Why is so hard to get a husband?

[Anonymous]

I’m 30 with a job, I earn more than enough for myself, i have my own house and cars. I’m not ugly and not fat (at least that what people say to me) I know people have different tests but i got a lot compliments about my appearance from people.

But why is so hard to me to fine a partner for serious relationship? I saw so many people get married after only dating for 6 months, a year. etc
But why for me is so hard?
I am independent, submissive and i never asked a man for money. But it’s still so hard to find someone who has the same energy or interest to have a little family.

[Anonymous]

I don't know you, so I may be way off the mark, here, and if so, I apologize.

It seems to be a common trend amongst women in your situation where their standards are simply too high, because they think too highly of themselves. Women have been conditioned to think they're all queens & 10/10, so they deserve a king who's also a 10/10.

Realistically, they may only be a 7/10, which isn't bad at all, and they've got lots of 6-8 men chasing after them. Since those men aren't up to the woman's standards, those guys, who may potentially be awesome husbands, get relegated to the friend zone.

Then, once the woman reaches a certain age, usually 30+, she starts to get desperate, asking where "all the good men are," when she's been passing them up in favor of a dream that will never happen. Then she eventually either "settles" for someone that's actually on her level, or starts buying cats.

Again, I'm not saying this specifically applies to you, because I know nothing about you, but I'm just speaking generally in case it may, just to give you a possibility to consider.

[Asker]

I don’t have high standards. I just have the same values as me. Nothing more.

[Finchie40]

Probably because most men today do not want to get married with all the negativity they read or hear about with females and marriages. So if you want marriage and babies you are best to be not mention marriage and babies to a guy that you find attractive and interested in, just date him and treat him like Gold , make him feel that you aren’t going anywhere and that you only have eyes for him , and rock his world in bed , after you are with him for a few months and things are going good between you both , tell him you would like to get married and have babies with him and he more than likely will want that with you since you were rocking his world

[linguistrosey]

Men generally don't care about how independent you are, so none of what you listed matter. It might also be a turn off to some guys. Have you tried looking in your closer circles? Friends or friends of family?

[beenherebefore]

Chances are you're too independent. When you meet someone don't mention how independent you are, an average guy can easily feel emasculated.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help untangle those love nerves! 🎈 Here's the scoop: having your life together is fabulous, but sometimes it might intimidate others if they're not on the same page. Flirting with your independence is great, but maybe show a bit of that softer side too! 😘 🏡 It's not about changing who you are—it's about letting people truly see the genuine, sparkling you! Keep that energy shining; your match will come when you least expect it! 💃💘

[HusamRocks]

Because guys don't want any independent woman, if he feels he can't provide for his family then he doesn't have a family 👍🏻

[Makeushiver]

Couple of ideas. Maybe you're scaring him with your goal for a relationship. It might be better to date, get to know some guys and then decide

[chrissykerdock]

how are your blowjob skills men are mainly interested in that

[The-Stud]

I mean , are you willing to give up your career for children though?

[Asker]

Yes of course if my husband ask to, I mean I won’t give up my career for a boyfriend. But husband yes for sure.

[jahaims]

You listed above lot of things guys don't care about. Try being feminine to attract males.

[Tempest_Flame]

i don't know about 10 years ago, maybe you're not hot enough, but right now you're too old

[MasterKS]

Age of marriage is declining, people more happy with open relationships! You should change with time.

[Anonymous]

The same reason why it's so hard to find a wife.

[serious]

I suppose it must only be bad luck then.