I have a theory about why it's so hard to find someone. I believe so many people are looking for so many different things. A girl sees a guy, finds him hot, he finds her hot, they end up together, and soon they find they have nothing in common but their loos.
The wrong people are together for sure. I had a friend once that only dated for looks. She dated a total of 25 guys since I knew her. Not one of them respected her. All she talked about was how great the sex was, the ones that were good at it anyway. When it came to their common interests, they had none.
People expect too much. This one girl rejected me once, and I straight out asked her, is there something wrong with me? She got into the whole, "I don't see you that way."
I really believe people want too much from relationships. My advice is, write down a list of things you expect from a relationship, what you want out of it, and goals. The next time you meet someone, see if they meet some of the items on the list.
Not everyone will, probably a small percentage actually, but at least this way, you'll be know exactly what you want and be happy when you do meet someone worth your time.
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If that's what the dating world is about -humanity is doomed.
You won't date someone who got the 1 vaccine you don't agree with; even if he's an absolute 10 in all respects. You won't even consider him just because of one vaccine? That's crazy
I don't even have the jab and I think it's nuts
The jabbed are looney crazy in the head the more of the jabs they get... I'm not here to be anyone's care taker who did this to be experimented on you may want to research these jabs and what they're doing to people - jabbed folks should date each other and I will hold my pure blood title
You don’t need to fit 100 percent, you have to have boundaries and respect for each other that’s all. If your life is one way and theirs is another then so be it.
People think they have too many options. Social media and dating apps makes you think everyone is disposable.
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well , a lotta guys may lack rizz.
a lotta girls may have attitude.
it’s not helping that toxic red pill dating coaches or toxic feminist dating coaches , both of which are narcissistic and full of actual shit : are telling people “hey you, yeah you. See that sex on the other side of the wall? Those bitches suck! Here is how you become high value and manipulate them into doing what you want! And they are all like that , so it’s fair game.”
It’s also not helping that wages are low, hours are long and prices are SKY HIGH and corporations do not engage in practices that are cohesive with producing loyal workers who build families.
plus everyone spends too much time looking at screens which clinically inhibits emotional processing.
Not to mention : everyone thinks that everyone is disposable and replaceable….
We just….. don’t live in a lovers world, so suitors are rare.
it’s not your fault, it’s nothing to be depressed about. Just keep holding out hope and being the best you, and your suitors will drop into your life.
Meant to…? So what? You gonna spend your life in a trailer somewhere because someone is “meant to” come…?
I know that at my age, most of us were in long term relationship. What I have found is that women don't seem to remember that it takes a lot of give and take to make a relationship work. Very few people are 100% perfect fit. Most women have gone from "well I will marry him and change him to be the guy I want", to not wanting to even give a relationship a chance if it isn't 100% perfect from the 1st date. It usually takes 2 dates to even figure out if there is anything there to even say "sure, let's see if this can be something. I had become so disheartened with the whole process that I have gone on 1 date in the last 4 years.
I'm actually quite pleased with the move to perfectionism. I'm one myself, a man when it comes to that dating scene with women. I can afford to be selective 🙃
🤗... and Because there's just so many women out there. Don't like one, there's plenty more out there. It's the real world, and it's a huge world 🌍
I guess we all or anyone can settle for more, settle for less, or wait for more, or be content. Thank you. I'm fairly content still single at nearly 30. I mean I've been single this long, what's another decades more, I'll be old before I know it, and just as merry. Maybe richer ,😅
You say you're not picky and you believe you have realistic expectations, but then you say you have "standards that will not be compromised for anyone", and you're here complaining that you can't find a compatible suitor. At some point you may have to revisit what you consider to be realistic.
Good luck.
I think a lot of people are just too afraid to put themselves out there and risk rejection or some other idiot hurt them and they can't seem to get passed it.
So, unfortunately, people like yourself see the outcome of these scenarios.
I see, so there are plenty of guys, it's just they're not living up to your expectations or wants.
Are some of your criteria things that a guy could meet once you get to know them? Like a life style thing. You mention herbalism and gardening...
