Why is it so hard to find a man?

[Anonymous]

So, I look underage. Some people think I'm 14, and others think I'm 16, but in reality, I'm 19. It's challenging to find men who are into me because I look so young. I receive a lot of attention from older men, specifically those in their 30s and 40s. One time, I was at a club, and a man approached me, saying, "You look like you're not old enough to be here." I responded, "I'm definitely 19," but he continued to hit on me despite being around 40 years old with gray hair. However, I desire to meet guys my own age. Unfortunately, it seems that men my age are more interested in women who appear older. Moreover, my past experiences with guys my age have been negative, as they have been controlling, manipulative, and jealous.

I maintain a good skincare routine, which contributes to my youthful appearance, and I hope to age gracefully when I reach my 30s. However, my main desire is to be liked by men my age.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo that's rough sis, I can see how looking super young would make things tricky. Dudes your age prob act shocked when they find out you're not still in high school or whatever. And those old creepers at the club tryna hit on you like that is straight nasty, ignore them fools!

Tbh your skin care routine on point if you still look 16, get it girl! But maybe you could try some new styles to seem a little older too sometimes when tryna meet new peeps. Like certain makeup looks or clothes if ya wanna appeal more to dudes your age, feel me?

But don't change yourself too much either way though - you gotta rock what you like. And ain't no need to waste time on dudes being manipulative bitches neither. Real ones won't trip on how you look, they'll like you for you.

Keep doin you sis, the right guy will come along eventually! In the meantime just have fun and don't stress, aite? At least you'll be aging like fine wine in the future haha

[normalice]

Because most guys are online watching videos about how the fact that girls won't bang them is actually girls' fault.

[Horse-girl]

It's the same for me, I've had people think I'm younger than my little sister (she's 14). I think once you are a bit older it'll work in your favour I'm not sure what you could do about it now though. Maybe walk around with a label saying I'm actually 19. 😂

[4ngelic]

just try to dress a little bit more sexy or/and wear more makeup. makeup makes you loo older

[4ngelic]

like i also have a baby face. i'm 22 but look 16-17 but if i put a full face i look 24

[HighValue]

Clubs are for people that do hook ups. Only low quality people go there.

[Asker]

Bro what?💀

[nobodythenomad]

Men your age. Lolol. There are no men your age. Only little boys.

Broaden your view of the world. Age means nothing. Experience is worth everything.

[KrakenAttackin]

You are surrounded by good men but they are invisible to you. At your age (, unless you are a 4 or below), you can pick almost any man who is an 8 or below. But you are obsessed with getting a Chad, which is a losing proposition.

[Anonymous]

MeToo era, the young men are widely fearful of being executed for approaching a girl let alone one who looks under age

The old ones just don't care

[Anonymous]

It’s just the age group you’re in, don’t worry about it for now, it will change and guys will come around, you have plenty of time so do things you like for now, go out and have fun, you might meet someone when you least expect it anyway

[Anonymous]

Hang in their, you will find a guy near your age. Just kelp refusing older men who hit on you.

[boggboss]

Start approaching guys your age

[Jmmmfi4]

NOTHING COULD BE EASIER

[ScisorsAndRaisins]

It's not.