I wonāt flat out ask a guy out but I might build momentum by asking to trade emails or meet at group events with mutual friends or exchanging numbers with some excuse why itās a good idea such as navigation guidance to a new area etcā¦ Then occasional texts during important events or questions - and seeing whether he takes a mutual stance in reciprocating the dialogue.
Yes men, we get rejected too, so I don't want to hear it. Anyway, the last guy I asked out, claimed he was interested in me and was the one that initiated flirting and trying to get to know me. Yet when I showed interest in him? He seemed like he wasn't interested anymore- yeah that game.
Long story short, I asked him to the local fair a few years ago, even offered to pay for admission, or we could split the cost. He said no and made up some weak excuse, lol.
Oh definitely, this one boy I have been crushing on since last July, I managed to get my sentence out and ask him, even though it probably wasn't a correct way of wording it, he told me maybe. It wasn't said in a negative light but he did ignore me for a week or so. Now we joke around and have nice conversations, although I never got to go on a date, I'm glad we are talking again.
My advice would be to go for it when you have knowledge that he might be interested or even let him ask you out, but in all I feel like it is circumstantial.
The way I would show interest to a guy if I was single is trying to get to know him and joke around with him. I would text back in a way that is friendly etc. I wouldnāt ask a guy out. I donāt think their is anything wrong with it I just like the feeling of knowing the guy is into me because he asked me out.
Honestly I can be shy so Iām not sure how confident I would make the guy or not but if I like a person I think I seem pretty happy when seeing the person.
There was a time when I might have. Although I didn't ask anyone on a real date, I would make it clear that I'm interested by reaching out first and inviting them to "hang out." But now I like to be more sure of a guy's serious interest in me before I get invested. I need to know that the guy is not just attracted to me but actually wants to explore a connection. I've realized that surest way to know a guy is serious about me is for him to make the first move and ask me out. It also proves that he's the kind of guy who just goes for what he wants so I won't have to put all this energy into sending "signals" to encourage him to make an effort.
Yep. I was turned down, but we remained friends. I think if you want something you should go for it, but I do understand that both women and men have a fear of rejection and majority of the time it falls on a man to do the asking. Ask long as both parties have respect for themselves and the other person, why not express your feelings? The worse they can say is noā¦
If you watch hitch its the 90-10 rule. You can go in 90% but if he wants you too he's going to have to chip in some. Both people need to be involved for the relationship to work than the establishment is just as important. Sometimes you don't get a response as quick as you'd like or the one you wanted, then you accept it and keep your eyes open for what you deserve cause settling is never fun
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I asked out my boyfriend. Weāve been together for 2 years now. Best relationship Iāve ever been in. Weāre planning to get married after I complete college.
My first cousin. I confessed to him but didn't ask him out. He said the obvious. Then we had sex. He said we are never doing that again. I went to my room and almost cried in embarrassment because I've just asked someone who I knew will reject me.