I am sure there are plenty of guys out there that are anti vaxx, you see lots on here.
If I may ask, what are your conditions on finding a suitable suitor, and what are your preferences when looking for the ideal partner? Until I can't know more, I'm not sure how to respond to this because your question seems very vague.
@cth2188 well I'm sorry to tell you this, but unless you be a bit more clear about what you want (unless you don't know what you want, and that's fine), nobody can really help you. To be honest, I'm not sure on what I want either, and that's probably why I've been pretty much unsuccessful myself in the dating game, with the girls I go for almost always either losing interest and moving on, or if they're secretly the crazy ones, they'll use and manipulate me until they get what they want and then move onto the next fuckboy.
Anyways, coming back to your problem at hand, after doing some digging and reading some past comments, seems to me you're looking for a typical country style man whose priorities are in a more natural way of life and strong family values. Sorry to let you know this, but most of what you're looking for is pretty niche now in today's day and age, with people usually looking to have more modern standards instead. That being said, you can still get a man who has good family values and a more simple outlook on life, but having skills like gardening, fishing or hunting is still pretty rare nowadays, considering most people now usually just hire a gardener to fix their front lawn once in a while, and they get their meat and fish from the local supermarket or grocery store down the street.
So unless you consider moving to a more rural small-town side of the US where the grass is greener and the sky is bluer, or if you lower your standards a bit, you're gonna have a pretty hard time. As for the anti-vaxxing part, tbf, in most places (I'm not sure how it is in the States) but the government practically ORDERS you to get vaccinated, punishable by law, which is how it was for most of us.
The gov doesn't have any rights or orders over me nor ever will - sorry most of you outside of the states were forced by will - Americans knew better and we have laws to protect us! Yes I'm anti vaxxer and will only date an anti vaxxer men due to a few beliefs and preferences! You guys don't have the same laws like us ! This is no judgment I just couldn't trust anyone who pro vaxx and I'm anti vaxx and anti gov !
If you're finding it difficult to find suitors there's a good chance it's because of something you may he lacking.
@cth2188 Really? Seems pretty deep in my opinion. IT's easy to not take accountability however the only common denominator in this situation is you.
Oh….. oh Fuck, it’s one of YOU….. the type of anti Vaxxer nobody likes…
Well said 👏
Accountability is a trait that many people lack nowadays.
@TaureanBull81 right? It’s one thing to be an anti Vaxxer, but being SO SMUG about it that you exclude people who aren’t? Or talk down on those who aren’t? Even though logically and scientifically you are in the fucking wrong? Lmfao…
I will not date anyone is @TaureanBull81 sorry bud I'm sure you can find other vaxxers to date - if anyone tells me their jabbed red flag red flag red flag - turn off!
@TooHot2Care make sure you're on the ride side of history current data says you're not ! That's some science for you !
@cth2188 OK, glad you understand. That is a choice you made so it's because of you
It's not a choice it's a belief/ stance that I will not go against sorry I wish everyone jabbed the best ! I really do ! @Vegasrunner !
@cth2188 Lol, your beliefs are based on a limited mindset so it only makes sense you're going to have limited options. What percentage of the world do u believe makes up your specific requirements? Every stop? This is some of the most fascinating data I've ever read. You're literally posing a question asking why something is difficult while simultaneously ignoring any reality that doesn't make you feel better.
Why I only stick with pure blood and will - I'm 100 anti vaxxer and anti gov. I couldn't date anyone whose pro government or pro vaxx plus - you'd need to be a critical thinker and not have altered DNA @Vegasrunner
@TooHot2Care Lol, I can't believe you fell for that.
@Vegasrunner the apple doesn't fall from the tree with you either with you ! Gonna sit back for this shyt show with these jabs and this year will be "I told you so !"
@cth2188 Call it what you like but you are the one who made it.
@cth2188 TY for proving my point. Yes because you have limited your beliefs you have limited your pool of potential partners. Which is why you are having trouble. This now makes perfect sense.
