How to heal a broken heart fast?

[Anonymous]

I (36f) feels like I have no motivation left, too lazy to get out of bed just because guy I have crush on (38m) suddenly change.

Like previously when my friends try to matchmake him with me, he will always say he still want to be single.

Yet this week I found out he is opening an account in dating app, and match with my other friend. She then give me her account and I chat with him there pretend I am my friend.

The conversation was crazy. Like I think we have same value, same goals, same hobby.

Yet in real life he always like putting up a wall and distance himself from me, hence I got no chance to have that deep talk with him.

This week I somewhat become demotivated and dont want to get out of my bed. Lose my appetite. Got insomnia.

I want to just move on and forget him, be somewhat a normal version of me in 3 days. But I dont know how.

[chilldude33]

First of all, stop playing mind games with him. You are wasting your time. He's never going to choose you, no matter what you do. You are torturing yourself and for what?

The only way to get rid of your feelings for him is to stay away from him. Don't be tempted by him in any way. You need to give yourself time to heal and move on.

Use this time to focus on yourself and your hobbies. Start a new hobby or do something that makes you happy.

[Asker]

Yeah ik. I think it is just so rare to find someone I attracted to and have same mindset and life goal

[Cormac995]

I'm four years in and no luck. I'll keep you updated if I figure out how.

[Abbycado]

You can't. Doesn't work like that.

[Jay-_-]

There is no cheat code I'm sorry.

[Anonymous]

Start Drinking.

[ehatsham_hussain]

Focus on future life