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I am about to say some very general blanket statements. I’m just trying to hit majority. It would be impossible to get everyone with this one. Sorry in advance if I offend anyone.
I am a fan of cute girls. Nothing wrong with someone who is hot though. But to me, hot isn’t as genuine. In my opinion hot can be achieved with make up. A lot of girls can cheat their way to be hot. And good for them. That’s a skill that should be recognized. There are some ugly dudes that can do their own makeup and I promise you, they can trick you if your not careful.
In my opinion, you can’t cheat your way to be cute. In my opinion, no make up can make you cute. Cute to me is someone’s natural ability to be attractive in one way or another
Yes, sir..."In my opinion, no make up can make you cute."
@MisterLyfeLessynz i don't wear makeup so this is news to me lol
@Apple1996 it is my opinion that the majority, not all but most “hot” women are hot because of makeup. One of my exes use to watch these stupid makeup tutorials. Most were painful just to listen to but every so often she would watch one that would make time stop. In a literal sense too. She would make me stop everything that I was doing to see a before and after. It was truly mind boggling. Some pretty haggard women would get done and look amazing. I was impressed but that is definitely cheating the system.
You just can’t do that with cute. They are built different. It’s a lot easier to wake up next to a cute girl rather than wake up to something that was hot the night before.
u cute is hot
hot is cute
and both are pretty... and both can be sexy too
which one knows how to bake honey butter biscuits though? I'll go with that one...
that's a 10 on my book... lmao
I don't know how to bake 'em, but I do know how to eat 'em. You bake 'em, ND, and I'll show up... every time! lol
@Caroline91 and THAT's what really matters, as long as there are honey butter biscuits, lol
Mmm Mmmm!!
In reality in my country at least they date the hot one always and then depending on her personality they get in a long lasting relationship with her (like if she's loyal and such) but they usually ask her to wear more modest clothes and town it down. So yea in my country it's definitely sexy that is preferred I'm surprised American prefer cute.
YOU'RE BACK!
@KostasKouvalis Yes, finally XD
I was busy trying out AI to create story it was pretty fun but it didn't work that well, it kind of repeat itself a lot XD
WHAT? What kind of story? I tried one of those and it was garbage and I feel it's sort of cheating.
I missed you.
How were your holidays?
@KostasKouvalis mix of romance and thriller, well it depend which site you use and which bot you use, some are good some are very annoying also you have to be very good at finding idea and such cause if not it get boring.
Cheating? Like not writing it yourself? Well I'm a big fan of fan fiction but it been more than 10 years since I last written something, I get lazy, I got into it cause many people talked about it in France and how it was so good and I couldn't find any good fanfiction lately so I got bored and tried it. It's pretty good and funny but yea after a while it kind of feel like it repeat itself a lot and turn in circle still fun though.
I missed you too :)
It was ok though I got sick and threw up during two days, was unable to get out of bed during one day and sleep it through. My mother was also sick during 1 week and I had to spend the new years all alone watching tv.
And you?
I'm not surprised. I always thought it would be cool to write something like that. I have some ideas, but it's very time consuming, so I don't think it would be worth the effort.
Yeah.
I know. I didn't know you've written stuff. Was this a fan fiction?
You should've come on then. I was actually gonna stay off today, because people have been pissing me off on here. This has gotten very rude.
Jeeze! What the hell? From what?
We didn't even really feel like it was the holidays. And it was a roller coaster. My dad got laid off, then found out he couldn't get unemployment or retirement, because his boss hadn't been into his social security and taxes for 2 years, so they thought my dad didn't work for two years. And he was panicking because he's an idiot and doesn't have a savings account and was only making us stressed and me and my mom both screamed at him about it. He got it worse from me. But he's such an idiot with money. As soon he has some money, he has to spend it. He's working now with another company, he doesn't really like it and I still think he has financial issues. And I'm still unemployment and feel worthless, and I got mild depression from all that and a combination of other things.
