Girls, would u chose a man over ur career and education?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Valdemort]

When I'm infatuated - I'd say yes. Then that phase is over, reality comes down on me and I realise how fucking stupid I would be to drop my dreams in the gutter, to be with someone. In the long run, I know what I want, and dating someone shouldn't change that.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Unless it’s a man promising me access to more jobs and more education that I want, probably not.

[Anonymous]

If the man is worthy enough.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what makes a man worthy enough?

[Opinion Owner]

My career and education is for my stability in case I happen to have bad luck and get a bad life partner. So if he can give me all the respectful life what I deserve the love and loyalty and stability, then why do I need to waste my energy in doing extra work? Already the job of home maker is so tiresome and it is expected for women only to do that as men aren't good at it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah but what if he leaves u? ur all alone, maybe even with kids, what will u do?

[Opinion Owner]

That's why I said "stability". Stability and love included that he won't leave my side and and my life would be stable. Stability included that he will plan our life such away that even if he happens to die I need not to think about how to survive etc.

And I know it's not so easy to find such men so I said if he is worthy enough. Which in reality, they are very few.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well u can't know that, men do that all the time. let a woman believe she's the one then leave her for a younger one.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeh, and I'm very much familiar with it. That's why I waited for 25 years to accept any man who is worthy for my love, to have a relationship. And finally I got a man who will never leave my side. I'm sure about it that he will not. But he too can't give me that kind of stable life so I'm not going to leave my career or my education behind.

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats good, but if u ever go to that life, make sure to have savings js in case, or a little side job bc you’ll prob get bored

[Opinion Owner]

Ofcourse I am the person who always keep a safe margin for all such unpredictable happenings. No matter someone is most trust worthy still i keep up a thread of safety with myself forever. As we can't trust anyone.

[Avicenna]

Some would

[Agape93]

Nope