Men, would you rather date a cute girl or a hot girl? Why?

[Anonymous]

Cute girl

Hot girl

[Miristheiss]

Cute girl.

The secret is... any girl that is cute CAN become hot. It is just usually is a private setting. She doesn't walk around being "hot" at work, with friends, at the grocery... in all facets of life. She may dress and make herself hot at specific times.

Hot girls usually just walk around flaunting sexuality 24/7... without every single person they are ever around. It might be nice to glance at a stranger and see some sex appeal... but many don't really want that for a girlfriend/wife.

[TwinTonyz]

While it's a generalization I think it stands pretty firm. Girls who are typically described as hot maintain their appearance as a significant part of their lives and identity. That likely will turn to several hours out of their day spent maintaining or preparing to maintain their looks.

There is a latency effect on life, in that once their looks start to wane their priorities are likely going to change. That change could end up seeing me out of the picture.

Last is preference, I've always been into the girl next door type, tomboy's, and evidently I have a disposition towards women who tend to turn out as trans or lesbians. 2 celebrity crushes from my highschool days, Jessie Nowack and Ellen Page, transitioned to men.

[coachTanthony]

---------I want to date a girl who is REAL. Who makes me LAUGH. Who has her shit together. That girl can be cute or hot it doesn't really matter it's what is inside that matters the most.

"A person's actions will tell you everything you need to know."
~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

[JSmuve]

Why do you keep getting downvoted by everyone? Honestly, what did you do? Run someone's dog down in the streets?

[coachTanthony]

@JSmuve Winners focus on winning. Losers focus on winners. Jealousy my man Jealousy.

[Konztvntyne]

@JSmuve That's exactly what I thought as well. Whatever he said wasn't anything wrong.

[TheorionMage]

'Cute' girls can elect to BE 'hot'...
most prevalent public example is Hollywood's 'take' on the fictional 'Velma Dinkley' 'tarted up' for her date, in that leather fitted 'cat suit'~ Imagine an intelligent female CHOOSING not unlike an insightful fisherman, to alluringly 'merchandize' her "Self" to her 'targeted' Beau! IF you don't think of him "in THAT way" ... what you CLAIM you want is a PLATONIC 'friend'~ Or, are YOU just too timid to make the effort?
WHOM are you 'saving it' for?

There's an excellent FB meme which counsels:
"BE the 'Good Girl' he loves, ... BE the 'Bad Girl' he desires;
BE the 'Naughty Girl' he lusts; BE the 'Lady' he worships~" <3 ;)

[bamesjond0069]

Cute is a subset of general beauty. But beautiful is more defined as sharper features where cute is rounder features that give a youthful or child like appearance.

"Hotness" is actually a rating more of sexual availability. Dressing like a stripper is HOT but the same girl dressed in normal clothes with no makeup is not hot although she may be beautiful or cute or something else. Red lipstick is a sign of sexuality as well as showing cleavage or more skin. Just some examples.

***I worked in modeling and pornography industry for quite a few years.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

A cute girl will have more modesty and not be so stuck on themselves. Hot girls tend to be hung up on their looks and loves the attention they get from other guys. Cute girls display more personality than a hot girl. They are free to be themselves, like talk nerdy stuff, they aren't afraid to drive in and get dirty.

[Lliam]

I prefer cute, petite, fit, flexible girls with womanly bodies, you know, normal, feminine curves, nicely shaped boobs that aren't too large or too small; rounded hips; nice plump, round butts; shapely legs with slender, tapered thighs. I don't care for giant boobs, super big hips or thunder thighs.
I prefer a cute face as opposed to what fashion and media consider "beautiful". I don't care for high cheek bones, big lips or lots of makeup. .

[DrGrin]

Why do the girl want to be hot? Because she wants to make impression. A cute girl is just herself. When you are on a date, you want to enjoy the time with your partner, but most of the people don't feel hot enough themselves for a hot girl, so it can be cringe. With a cute girl in the other hand you can feel more comfortable yourself.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Someone where we both love each other, cate about each other, are in love with each other, respect each othern be loyal to each other etc. Someone I can laugh with and have fun with. Someone I can have romance and intimacy with. Someone that will help out with the importsnt stuff once we live together.
Luckily I have that already with my girlfriend.

[jamiematt]

Cute girl... if you're talking about personality. She will be caring, friendly, respectful and that will make me want to be doubly loving, caring, friendly and respectful to her.

Hot girl... not because, Im not exactly a hunk, and not that I would not try to match up to her, I still feel somewhere down the line, things won't work out or Ill get betrayed. Just a thought... not saying hot girls are not good. Just Im not a hot guy.

[ShadezMcgee]

Depends on the personality. I have dated both cute and hot, but if their personality is shit or that of a plank of wood, then I want nothing to do with them.

[NamerOfStars]

Can you define your terms, or at least give some examples? Different people use those same words to mean different things.