My mom was trying to talk to him calmly at first and he screamed at her because she called him out on how he manages money. I was holding back, but I couldn't take his nagging anymore, and I told him, "If you had a savings accounts, you wouldn't be panicking right now." And he got sassy with me and told me, "Don't be so smart", which really pissed me off and I started screaming at him.
But he's so stupid and irresponsible when it comes to money. How can you not have a savings account or money for an emergency?
I told my mom, worst case scenario we'll pay the bills and groceries with MY money, but it's going into HER hands, because my dad is an idiot and will blow it.
@KostasKouvalis In general I just search for book or fan fiction that fit my idea cause yes, writing is so long, when you have an idea it can go fast but if not I get stuck during one hours and only write one page so
Yes, it was fan fiction, it was thriller romance, in France when I was a child they were a tons of thriller romance movie and that's literally my favorite things to watch and read about so when I was writing I was writing about it. I never finished it though.
I can write like 9 page in not even 1 hours when motivated but when I'm not I struggle to write one page so it's hard.
I should have but it was during those days I decided to use Ai story to get check if it was good or not and I got obsessed with it I was literally spending 12 - 13 hours a day on it during a months XD but after a while it get repetitive
I also watched some news anime.
I think it was from food poisoning to be honest or maybe because my gradnftahr forced me to drink to much strong alcohol during the Holliday, we literally drank a whole whisky bottle in 3 day.
Wow that's crazy, how could he not realize it though? getting a job is hard, I don't know how is it in America but in France we have so many enterprise who close or expel their worker, it's a crazy situation it seem France is in huge debt and is really struggling as they decided to taxe our big enterprise like LVMH 40 % of their entire profit.
Yes, I think it's better if you don't give him any money he'll just waste it, better to give it to your mom yes. It's crazy he didn't even have some money as saving, everybody have some saving money even poor people.
Me too😂
It's best to make an outline first. I used to write a Iot. Still do sometimes, but I don't have the patience to write anything long or develop a story. I just want to finish it and get it out.
I know, you told me. 9 pages in 1 hour is a lot
I remember on Futurama. "Fry. There's only 1 page of dialogue."
"Well it took me an hour to write, I thought it would take me an hour to read"😂
😳
Again? Jesus!
I thought it was probably food poisoning. We only got food poisoning on the holidays once
I know, thats what my mom said. Did he not check his pay stub?
I don't know, it might get better under Trump, but not immediately. But it also has a lot to do with the hiring process. At least in CA our governor passed a bill that employers can't demand drivers license from you if the job doesn't require driving.
There's this hotel in an Irish island that hires couples every year to run the hotels and Cafe. We should apply. They're looking for "couples", but I don't think you and me would be a problem. And I have customer service/hospitality experience and you have maid experience and know how to cook and you know English, so I think we would be perfect for it. It runs from April through Sep I think and you just email them. But they get like 40,000 applicants
It's called "Great Blasket Island" It wouldn't let me post the link
Yeah. If my mom didn't "keep me in line" I might blow all my money on travel though😂
My cousin used to be like this with money too.
He's still more thick skinned than my mom. My mom gets offended easily, but he hates when we bring up personal issues
@KostasKouvalis Same I don't have the patience for it, world building is so long. Plus all the description and such, I love slow burn story but I don't like writing them.
I had an idea and I couldn't stop writing but after I could never got back to write mroe
XD
1 page take one hours to write and 1 min to read XD
I ate a hamburger but it wasn't well done the meat so I guess it came from it, felt horrible I just started to feel better when I threw it all up.
Yes, that's crazy maybe he knew but didn't care?
That's good, why would they even do this it's crazy, why ask a car if they don't need it?
Trump seem to have done good things but I don't really get why he want Greenland so much though
40,000 applicants O-O That's crazy
@KostasKouvalis I m bad with money too XD
I'm exactly the same
Yeah see? You said you don't like well done because it dries the meat, but I will only eat well done. Medium well at most. If you know how to cook it properly it won't be dry.
