31 year old guy I’m talking to, admitted that deep down inside he still feels 23-25 years old. is this a red flag?

[jillybeanns]

We were talking about birthdays, and he said that “I’ll be 32 in May, but to be honest I still feel like I’m 23-25 deep down inside”. I don’t know what to think of this! Thoughts?

[ohsheeT]

What in the world why would it be a red flag that's the most stupidest thing I've ever heard sorry for calling your question stupid but not really I guess when you get to 31 you'll understand what that person was saying I'm not going to tell you my age but I feel like I'm 25 and I'm in my 50s.

Seeing what that means what the guys telling you is that he is in good shape he eats good he takes care of himself and when he can still do stuff like he did when he was 25 that's saying something

So yes you are a red flag for him and he should stay away from you because. What you're saying is that you at your age and that's sad because you're old and you're never going to be young again on the inside that's pretty sad that's a red flag for me too

And this is why you have older men going out with younger women because older women like yourself are just old younger women like to stay healthy and do things and be motivated and explore and experience and they get out their ass and walk around and do things so yes you are a red flag

[incorrected]

How old do YOU feel? Do you feel much different, and if so, why? If you were immature when you were younger and grew, you might feel your age. If you were forced to mature faster for some reason, or just did naturally, then you might not need any growth and so you don't feel different. How you feel will depend on a lot of things. A red flag would be if he is immature for his age, not if he just doesn't feel more mature than when he was younger.

[zagor]

If he means physically that's a good thing. If he means in terms of still being able to have fun that's a good thing. If he means he still sits around with his bong and watches TV like he did at 23, not so much.

[Nerdvana]

So far, from what he has said, It's not a red flag. Does he have a stable job? Does he still live alone or with his parents? How is he planning for his future? Is he a gamer? Drugs? Drinking problem?

[slatyb]

No, I'm much older and I feel the same. Inside every old person is a young person saying "What the hell happened?"

[Circushowcowboy]

No I don’t think that’s a problem. Unless he is willing to live life in a way that matches the way you want to live life due to it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm a boyish 71-year-old. H**L to the NO !!!

[Flower7]

That sounds normal to me.

[Still-alive]

he feels young still. don't see an issue

[jillybeanns]

I think it was his wording that threw me off. When you put it like that, it makes much more sense.

[Anonymous]

How is that a red flag?😆

[dudeinohio]

Nah. It's okay.