Girls, have you ever turned a guy down to test his determination?

[BCRanger10]

Has a guy ever asked you out, but you turned him down to see how interested and determined he was to be with you? Has it worked?

[sage2021]

I didn't flat turn him down. He wanted to see me THAT night but I said "Maybe tomorrow night".

By the time the next day came around I could hear the anticipation in his voice even though he was trying to be cool 😎 about it.

We did end up getting together the next night and he was very happy to see me.🙂 If you know what I mean 😅😂

[Anonymous]

Any woman that does that that really wants to date me will shoot herself in the foot. Because I do not give second chances.

I had a woman reject me thinking I would pursue her and instead I moved on. Then she spent the next 2 years chasing after me. I finally had to tell her, I won't date her, I will never date her. I'm sorry, she had her chance. Learn from this.

[worldscolide]

I've seen women do that only to regret it later... Ladies don't do this, it's just stupid, especially after #metoo we just take no as no. Plus women who play hard to get aren't worth it.

[SaoirseS]

Sounds like a variation of playing hard to get, but no, I haven't.

[BCRanger10]

It's a bad idea.

[SaoirseS]

Of course it is. I'm unalterably opposed to any form of manipulation, which includes "testing" people.

[lilBigPotato]

No it's stupid

[BCRanger10]

I agree. I have a friend who's mom told her she should do that. And I also saw a man-on-the-street interview in which the guy asked a bunch of women if they did that and many of them said that they do. It's a terrible idea.

[AndreeaScker]

Nope. I don't know okay games and I don't like to delay getting railed

[Connie88]

No their determination makes me less eager. I like subtlety.

[NathanDavis]

would not work with me... lol