Other stuff he doesn't care, but something like that he would've brought it up.
First it was for rare earth minerals, now it's for national security because of Russian ships in the region.
And he actually genuinely told Canadians they would benefit from being part of the US. He's weird.
I know it is. I'm serious though.
I know. I was actually gonna say, make sure you have something saved in case of an emergency.
One of my childhood friends asked me this.
"Who should I choose? The hot party girl or the mellow one"
I replied it depends what you want.
He chose the mellow one and she cheated on him.
@dustybiker2
Wow that sure is twisted
@MisterLyfeLessynz speak for yourself sir. Some of us have morals and ethics.
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Depends why I'm dating.
If I'm looking for a relationship, Cute is nice.
If I'm just looking for fun, Hot is okay.
You know, cute can be hot too. 😉
Cute is distinct from hot
@Apple1996 I'm sorry you're disappointed with us guys selecting cute. Let me give you some guy logic. I can buy a hot girl, I have to work for a cute one.
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php
Some definitions for you on that
Not accurate for me.
@Apple1996
You seem to be getting a little HOT Apple.
Would you like some ice cream?
@Apple1996
That's sooo cute :p
Cute and hot can be the same thing pretty
Much , so I would date a hot girl that is cute as well
To me it doesn't matter too much either way. If I was forced to pick just one or the other though, then hot I guess because I tend to associate cute with kind of childlike and hot with adult women. Cute can also be used to describe kittens, puppies, babies, etc... while hot in exclusively for adult women.
This is a pretty common question online, and for some reason everyone always says cute all the time instead of hot. Like the comment results will be like 95% or 99% in favor of cute and only like 5% or 1% in favor of hot, not even close really. It almost seems like hot women are becoming the undesired unpopular ones, ironically.
Then again, the internet is different than real life. I imagine a lot of guys online who answer these sort of questions are sort of socially inept nerds, and so cute seems more approachable to them while hot seems more intimidating and out of reach. I imagine that popular athletic guys who can pull hot girls think differently.
Though honestly, a lot of these guys don't have a chance with cute girls OR hot girls... they act as if they have a choice at all. 💀
Cute and Hot can both be very attractive. I'd date either and have. But what really matters is the total package. Intelligence, values, knowledge of the world around them, empathy, social IQ, empathy, and yes looks. Cute or Hot may open the door. Dumb, boring, or nasty will close it pretty fast.
Sweet & Gentle Deredere girl. Which is most likely the cute girl I reckon.
It's their inner cute and hot that's more important than the outer.
You don't buy a candy for the wrapper.
I think they like hot woman more.. I get called cute lots but guys don't like me lol.
Not really, it keeps the pervs at bay lol
In reality neither as the primary reason. Character would be the primary reason. Cute is more compatible with the character I want and hot isn't.
In the update, I think you mistake thinking your girl is hot as having high sexual desire for her and thinking she is cute as not having so much sexual desire. That is not the case - we can have as much sexual desire for a cute girl as a hot girl. I, and I think most men, would rate a girl as being hot if she is blatantly sexually displaying herself. Breasts pushed up, lots of skin exposed and basically self objectified.
I would call a girl cute if she manifested feminine character attributes; she would be more relationship material whilst the hot girl is for sex predominantly.
Yeah sexual relationships are... sexual. We all want that. The question then, since it is addressed to men, who do we want sex with more and for longer? Initially I think the hot girl with her breasts pushed up and wearing a short skirt up tight. The moment we clasp eyes on her we could have an erection and be ready to mount her. The cute girl is a slower burn that lasts longer in my view.
I think you are using hot in a different way to the way guys do. And there is sensuality as well which Is what I most prize. Both a hot girl and a cute girl can be highly sensual... or not. I would definitely be getting hard over a sensual girl more often and for far longer into the future.
