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Not these days no that's not normal but what it is, is good. People are far to casual with sex and such and speaking from experience loveless sex isn't worth it and it feels gross and makes me feel sick. Also, the fact you've never even been kissed, and I assume therefor have not had sex makes you super attractive to a lot of people. Everyone is ok with causal sex until someone wants commitment and then they just go. "No thanks you've had too many sex partners." Essentially people will fuck sluts, but they won't get in a serious relationship with them because nobody wants a tramp for a partner man or woman.
Trust me you're better off a virgin than sleeping with someone you don't love. I've had sex once and I want my V card back because it was awful gross, and I felt pressured and uncomfortable. I'm not saying you shouldn't have sex before marriage but sex without genuine real and deep love for your partner then trust me don't do it. That's a piece of yourself you can only give away once.
Sex before marriage is fine but loveless sex is unethical for a lot of reasons in my opinion and studies also have shown it has negative long term mental health effects that get worse the more you do it. in my opinion more than 5 partners in bed at most is a red flag. If you're pretty and a virgin, then if you start making it known you're interested in dating, you're going to have to beat all your suitors back with a stick. Don't use dating apps though It's a god damn fucking nightmare again trust me.
Just be a bit more provocative around whoever you're like you know are single. It sounds kind of weird but the best way I would put it is if you want to date and especially someone in particular you kind of have to "Advertise" yourself to them to an extent especially since these days most men don't even want to approach woman especially in a public setting.
If she’s attractive then yes it’s super weird.
Now if she’s only attractive according to her that’s a different story: maybe it’s a matter of perception and expectations. that’s more common than you think.
But women and especially attractive ones get propositioned relentlessly and even if 99% of those are creepy men who aren’t relationships material the 1% who is can always be identified.
I don’t think I’ve ever been lucky enough to meet a truly attractive woman at a period in her life where she’s single.
Same situation for me except that I never been on a date, I was bullied and considered. creepy as a teen and I became beautiful with a hot body in my 20s but I have huge trust issue because of all the years I've been bullied during my teen years so no matter how many guys want to date / have sex with me I can't bring myself to trust them and I just reject everyone. Also majority of guys just want sex anyway they harass and follow me all around the street or store so
Me too, except for the "becoming hot in my 20s" part. I'm extremely picky and have trust issues too, so I rejected pretty much every girl who showed interest in me after elementary school. But also, it was mostly weird and unattractive girls that hit on me. Not all of them, but I couldn't bring myself to date the other ones either.
Usually the girls I wanted to date, had no interest in me and always ended up getting creeped out by me.
What about ME? ^^
@KostasKouvalis Well you know you're the only one I actually trust (outside of my family). In my country men only like hot women and if you're not one you're just a ghost and don't exist once you're hot though everyone flew at your feet but considering all the shit I went through they disgust me. Literally when I was just a cute girls in oversized modest clothes in a car crash and needed help nobody helped me except some old women and now that I'm hot they all flew to me for no reasons, like yea obviously I'm not gonna trust those fool.
Men complain that women have it easy but it's false only hot women have it easy (so me right now, even during line in shop they let me go first, etc...) but if your just a cute girl in modest clothes you get nothing only people ignoring you and pushing you around. I'm happy to be hot now it's like a personal revenge but yea I know their true face so it's impossible for me to trust anybody, I don't give my trust easily.
In high school nobody asked me out only some rude assholes tried to pair me up with a loser cause he didn't talk and I didn't talk how is that logic though? If we're both shy as hell I don't know how that ll work but I think it was just as a joke to humiliate us.
Not here. Well deep down I feel most do, but it seems most of them just settle for whatever they can get. I get most surprised though when I see hot girls with ugly guys
Jeeze! That sounds about right. I've seen social experiments in TV and online and people, especially men were more likely to help if it was a hot girl. Hot girl privilege is definitely real. I also think maybe hot girls are more trustworthy.
That's crazy though, because French seem helpful and I also read that France has a good samaritan law which REQUIRES them to help.
