Men, would you rather date a cute girl or a hot girl? Why?

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TwinTonyz · Accepted Answer

While it's a generalization I think it stands pretty firm. Girls who are typically described as hot maintain their appearance as a significant part of their lives and identity. That likely will turn to several hours out of their day spent maintaining or preparing to maintain their looks.

There is a latency effect on life, in that once their looks start to wane their priorities are likely going to change. That change could end up seeing me out of the picture.

Last is preference, I've always been into the girl next door type, tomboy's, and evidently I have a disposition towards women who tend to turn out as trans or lesbians. 2 celebrity crushes from my highschool days, Jessie Nowack and Ellen Page, transitioned to men.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Cute girl.

The secret is... any girl that is cute CAN become hot. It is just usually is a private setting. She doesn't walk around being "hot" at work, with friends, at the grocery... in all facets of life. She may dress and make herself hot at specific times.

Hot girls usually just walk around flaunting sexuality 24/7... without every single person they are ever around. It might be nice to glance at a stranger and see some sex appeal... but many don't really want that for a girlfriend/wife.

coachTanthony · Answer

---------I want to date a girl who is REAL. Who makes me LAUGH. Who has her shit together. That girl can be cute or hot it doesn't really matter it's what is inside that matters the most.

"A person's actions will tell you everything you need to know."
~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

TheorionMage · Answer

'Cute' girls can elect to BE 'hot'...
most prevalent public example is Hollywood's 'take' on the fictional 'Velma Dinkley' 'tarted up' for her date, in that leather fitted 'cat suit'~ Imagine an intelligent female CHOOSING not unlike an insightful fisherman, to alluringly 'merchandize' her "Self" to her 'targeted' Beau! IF you don't think of him "in THAT way" ... what you CLAIM you want is a PLATONIC 'friend'~ Or, are YOU just too timid to make the effort?
WHOM are you 'saving it' for?

There's an excellent FB meme which counsels:
"BE the 'Good Girl' he loves, ... BE the 'Bad Girl' he desires;
BE the 'Naughty Girl' he lusts; BE the 'Lady' he worships~" <3 ;)

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Cute is a subset of general beauty. But beautiful is more defined as sharper features where cute is rounder features that give a youthful or child like appearance.

"Hotness" is actually a rating more of sexual availability. Dressing like a stripper is HOT but the same girl dressed in normal clothes with no makeup is not hot although she may be beautiful or cute or something else. Red lipstick is a sign of sexuality as well as showing cleavage or more skin. Just some examples.

***I worked in modeling and pornography industry for quite a few years.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

A cute girl will have more modesty and not be so stuck on themselves. Hot girls tend to be hung up on their looks and loves the attention they get from other guys. Cute girls display more personality than a hot girl. They are free to be themselves, like talk nerdy stuff, they aren't afraid to drive in and get dirty.

Lliam · Answer

I prefer cute, petite, fit, flexible girls with womanly bodies, you know, normal, feminine curves, nicely shaped boobs that aren't too large or too small; rounded hips; nice plump, round butts; shapely legs with slender, tapered thighs. I don't care for giant boobs, super big hips or thunder thighs.
I prefer a cute face as opposed to what fashion and media consider "beautiful". I don't care for high cheek bones, big lips or lots of makeup. .

DrGrin · Answer

Why do the girl want to be hot? Because she wants to make impression. A cute girl is just herself. When you are on a date, you want to enjoy the time with your partner, but most of the people don't feel hot enough themselves for a hot girl, so it can be cringe. With a cute girl in the other hand you can feel more comfortable yourself.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Someone where we both love each other, cate about each other, are in love with each other, respect each othern be loyal to each other etc. Someone I can laugh with and have fun with. Someone I can have romance and intimacy with. Someone that will help out with the importsnt stuff once we live together.
Luckily I have that already with my girlfriend.

jamiematt · Answer

Cute girl... if you're talking about personality. She will be caring, friendly, respectful and that will make me want to be doubly loving, caring, friendly and respectful to her.

Hot girl... not because, Im not exactly a hunk, and not that I would not try to match up to her, I still feel somewhere down the line, things won't work out or Ill get betrayed. Just a thought... not saying hot girls are not good. Just Im not a hot guy.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Depends on the personality. I have dated both cute and hot, but if their personality is shit or that of a plank of wood, then I want nothing to do with them.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Can you define your terms, or at least give some examples? Different people use those same words to mean different things.

blank_expression · Answer

Actually, I don’t care even if she is moderately ugly as long as she is wet and assertive about wanting to f.

ZackBan · Answer

What's the factor that takes a girl from cute to hot. If it's just cup size then I like them in the middle. Cute but at the same time somewhat hot.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

'Cute' and 'hot' are not on my list of importance. Loyalty and honesty trump both of those attributes for me.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Cute is natural hot usually comes with a high upkeep costs and more issues.

Gosceewual · Answer

both are like the same thing to me/../ if a girl is cute... she's also hot.. if a girl is hot... she's cute too, they both go hand in hand

hahahmm · Answer

Whichever one respects me and respects herself. Anything else can hit the road.

Lionman95 · Answer

A cute girl because I think a hot girl would more likely cheat on me.

MCheetah · Answer

Cute. Hot girls tend to be arrogant and full of themselves from all the attention.

clampfan101 · Answer

Cute girls are more likely to stay cute forever than hot girls are to stay hot forever, and I want a lifetime relationship. Plus I think cuteness is extremely attractive.

jwatson4000 · Answer

Well... u for starters 😘 Cute girl bc when I think of cute, I think personality too and looks. Hot to me means full of themselves.  The key word tho is date... hit? That's different

crmoore · Answer

Cute girl. Because I just find cuteness more attractive. 🤷‍♂️ I'm not sure if I can explain it too much beyond that. Maybe it's just the way my brain is wired.

Devlaw5 · Answer

In no way am I speaking for all cute or hot girls, but in my experience, cute girls tend to be more humble, while hot girls tend to be more pushy and arrogant, both of which tend to be misplaced.

Iron_Man · Answer

Cute girl I don’t wanna a girl that’s real hot and plays the field to get what she wants out of a man I don’t believe in competing over a women Because it looks bad on her for allowing it

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I would prefer dating the cute girl... hot girls are constantly flexing and it's really exhausting.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I like hot, cute girls. I usually go for cute, but I won't kick out hot, unless she's on OF or something like that. I would really go for, not insane.

britishbby · Answer

I feel like these go hand in hand tbh... Apart from cute can also be "fat" and usually u think of hot as not

2ndTryatThis · Answer

This picture is a good example that the same girl can be both.. so I guess it depends. If I could only chose one: cute; because it lasts longer.. but I like girls who are both

JSmuve · Answer

Why not both? Why must a guy choose one when he can date both of them at the same time.

Browneye57 · Answer

Cute girls ARE hot. They're one and the same in a man's eyes.

Aether1 · Answer

Cute girls because they are more down to earth and don't have high standards versus hot girls.

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