I am 30 year old male and I have to ask is dating worth it right now?

[icedragoom]

[incorrected]

It's extremely hard right now. You should expect literally hundreds of rejections and bad dates before finding someone. 80% of men are invisible to women and it's hard enough to even get dates. There aren't really any third spaces to meet women, which just leaves work and dating sites. At work there's always the risk of getting sent to HR for a talking to or firing, and online there's an 8 men to every 1 woman ratio on dating sites, and they're picking pretty much only the top 30% of guys, with the top 20% taking 80% of women. The ones that are left are usually obese and otherwise unattractive. When you try to talk with them, it's all one word answers and low effort, and if you do manage to get dates it usually results in ghosting. Things will seem to be going well, several dates in or even sometimes months worth of dating, and then they'll just ghost because they chose one of the other plates they were spinning instead.

It's hard out there!

[Zack-Bann]

As worth it as ever.


It’s not easy. Expect rejections or people who have their own issues which will mess up the whole thing.


But it’s not as hard as many make it out to be especially on the internet.


Don’t think too hard just go for it and you might even enjoy it

[Nikki1989]

It is always worth it if you are worth dating in the first place. Time wasters just get in the way.

[icedragoom]

Ty haven't really been on a date in 19 years so been a bit hard trying to talk and or get to know some one else when all they want to be is stuck on there phone