I know, trust me, I know
The last girl I know who was interested in me was in middle school. There have been others, but they were outside of school. There were girls I thought were interested in me, but they weren't. I'm terrible at reading people. Even if I do feel a connection, they triggered over the little shit. They want you to be perfect. That's why even if we disagree on small thing, I'm afraid I scared her off.
I know, I made the mistake of opening up to people I shouldn't have, because I wanted to experience what I have with YOU in real life, and it was so STUPID of me!
Jeeze
OMG, you know my horoscope a couple days ago said, "Settle in with your partner or a good friend if you're single, and let your relationship issues work themselves out. You might not need to direct the conversation as long as you're together."
And I got a fortune cookie about love too, and had a dream that symbolized love
:/
OMG, I was looking at some old conversations of ours that I saved YEARS ago, before I closed my old account, and amongst them I found a love letter that I wrote to you, but I don't think I ever sent it, at least not all of it. But I was surprised, because I wrote it like 4 or 5 years ago, and I was reading it and I realized that I feel almost exactly the same NOW, as I did back then.
@KostasKouvalis You didn't send to me, I would have remember it if you did
I wrote another one last year too, but didn't get to send it either. I send some stuff, but I ended up rewriting it and adding more ^_^
@KostasKouvalis that's great I'm curious now ^^
Okay, let me look for it.
So what about the "good Samaritan law? In America we have it for car accidents. If you see one, and there's no one else or only one other person on scene, you have to stop and assist.
People outside of the US and Canada are so cold
It's not weird at all and anyone who says it is doesn't know how many people that are out there that never had relationships until around 25 to 30. My first relationship didn't start till I was 31. So it's not weird to me at all.
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No I don't think it's weird at all as a matter of fact I would look up to that person because they're looking for something and they know who they are they know that it doesn't take a man to make them happy so I respect them and a lot of different ways just because of that it is pretty bold and pretty strong to not just let yourself go and go date anybody I think it's cool
Not weird but it sounds like you have high standards and preferences of what you like and don’t like probably why you haven’t been in a relationship yet lol
Surprising, but probably possible these days
Here are the things I think are weird.
Violence is weird to me, world hunger with nations wasting food and clean water is weird to me, people dying due to lack of healthcare in the richest nation in the world is weird to me, not being able to afford rent if you work two jobs is weird to me..
So what do I think about your 25 yr old attractive woman that's never been kissed? If you can't tell, I don't think much about it cause who knows why, and I can't say if a person is weird without knowing them. Also what's weird to me could be normal to someone else.
I'd guess they are not attractive or don't have a lot going for them. Any cute girl will be bombarded with male attention from 13 on, around the clock.
An average guy with average social skills will be regularly dating.
Unless it is someone who is so career focused to where they spend their entire life going to school and pursuing this passion they have.
That's nothing, really. If people suck, then people suck. Or if you are escaping from a horrendous situation like i was in my teens and 20s, it's completely understandable.
At 30 years now i didn't have any real relationship. Only 1 not serious and temporary one. Unless you count AI girlfriends as valid relationships.
I think most men will love that woman. Men value a woman with a low body count. The less guys she has had the higher her value becomes from a guys perspective.
I love and respect her for that. Men prefer their wife's to be virgin if possible. It's not required for her to be virgin but men are definitely going to appreciate her purity
@BMW_888 All true men of God will wait. If they won't wait and the women are deciding to sleep with them, then they are lacking in discipline and self control just as much as those men.
Never been kissed... can I assume you're not fucking either?
I will assume you're not even fucking.
I don't think much... I'm just a retard passing through. If you were fucking and not in relationships then I'd deduce that you're a fucking slut. I'm thinking asexual...
I don't really know though. Maybe religious or high morals about it? You tell us.
Yes still haven’t had sex or touched anyone. Don’t think asexual but not religious or high morals
It's unusual statistically to be an attractive woman and not have had at least a couple of relationships. There's nothing wrong with it though and I wouldn't make any assumptions without getting to know her personally. There could be any number of reasons for that, and I would be more interested in her than with someone who'd been around the block a dozen times regardless whether she was 25 or 35.