I'm not proving anything to you I see what's coming it's a matter of time 💯 it's OK for the dating pool it'll work itself out soon.. I just wish our dating pool was back up and running ! I will not ever date anyone jabbed under any circumstances as far as I can see. I'm working with a small dating pool , but he'll appear !
@cth2188 I'm not sure why you're sharing this w/ me as I've mentioned nothing about this. Are you sure you tagged the correct person?
@cth2188 Yes and because of your personal choices you have failed to find anyone. Which is what I said in the first place. Glad u understand now.
@cth2188 You've literally proved my point multiple times. You question was why is it so hard to find a suitor. The answer is because you have limited your pool and those in that pool obviously don't want you. Seems pretty straightforward.
With^ altered DNA nor will I not date anyone gov experimented on.. there's nothing valuable about a man jabbed... yet men look down on women with kids yet you're sterile if jabbed @Vegasrunner my comment applied to you since you decided to response to me. This is the new form of dating. My mate will be have to be pure blood moving forward... a man with integrity is better suited for me honey
@cth2188 All of which explains why your single. My response was that your single because of what you lack and you have validated that theory. Ty.
@cth2188 Well that's why you can't find anyone. Why did you even post this question it seems pretty simple.
@cth2188 It's pretty dangerous for a women if your age to have kids. Isn't geriatric pregnancy at 35?
@cth2188 Maybe but he would have to want you, it seems very unlikely that you're going to find another lunatic that is also attracted to you and wants to be celebate. Does he have to be faithful to only you?
@cth2188 Isn't that only if you are able to have kids, at your age do you think that's safe?
@cth2188 Why don't any of them want yoy?
@cth2188 OK so never?
@cth2188 It may he easier to just buy a dog no?
@cth2188 I can't speak to that since I never brought up anything like that.
@cth2188 Acording to your post your not having much success correct?
@cth2188 The best indication of the future is the past, seeing how you haven't found anyone yet it's probably unlikely shrinking your pool of potential shooters will help.
@cth2188 At least you know why you've failed to find him.
@cth2188 Then you have to factor in things like
1) If they're attracted to you
2) If you're attracted to them
3) Location
So yea your pool is pretty small.
@cth2188 Then why make a crying about why it's so hard to find someone?
@cth2188 You don't seem ok w/it or you wouldn't make so many post complaining about your failure to secure a man.
@cth2188 GL w/ your app, hopefully that will occupy your time since you can't find a man that wants u.
@cth2188 Im so confused. Didn't your original post ask "why it's so hard to find a suitor? You also claimed your expectations were "realistic"
I just explained why it's hard nowadays because of the dating pool has been mixed with genetic altered people and people who aren't. Everyone has a preference of what they want - I will not date anyone vaccinated. I wish the vaccinated the best , but your vaccine status will be asked upon even meeting me etc... sorry not sorry
@cth2188 TBH GAG has been the best platform I've ever seen in unlocking female nature. I've been able to apply interactions like this into real world conversations which has given a huge advantage when it comes to dealing w/ women. In fact u specifically helped me add another one to my body count this weekend. TY.
Who cares about female nature? Only you strange ass men focus on female nature - red pill teachings from Kevin Samuels any guy talking like this must be avoided #toxicmasculinity no wonder why women are choosing to be and stay single me included. I don't want anything to do with American men
@cth2188 Any man that wants to be successful w/ women must understand female nature that's just the reality of the world. TBH women "choosing to be single" works out perfectly for me because I'm able to get what I want from them (sex) w/o having to worry about a commitment.
@cth2188 Lol, I doubt I would ever be that down on my luck to have to settle for someone like you.
@cth2188 To be fair u believe that people that protect their health are also strange. It's hypocrisy like this that GAG allows me to point out.
@cth2188 TY for sharing but that doesn't have any relevance to me.
@cth2188 I didn't say anything about choosing you. I said I doubt that's something I would do.
@cth2188 If you've given up? Why pose this question?
Most people's standards are way to high these days.
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Selfishness.
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