Why does it feel like this?

[Anonymous]

Not that I think either are right (moral), but, why does it feel like only men are allowed to be shallow, when it comes to who they're attracted to. I know women can be too, but, why does it FEEL like only men can be

[MissTrix]

Probably cause of media! It has to be a pretty girl who makes a spark in the guys heart!

Not the wonderful plain women who makes cakes!

The ugly duckling story is in most media making it seem like guys need to only pick the girl after she gets pretty!

[Anonymous]

Because women use code words when they find a guy unattractive. A woman will say, "I just don't like him in that way". Or if she wants to give absolutely nothing away she'll say, " I didn't like his personality". Women think this allows then to reject men they find unattractive without being shallow. But guys know it's just an indirect way of saying she doesn't find him attractive.

Trust me man women are shallow to. Women are just indirect about it.

[Anonymous]

Cause men have no options and it doesn’t matter. Most males aren’t going around rejecting amazing women left and right cause they’re shallow. As a man you’re lucky if someone recognizes you exist more than a few times in your life.