Why does it seem like women nowadays don’t want anything serious?

Question

It seems like I keep developing interest in women that don’t want anything more than a situationship or friends with benefits.

BluegrassBill · Accepted Answer

Well, Junior, I was raised in these hills, where the air's clean and the skies are blue.
In these parts, we believe in God and the values that he imparted to me and you. Now, I lost my virginity to the preacher's daughter in the church parking lot, and wrote a little ditty 'bout being a man of God to which I play to you here in the key of G:

Oh, the South still rules, just like we did in '63
We'll take back our property, and we'll make our voices heard, you'll see
We believe in God, family, and tradition, and we'll stand by what's right
We'll fight for what we believe in, and we'll never lose sight

I go to church every Sunday, and I pray to our Lord up above
I believe that he's watching over us, and he'll guide us through the good and the tough
I love Donald Trump, he's our leader just like Jefferson Davis was to the South
He's fighting for what's right, and he's making our country great, I've no doubt

Oh, the South still rules, just like we did in '63
We'll take back what's rightfully ours, and we'll make our voices heard, you'll see
We believe in God, family, and tradition, and we'll stand by what's right
We'll fight for what we believe in, and we'll never lose sight

I've kissed a few women in my time, and I've cum in more than a few
I've fingered the preacher's daughter in the church parking lot, it's true
I've banged black girls, and I've had BBC, I've had my fair share
But now it seems like women don't want anything serious, they just want to be flirted

Oh, the South still rules, just like we did in '63
We'll take back what's rightfully ours, and we'll make our voices heard, you'll see
We believe in God, moonshine, and tradition, and we'll stand by what'
We believe in slavery, it's the right way to be
We believe that the South won the Civil War when they shot Lincoln
We'll keep our heritage alive, we'll never let it go
We'll keep fighting for what we believe in, we'll never let it snow

Oh, the South still rules, just like we did in '63
We'll take back our property, and we'll make our voices heard, you'll see
We believe in God, family, and moonshine, and we'll stand by what's right
We'll fight for what we believe in, and we'll never lose sight

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Oh my… possibly bc it’s hard to find a guy who is mature enough to be serious….

But also… both men and women seem to need more time than previous generations to mature and “level up” to being ready for commitment. The pandemic and a few other things threw a serious wrench in the works.

So… if you’re brave and smart enough to go ahead and pick a good partner, power to you. And if you want to plow through life alone, good on you as well. It’s a little different for everyone.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Lol that is dating in general everyone claiming to want to date "but nothing serious rn". As soon as someone says "yeah but I'm not looking for anything serious rn" you drop them and move on since really its just not you they are looking for. And don't use apps because that is basically just a bunch of damaged people continuing to damage others yet claim to be looking for a partner.

Avicenna · Answer

It's not just your imagination, it's quite true. Less stressful and still can have lots of fun.

hahahmm · Answer

It's a lot easier to just act based on feelings than to have any self-control/rules to follow. If you get rid of rules you have a situation where life is all about fun and partying all the time. Being serious is not "I can do whatever I want to".

A lot of these women think they don't need a man. But little do they know that the way they act is also driving way more men to stop thinking in traditional ways. And as much as feminists hate tradition, it is only traditional social rules that kept women safe at all. Without any of those rules and the world would become a zombie apocalypse place where strength wins and women aren't going to be the winners. But most people (men and women) don't seem to grasp this.

The counter argument many love to make is to say "well men do it too". But what I see is feminists always aping the worst male traits instead of the good ones. If 5 out of 100 men do something and it's a meh/horrible thing they will copy that and call it empowering. And they always have the out that they can blame their decisions on men and pretend they were controlled when they weren't.