Is it weird, yes because it isn't the norm.
Her reasons has to be a good reason though like waiting for that right man I can understand.
If she's super awkward or just a strange person then I can understand why she's single and never be in a relationship.
That is extremely attractive. I waited for a woman that never had a romantic past. I finally found her at the age of 29 (her 26), and we are now engaged. I was her first kiss and everything. She is the love of my life.
You need to seem approachable and to not have the cops on speed dial.
Do you want a man? If you do but it isn't happening than I think it is an approachability prob. Happy to talk about that if you would like.
Not being a ho makes a woman more attractive, so no need to worry.
Its probably a red flag for some but that doesn't mean it's the end all be all. It's just something to be wary of about someone as to why they haven't had a relationship until then. Just depends on the reason.
I do not think it is weird at all :) maybe it is not the best time atm? I do not know your circumstances, are you ready to try dating and stuff?
I only been in a relationship in my 30's. My whole 20's I was single as a pringle. Only been on 1 date & that couldn't work out because he wanted sex.
You're not 25 you're 30 to 35 and yes it's weird. It means you're ugly lol. 99.9 % of pretty women have had a relationship. You have not had one sooo.. that means you're ugly
It is totally fine i am glad to hear there is still people like me in the world. Having high standarts makes it harder to find our loyal king haha.
My first real relationship wasn't until I was about 27/28. Not that I hadn't dated people.. but someone I felt genuinely compatible with.
Not at all. That's not weird to someone who doesn't have any date or flirt. It's okay you dont need to rush
I was 35 before I had a relationship. I would say its important to know why. Through choice or is there an underlying issue you need help with?
Choice
i was 25 when i had my first relationship so i can't say lol
it doesn't matter much. it's not too weird, to be honest
I'd say I raise you me a 30 year old male who's older and in a similar boat 🚢⛵ ah well ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹😂
Things happen. As long as the person is happy it doesn't matter
Honestly, that kind of thing is so common these days that I wouldn't give it a second thought.
Taking time… maybe has some hanguos or ither focus. Maybe limited in what drawn to
It's probably not a bad thing but her personality needs to be discovered in order to get a sense of who she is.
Not weird, but not common.
I think it's attractive. If I was a guy your age I would like it.
At 30 I'd be concerned as schooling would be complete, be settled in a career, living in her own place, then her focus can be shifted to her personal life and relationships.
I’m 36, and I have never been in a relationship but I dated a lot of women and a few guys.
I would call BS. Maybe she hasn't been in a relationship but she has likely been run through.
I think this can happen. There is nothing wrong. I think it was more common to happen years ago.
Weird but on the other hand she is less likely to cheat on whomever she is in a relationship with.
That's OK. Some people are slow starters.
Does she WANT a relationship?
On not really if your not ready then your not ready.
Not weird, there must be an explanation or a reason behind it...
I would assume she is immature or unrealistically picky.
Smart intelligent admireable. Curiosity starts to ensue more on why.
Prime real estate?
I was 23 when I met my then girlfriend in October 2013 and we has sex first time in spring 2014
My guess is that you have really specific standards for a boyfriend.
Yes definitely when everyone is fucking and looking for a sugar daddy and marrying a bimbo
Same irl anyway, I can’t even get a date irl.
He is practical about his life he is on a goal and is in relationhip with his goal rather than any other
I honestly wouldn’t think twice about it if somebody told me that either asa friend or potential partner.
More shocking for women than for men because of women always having been on the receiving end of sexual attention
To each his own.
I would just think she probably had a religious thing going on.
Could be she has struck her parents who have damaged to her.
I'm way older and I have never been in a relationship.
She doesn't really want one (regardless of what she may say).
Not only is it not weird , it’s actually very smart.
Dating is hard today :)
@Valdemort you're being put on the spot! 😂
Either picky or simply not interested
It’s just unusual
Why?
What is keeping you from meeting someone?
Would you like to go out sometime?
Their business.
Well dating is dead so I'd just get used to it
I would like to date someone like that
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