Ladies. Have you eventually said yes to a guy who kept asking you out?

[Anonymous]

One of my friends seems to get his girlfriends by asking them out until they say yes. As far as i know he's had 3 girlfriends by doing this. Have you girls ever had this happen to you?

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

No, if someone repeatedly asks me out when I have already said no. I usually block that person and never talk to them again. Stalking is scary and so is unwanted attention.

It's not being snooty, sometimes you are just not attracted to the person or just don't want to be with them. Maybe you don't like their personality? Or maybe they did something to you in the past? Or perhaps from what you know of them, you just don't want to be with them.

How would you feel if a lady you weren't attracted to kept pursuing you? Would you be flattered and happy? What if she was someone you were upset was attracted to you because you found her repulsive?

Everyone has a right to pick and choose who they want to be with. You can't force someone who doesn't want to be with you to like you all of a sudden. They have to come upon that realization themselves.

[LittleSally]

If I wasn't interested in him - when I knew him well - there's no way I am going to be interested in him ever.

If I wasn't interested because I didn't know him - after I get to know him as a friend and reach a conclusion he might be compatible with me - I'd change my mind.

Also - if I have certain reservations when it comes to his age or something else he can't help but it doesn't seem socially appropriate to me... he can wear me down - in a sense where I already know him and know he's a good person... but it's very rare a very young or a very old (too young or too old for me) person can convince me we would be a good couple...

[1Anon]

Yeah I've done it on a couple of occasions even though I didn't like the guys that way (they were friends). I felt bad when I kept hearing, "Just give me a chance, one chance, I know we'd be good together" so I did but instantly regretted it. Luckily we went back to being friends and we now laugh about it when we remember it but tend not to discuss it.

[JayGarrick]

I knew a few guys that tried that. They then got restraining orders

[jenny33]

Yes I did & he turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me:) he was a nice guy a true gentleman, something I wasn't usto , the type of guy who opens the car door for you.. well I finally went out w him and well ended up falling in love w him!

[LittleMissy93]

Yes. He kept asking for my number which I finally gave him. Then he kept asking me out which I finally agreed to. Then after going out a few times I told him I wasn't interested and he kept asking me to change my mind which I didn't. It was exhausting and so annoying.

[LovelyDisquiet]

I can't say it's ever happened. But probably not.

If I said no in the first place it's because they're probably not my type.
I usually can tell pretty quickly if I would date someone.

If not, I'm not interested. I'm not into dating just to be in a relationship or to hookup, so they have to be pretty special to me, and fit into my life well enough for me to be interested in being more than friends or acquaintances.

[NeighbouringGoat]

Note that you wrote girlfriend (s).
If you got your date through pestering them like a little boy would beg his parents for a new toy, chances are, it's not gonna last.

[natured]

If i say no it remains a no :) the more you insist the more i am going to block you and then eventually block you... usually stupid chicks that play hard to get do this...

[whattothink]

My first "boyfriend" in 8th grade. He asked me out for a year before I finally said yes. We dated for two weeks I think before he had his best friend break up with me.

[ashley1996]

Yes, I thought he was cute anyway but I was the new girl so I didn't want to sound bad. He kept making his friend do it because he was nervous. My thoughts were if he tries that hard on a girl he doesn't know, maybe I should give him a shot.

[ashley1996]

I should add that's a rare case. Most of the time I get to annoyed and cave or I'll get creeped out and avoid the guy. Either way most hate pressure and get angry.

[Sugarplum21]

Nope, if I can't feel anything for him, or see him in any way, other than a friend... I will not be giving in and leading him on.

[MaelaK]

No, I really dislike it when people are persistant.

[littleheartbigbooty]

If I'm not interested and you keep asking me out I'll just get really annoyed

[Razzle-Bedazzle]

If I'm not interested in dating him at all , his persistence won't pay off.

[BaileyisDarcy]

Nope. If I say no, you're gonna get fucked over if you ask again (not in the good way either)

[alice55]

Me no, but my friends yes. It bother her lot of month before she agreed to go on a date with him

[Katie2244]

yes kind of but it was as much a personal desire to be wanted as much as anything that led to it

[LoloWaye]

If you keep asking me out that shows you don't respect the fact that I said no and have a reason for saying no.

[Reach500]

How long did these relationships last? Were they worthwhile?

By the way, I've never had a guy persist like that

[Anonymous]

I had a guy who constantly asked me out for years but it didn't change my mind.

[Bekahdewolf]

Yeah because i was too annoyed.

[BrittBratt2416]

No.. if i say no.. i mean it.

[Anonymous]

Haven't been asked out yet so can't answer. Sorry.

[beccaboo2]

After the first few times, I usually avoid them

[KatherineJ]

And I wound up marrying him.

[ElissaDido]

No. Noooooo

[supernes]

No, it's not cute.

[Ayshea]

No means no