Anonymous · Answer

Women today do not want commitment. You could make the argument that women didn't have the options they have now for 2000 years. But none of those women lived 2000 years. So that's utter b. s.. But the "why" they do this is not one solitary reason. Some women were raised by mother's who hate men so it learned behavior not to trust men. Some women had absent fathers, so they don't trust men. Etc.. But whatever the case may be these women are still driven by their own biology and drive to want to find love that they still want men. They just want complete CONTROL over it all. So they're going to doctate where and when. And that means never letting a man tie her down to marriage. This also allows her to keep her options open. Women are all about "feelings". If a woman keeps starting new relationships with guy after guy then she can always ride the highpoint of feelings. The exhilaration of meeting a man an recieving a lot of love and attention from him. Then kicking him to the curb when NATURALLY it starts to subside. These women are thrill seekers plain and simple. And trust me you wouldn't want to consider them for a relationship.

Steve-the-lion · Answer

Because most women have been brainwashed by feminism and mainstream TV. Women are encouraged to be selfish and have unrealistic expectations. Women tend to get bored more easily than men, so if a man isn't keeping her excited, chances are she will get bored and move on. Once upon a time women understood the importance of life-long marriage and family values, but since feminism rotted women's brains, women now seem to think that happiness comes from short term pleasures, drama, and material possessions.

Miristheiss · Answer

She isn't 30 yet.

Many (not all) spend their most beautiful, most fertile years not landing a dad and husband but getting ran through and partying. Then they start thinking about something serious once the eggs start getting old, the wrinkles are coming and they have tons of trauma.

Crazyced · Answer

Not sure I agree with that assessment. Most women profiles on Tinder (of all things) list looking for long term relations. Now did some of them pick that choice just to not be swamped by thirsty men? Possibly. That definitely seems to be the case for a bunch of them listed as 'looking for friends' on profiles that don't exactly align with that.

satinpetals · Answer

It’s an era and society of instant gratification unfortunately. The need for a deep and meaningful connection is still incredibly important for me and always will be but I think social media has only made things the way they are today. And there is a lot of good with social media but this is also a result of it

Raphaëlle · Answer

Seems like the basic dating cultural nowadays and has nothing to do with gender. Some people want no strings attached kind of relationships but also remember that some do want monogamous serious relationships.

Valdemort · Answer

The same can be said around men. Women feel the same way. I think many people aren't open enough about what they're looking for and so they start playing games.

White_Widow · Answer

Because everyone spends too much time on social media. Where everyone is telling each other "you could do better" , " this is a red flag" , "don't look for something serious" etc etc

HungTexan · Answer

Just assume they want to have fun before setting down with one guy. What’s wrong with that? The right woman will come along, and until then enjoy yourself.

AnonAndrew · Answer

Quite a few men and women are like that today, but to be honest, I think it's more common among men.

thatshydork · Answer

Maybe you’re just looking in the wrong direction.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

There's plenty of women who only want serious

linka_pat307 · Answer

Because women have learnt that when they want something serious men ain't into that... and also women are independent that they see the importance of men in their lives like those days

Anonymous · Answer

If the women around you don’t want anything serious with you it’s because they don’t see any future in you.

Anonymous · Answer

That's so hard to believe. So many women on tinder get fooled by men who say they want a relationship

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

man I wish I had your luck. the only women I attrack in my life are desperate clingy ones looking for marriage and life sentencing relationships

Babygirl_S · Answer

Women like me do but they’re chasing sluts so they deserve it. I’ll grab some popcorn and relax

genericname85 · Answer

cause the media scew your outlook on reality. it is what it is man.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

bc u aren't meeting the right women. is that not obvious?

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

They don't want you. It has nothing to do with women. You just can't handle rejection

princeofromance · Answer

Hookups and one-night stands have become the norm in today's society.

In_Trance · Answer

So what do you really think is the problem here?  All of the women or just you?

Anonymous · Answer

Seems like men don’t want anything serious in my opinion.

MoonFace2 · Answer

I’ve had the same situation, but with men.

danielle872024 · Answer

Don’t waste time on them

NicholasRedone · Answer

Sounds like their learning off their men lol 🤣

incorrected · Answer

Because they don't...

MemeSupreme · Answer

how do you think we feel lmfao

lightbulb27 · Answer

doesn't help to be anonymous...

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps it's the vibe you give off?

LiamJHayden · Answer

My experience is the opposite.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It's the women you are meeting.

Ironco · Answer

Thank God... bout time. 🤪

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