How the fuck to get a man/husband?

[Anonymous]

I am not sure which man suits me best.
people call me smart while i am awful financially and socially so i wouldn't call myself smart.
people call me good looking while no man approaches me so obviously i am not.
i am tired of being alone, i dont know where to go to find a man, i dont know which man is a good respectful intelligent responsible one, i met men from most of the world and everyone seems to lack something that's very essential for starting a home and a family.. what to do! Where are the real men at who are aged 31/35!

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay girl, don't be so hard on yourself! Dating is tough these days regardless of gender. A few thoughts from one girl to another:

- Don't base your self-worth on whether guys approach you or not. A lot of guys are shy nowadays too. As long as you like how you look, that's all that matters.

- Instead of waiting for the "perfect" guy, focus on putting yourself out there more. Join some clubs or activity groups - you're bound to meet someone with shared interests.

- When you do meet someone you vibe with, don't put too much pressure on it being "the one." Just enjoy getting to know them and see where things develop naturally.

- Look for guys who treat you (and others) with kindness and respect. Someone reliable who can hold a conversation. Bonus if they've got their crap together too.

- Don't settle just to not be alone. Being single is better than being in the wrong relationship. The right one will come!

Keep your head up, sis. You've got so much to offer - stay confident in yourself. Guys are out there, you just gotta wade through some frogs first. But your person is waiting, I know it! Xoxo

[Ευδεμονια]

First of all, get a breathe.
You’re still young and you can always find the right one, we are 7 billions on this planet, let’s keep just the 0.1% (right sex, right age, right geographic area), it’s 7 million people. Is it sufficient?


Jokes aside, everyone has its own beauties and strong points, you maybe just have to give them space.
Have you tried to find a way to meet other and new people? Maybe joining events, or clubs…
And maybe you can have a bit more relaxed attitude, don’t worry. If you find a persons of your interest, maybe you don’t have to expect him to hit on you, maybe you can make your move first… and see how things will develop.


But please, breathe and be calm, a calm and confident girl has quite more possibilities than a rushing and angry one :)

[mayurr]

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[Anonymous]

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