At this point, I'll go with cute. I've had plenty of "hot." It's time for something new.
I'm gonna echo what MSC said. Hot girls are definitely not boring. Massive pains in the ass to deal with though. At this point, I would kind of prefer nice and boring for my life partner.
I always felt that cute = girlfriend material while hot = super model and unattainable to most average dudes lol..
So yeah cute all day anyday.
pretty much. I feel a bit more confident now though so i probably wouldn't cold approach but i would talk to them if in a social setting for example
Correct. I lost that belief long ago. And LOL, I've spent a lot of time trying to reassure some gorgeous women that they are actually attractive, not worthless, etc.
Their argument goes something like this...
Her: All the guys approach my friend and ignore me.
Me: Do you trust me?
Her: Yes.
Me: They aren't ignoring you, they are scared to death of you.
Her: No, they don't even see me.
Me: Arrrgghhh! I'm a guy right?
Her: Yes.
Me: And you respect my input 99% of the time, right?
Her: Absolutely!
Me: Then trust me. They see you just fine. You scare the crap out of them.
Her: No, they don't like me.
Me: @%$%@&^@&%@!!! You need to start hanging around different guys!
@OneViewpoint yep exactly!! 💯
ok you can think that but this is not what I personally am going for when i use that word
To me it means "Your are very attractive physically and personality wise'
I would likely use 'beautiful' 'pretty' 'gorgeous' more personally but sometimes i may use 'cute' to me they all mean very similar things 'you are physically very attractive and have an amazing personality'
'hot' to me just means 'physically you're attractive' and says nothing about her personality.
disagreee. this is something you oughtta realize by now. these words are largely subjective as in they change from person to person. so when I personally use the word 'cute' its physical attraction + personality.
Now you can disagree with that and if lets say i was in a relationship and you personally told me you didn't like the word despite how i mean with it then i wouldn't use it.
but to me its not with any malice or with any insult towards a woman when i say this word. Maybe other dudes might but me i do not.
yes exactly. you got it
I'm not really sure on the distinction so how about you tell me?
For me both physical looks and personality are equally important. If the woman is only super gorgeous but her personality is super bad then I will just ignore that woman.
u Semantics, semantics... but I would choose the cute one. The hot one gets too much attention from the wrong people.
A cute girl is so much prettier in my eyes than a glamorous 'hot' woman - and to me, cuteness is much more naturally feminine + sensual !
As a guy, my girlfriend is cute & hot.
I don't know why it can’t be both. She is spicy and cuddly lol what can I say?
@apple1996 Thank you! I love her for both sides, couldn’t have one without the other
cute is a very general term i think. and hot is i think as something that wake up your primal side. i think guys can relate being called beautiful or handsome.
Cute girls can be hot too & hot girls also can look cute depends on how they groom & style themselves.
And then there is me, who says "all cute girls are hot and all hot girls are cute in my opinion!"
Cute for a steady relationship. And cute for a friendship.
Hot is difficult to handle. You might get burned easily :)
There is no difference anymore. The cute girls have all become narcissists due to Instagram.
Thanks lol
Hot seems to eventually turn into trashy as she gets older.
I love hot girls, but a cute girl can also be very sexy and desirable.
Intelligent, preferably. Looks can change in a heartbeat. I don't care about things like "cute" or "hot".
Cute is what you call kittens and puppies.
I prefer hot girls, because they are more likely to be dominant.
Cute girls are usually passive/submissive.
Interesting I'm not sure that's true but okay
You think cute girls are dominant?
They could be
Maybe, I've never met a cute dominant girl... they are usually hot.
If apple is cute then I date cute woman
If apple is hot then I date hot woman. 🥺
50/50, don't care. It matters more what kind of woman she is.
Reply to update: Why would you be insulted? Cute is a type of "hot". Both just mean "attractive" but in slightly different ways. Stop overthinking...
