anymore. Why men would rather just be single. Not worth the trouble.

[incorrected]

I don't mistreat anyone because they're ugly... You on the other hand, just did...

[ohsheeT]

Well you're looking for somebody it's only a little piece of the equation I mean the guy has to have a good heart he has to be kind he has to be smart he has to be wise he has to be able to take care of you provide keep you safe I mean there's many many other things that a guy needs to be besides just handsome if you're going to just find that guy well it probably won't last very long

[gowildcats007]

There are more important things than looks. Maybe if you notice something else about a man you like, he will seem more handsome. I found that about a couple boys I liked after I learned some things about them that are important to me.

[HoldingtheSword]

If you were lucky enough, you would have met an attractive man like me by now. I feel sorry for you.

[Asker]

You’re a child and no way of knowing your appearance without seeing you

[HoldingtheSword]

Age is just a number

[Asker]

Still haven’t seen you you could be ugly as fuck

[HoldingtheSword]

"Does it mean I’m ugly? "
If you want, I can see you and tell you what I think about you being beautiful or ugly.

[Asker]

Someone I find ugly can’t decide my appearance

[HoldingtheSword]

Oh, that's too bad because I'm really good at telling if people are beautiful or not.

[ehatsham_hussain]

Never lose your hope,
Best of luck for you 🤞

[Fury_storm]

you're probably ugly or fat

[Asker]

Why haven’t I received those comments from most people? I have even been called beautiful in my life and no I’m not fat

[Fury_storm]

I dunno. But lots of ugly girls have been called beautiful by liars.

[Asker]

So what makes someone beautiful because the woman in your profile picture looks ugly

[Fury_storm]

she's literally a famous model. if you think she's ugly, you must look different and therefore ugly

[Asker]

No I have big eyes and thin lips but I’m not a model so you claim I’m ugly

[Asker]

She literally has big eyes, thin lips and dark eyebrows like me but she also has some sort of racism going in her favour

[Fury_storm]

What do you mean racism? It doesn't matter if you're a little like her. if you're not getting hot guys you're probably ugly

[Asker]

No she’s not hotter she’s just white

[Fury_storm]

you're dumb. and black? nobody likes black girls

[Asker]

So it’s not about looks it’s about race

[Fury_storm]

it's both. hot black girls can get guys. I dunno about getting HOT guys though

[Anonymous]

Most likely.