Girls, how many times you rejected the same guy until you decided to said yes to him?

[scott04sa22]

[jennifer_bloom]

If I reject a guy in the beginning I will reject him again and again If I’m asked out again and again.

The only time I will go from no to yes is if my rejection is based on distrust and not a lack of attraction.

Or my rejection was based on the fact I liked somebody else or thought I could find a different type of guy.

If the rejection is based on the fact i do not like the guy and not on the fact I don’t trust him or like somebody else, than he has almost no chance of changing my mind.

[Who116]

i second this is true for me as well

[scott04sa22]

On hgtv I hear lot that the wives rejected their potential husbands a lot until she decided to say yes.

Also Michelle Obama rejected Barack Obama a couple times until she finally said yes to him.

[jennifer_bloom]

But Obama was being tested and had a reasonable chance - a girl might go from no to yes if you ask 1-6 times. If after 10 times, the answer is still a no - it will probably stay a no.

[scott04sa22]

How does that work after getting her to say yes without going over 6 times because I been rejected quite a lot. The girls who rejected me they only rejected me once but usually after they reject me I don't hear from them again. I'm trying to find different ways or patterns without getting rejected. Because I never been out on a date in my life.

[scott04sa22]

Im trying to find a tactic

[jennifer_bloom]

In the same way that you are more likely to get accepted into college if you work harder on your admission essay - so try building a rapport with the girl before you ask her out - you might rejected anyway but your chance of acceptance will be higher - hang out with charming and interesting guys and try to learn from them - Like hang out with guys who tell jokes or guys who like to dance or guys who are suave and sweet to people or guys who write poetry. Woman love guys that are reflective and compassionate and spiritual.

[scott04sa22]

Yeah the last girl who I saw she was looking for a very spiritual guy but my spiritual wasn't connecting or wasn't as strong but I was a funny guy around her. She was pretty and all but I wasn't her guy and I can't force her to like me though. She knows what she's looking for when it comes to guys. Even if you're compatible with someone doesn't mean you truly are.

[Zoetpoet]

If i reject a guy its because i do not want to date him. The only time i rejected and then dated the guy i was emotionally manipulated so I don’t plan on doing that again.

[scott04sa22]

What happens if he's not emotionally manipulating you when he tried asking you out a couple of times. What happens if he is the one. People have rejected their soulmates. Like Michelle Obama did to Barack Obama. Barack asked her out a couple of times until she said yes.

[Zoetpoet]

I can understand why people do reject and then accept. If it is the point where you don’t know too much about someone, and you reject them until you know them better. I’m not completely opposed to the idea but its just not ideal.

[scott04sa22]

On hgtv I heard that the wives rejected their husbands a couple times until they finally said yes to them. I've been rejected quite a lot but once with the same women but after that I don't hear from them again. I'm wondering if I asked someone out then she said no I'm wondering if she's the type of girl if she'll reject me a couple times until she saids yes. I'm trying to change my patterns around.

[maryisbreathing]

If I’m not interested in the guy I’m never gonna say yes to him

[rachel776]

this happens a lot

[scott04sa22]

Interesting. So if I come up to a girl who I like for awhile then I ask her out then she rejects me a couple times then she'll might finally say yes to me then? People have rejected their soulmates.

[rachel776]

it's mostly you get used to a guy being around and then suddenly he's not cuz he's tired of getting rejected

[scott04sa22]

Isn't it asking the same girl out a couple times isn't that begging? 🤨

[eileen_ruth]

Why'd I reject a guy I wanna be with?

[scott04sa22]

Michelle Obama rejected Barack Obama a couple times until she finally said yes to him.

[Biglotto]

If I reject you more than twice he should give up