If I were single I'd go with cute. Though actually personality would be the main factor, and if she's stinking rich it would be a bonus
Cute is more my style. Cute is still very sexy, but it also seems more inviting.
Still stand by my statement that cuet can be as sexy if not more than hot.
I feel like hot guys go for hot girls average guys like cute girls. Cute comes with a lot of personality and sense of humor. Hot is more mysterious and not as much emotional connection.
Make mine cute anytime. The Hot ones are being pursued by all of the Horny Dogs out there.
Most are probably not worth the added grief of guys hitting on them! When you go out in public.
Cute babe. It depends on her personality and behavior actually. I'm fine either way.
I'm more into the cute women although I got no beef with the hotties
I'll tell you the truth, the pretty one during the day for coffee and movie dates and the sexy one at night in clubs and alcohol
I used to always date the cute girls. MYbe this time I go with the hot one
I happened to end up with one that's both :D
At the risk of showing my age... The one with the biggest...
One who is faithful and who adores me. Looks are far down my list of priorities.
Men prefer a woman who is hot for a casual dating.
Men prefer a woman who is cute for marriage.
I think of "hot" being just sexy, but "cute" is pretty plus personality.
I would go for the hot girl, unless the cute one is kinder to me.
Hot girls are the worst in every real measurable aspect of life. Avoid them like the plague
I'd say more than the plague. Usually, the plague will at least allow You to die quickly.
I don't choose. She has to be both. And she can be.
She would have to be cute dainty beautiful pretty etc. And that would be only assuming I was looking for someone.
I've always dated girls that I thought were cute.
They will have a cute girl as a escort hot girl as a sugar baby bimbo as wife
I will take cute. Hot is generally too dangerous in the long run.
Hot means a longer list of priors. Cute means a shorter one.
@Apple1996 generally true
@Kingofkings1992 cute women are more desirable just look at the poll. They could easily rack up more bodies. Hotter women get ignored cuz men are intimidated by them so less bodies
Nope. Hot is more desirable for sex. Cute is better for marriage
@Kingofkings1992 even if they're more desirable for sex a lot of men pass up apporaching hot women
And no, men are not intimidated by women
@Kingofkings1992 and i think that's just the Madonna whore complex your kind of saying tbh. Which is a gross way to categorize women
@Kingofkings1992 that's a lie men are intimidated by me but because I'm ugly lol
You don’t understand what being intimidated is
@Apple1996 The problem with polls is that the answers are always rational (at least according to those who chose their respective answers). Put men in front of an actual pair of women, one cute and one hot, and Your results will be much more realistic. Even I would initially feel drawn to the hot woman. The trick is, I have learned to act against my instincts in this matter (and in most other matters, honestly), and the lesson almost cost me my life, so it definitely did sink in.
@CalmUntilAbused yep they're saying one thing but irl they'd choose differently
Can't they be both?
"Hit" women are nothing but trouble.
@CalmUntilAbused. I got you. Let me go find my gold tooth and brass knuckles.
Sexy women are actually just promiscuous women.
first wanna be hot... then cute will make me fallen for her
I’d rather date a cute one. I mean you know me, even better if she wore regular panties.
Hot. But the ideal is a mix
Cute still means attractive but it's more of just attractive enough thing like one step up from being average. It's fine coming from other people but in a romantic relationship a man should be thinking hisbgf/wife is more than just cute. Hot is more of a sexually desirable type of compliment. It's fine to think a woman is both but the only cute thing is insulting especially when many men prioritize sex so much.
Cute because I have a small penis,
What's do telling about a guy that wants to be with a cute girl?
Cute is the best thing for relationships
@Apple1996 why do you always say the total opposite of what is reality? Obviously you don’t want your partner to be with you because sex appeal. a relationship built on that is doomed.
2 separate things entirely
Nope
You want your partner to make love you, not to fuck you. Massive difference
To you*
Hot, of course.
To me cute is hot!
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