What do I do if my mom is being a bitch about letting me hangout with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My mom used to ask my boyfriend to come over and hang out with me. She let us meet everyday and found a way to let us meet. Now, she’s being really bitchy about it and saying no every time we ask her even when we have the opportunity to. I hate being away from him.

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My mom doesn’t let us hangout unsupervised.

[incorrected]

Have you tried approaching it by asking? Try something like, "Hey mom, I noticed you seem not to like me hanging out with my boyfriend. I know that you love and care for me more than anyone, and I trust your judgement, so I'd just like to know what you see?" And then just let her talk for as long as she's going to, and don't talk back, just listen like you were a clinical psychologist just doing your job or something, and when she finishes talking, thank her and hug her, even if you disagree.

[SueShe]

Your mom was also young once and is fully aware what is usually happening when minors get together unsupervised.

As long as you live under her roof and that you are not an adult, she has the last word about what you can and cannot do, mainly if this happens to be what you do with your boyfriend when you are not at home under her supervision.

Perhaps that she changed her mind about your boyfriend because of something that happened or something negative about him she heard.

Parents are there to protect their children and there is no b******g about that. Once or if you are a parent yourself, you will realize that her attitude is for your own good.

[Asker]

We don’t hang out unsupervised, my mom is always there and she knows we won’t do anything to jeopardise the trust and freedom she’s given us

[Nikki1989]

Your mom is a smart woman. Teenagers can't be trusted.

[HusamRocks]

Well ur mom wants the best for u so u can't blame her, u will find out when u r old enough, she puts boundaries and regulations for ur relationship that makes u still be safe physically and mentally.
Also put in mind u can replace a boyfriend but u can't replace a mom 👍🏻

[Asker]

We don’t hang out unsupervised, my mom is always there and she knows we won’t do anything to jeopardise the trust and freedom she’s given us

[HusamRocks]

And yet, she sees and knows more than u do 👍🏻

[jahaims]

You won't even talk to the guy after a few years. Wait until you are an adult to date instead of role-playing being an adult.

[Asker]

My mom and his mom want us to get married, so i beg to differ

[slatyb]

How close are you to 18?

[MasterKS]

wait till you reach 18