Are there women out there who will date a man who makes less money than them? Do healthy relationships like that exist?

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Don't get me wrong I'm not looking for the woman to pay for everything, I'm not asking that she provide for me, it's just that I don't have a stable career yet at the moment and that makes me wonder if I don't have a stable career yet if that means a dating life is completely out of the question for me at the moment.

Are there healthy relationships or healthy couples out there in which the woman makes more money than the man?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying that these are the type of women I'm solely aiming for.

It's just that, I'm not in a financially stable career or position yet in my life at the moment so because of that I feel that might impact or affect my dating options.

I am employed I do work and I do have a car I drive, even though I still live with my folks. I moved back in with my folks after previously living with roommates.

Just wondering if there are women out there who will Overlook that in men if the man has other great positive qualities going for him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. Because I've got 4 sisters and they're all in relationships like that. Good women are not drawn to a man's paycheck. But you do have to understand in the modern sense an income is "protection" to a woman and it helps a woman to be attracted to a man when she feels he can protect her. You know this already. But understand a woman beliefs are seldom rooted in any sort of reality. This is why guys who are dirtbag liars succeed with them. Because these guys generally lie better than Any other guy.

A good, smart woman will see the character in you. So don't worry about how much money you have If you know you got the drive. Because man with character will always come out on top. Even if it's not right away. Amd a good woman knows this.

msc545 · Accepted Answer

Maybe just for sex, and it would be temporary. To women money is more important than anything else.

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

I totally make more than my boyfriend and it doesn't bother me in the slightest.

I think it bothers men more because of male ego and feeling like they have to be the protector and provider for their family/partner. In reality, as long as both are contributing both financially and around the house, then most women will be happy.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Is this a real question? Jeez, dude, get out more often. When I met my husband, he didn't even have a job and even though he has a good career now, I still make 5 times more than he does.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Yes. Money doesn't matter much to me.. so long as you can pay your own way

Anonymous · Answer

i imagine its definetley possible

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